Intimacy
This chapter argues that where narrativity ends, intimacy may begin. The clinical encounter is an aesthetic experience. One must dodge the scientific rationalism in order to preserve the phenomenological understanding and achieve an understanding of the meaning of a clinical situation as felt, rather than simply assessing objective signs and symptoms. The acceptance of atmospheres as clinically relevant phenomena is ultimately related to the acknowledgement of the ambiguous nature of the clinical encounter. The clinical encounter is an event suspended between the pathic and the linguistic domains of experience, an open event that invites participation, and must remain so in order to preserve the phenomenological precision. Intimacy is an atmosphere in which both partners feel a sense of connectedness and a shared understanding. It can be encapsulated in the formula ‘aloneness–togetherness’—sharing one’s own aloneness with another person. Intimacy is the meeting of two solitudes. This relatedness is transformational.