The interesting thing about things that evolve, is that they rarely recall what they evolved from. Nativist or empiricist, innate grammars or reinforced learning, every time a child is born, that child must start over and reacquire a language its forebears have spoken for millennia. This paper argues that humans seem innate with respect to language acquisition, because we have forgotten how far back it was learned. Perhaps we, as humans with needs like commerce and the need to record transactions, discovered that our infinite diversity of subjective perceptions required a similar diversity of ways to express it, which we call language. The bonobo Kanzi evinced that when learning is intrinsic to the species and motivated by group need and peer exchanges, animal language limits begin to vanish. Humans are not special, only familiar with how we have conversed for millennia, yet somehow amnestic about how this came to be familiar. The advent of machines capable of mimicking human verbal responses raises the age-old question of whether humans are simply machines. Yet all that speech technology has taught us, is that knowledge acquisition is a conscious effort to comprehend and express; no machine can equal what a conscious urgency can surprise us with. Building machines that can talk to one another has not resolved the nature-nurture debate, but taught us that it is in our nature to need nurture, and it is during nurture we need language to help us find it. This paper will evince that innateness is the amnestic part of nurture, and nurture the amnestic part of nature; speech technology only reinforces the insight that we learn and grow through this struggle to remember—then we forget the struggle, preserving only the learning. Each new life learns to recall what was lost, by reliving the struggle.