Object Relations Couple Therapy

Author(s):  
Yolanda de Varela
Author(s):  
Anne Power

This article provides a brief overview of emotionally focused couple therapy (EFT) along with some reservations about the method. The article considers questions and critiques which are often raised about the model and does so from the point of view of a practitioner new to the method, who has become convinced of the value of the approach whilst not wanting to jettison an object relations understanding. The segregation between different groups of attachment researchers and practitioners is noted. To provide variation I occasionally use the term "marital" but I do so loosely, referring to a couple bond rather than to a wedded pair. The systemic pattern between a pursuer and a withdrawer which is discussed here could refer to a same-sex or a heterosexual couple, despite the different gender alignments which operate in each case.


2015 ◽  
Vol 5 (1) ◽  
Author(s):  
Amita Sehgal

This paper describes how the emotional states of shame and humiliation are interconnected. Recent neurophysiological findings are drawn on together with an appreciation of the developmental significance of shame in mother–infant interactions in the first two years of life to explain the importance of the application of these concepts to couple therapy. Object relations theory is also cited to explore some of the unconscious dynamics that might be operating in couples where shame and humiliation form the core of their relational dynamic. This is followed by the description of how partners can be helped to manage the other's shame effectively and, in so doing, give rise to a novel and much longed-for experience within the relationship. Finally, the clinical challenges of working with shame and humiliation in couple psychotherapy are considered.


1997 ◽  
Vol 51 (2) ◽  
pp. 141-173 ◽  
Author(s):  
Jill Savege Scharff ◽  
David E. Scharff

2013 ◽  
Vol 3 (1) ◽  
Author(s):  
David Scharff

Aggressive symptomatology presents clinicians with some of the most difficult problems in couple therapy practice. This contribution is a primer on the developmental origins of aggression, beginning with a differentiation between benign and malignant aggression in individuals, and following this with a look at some interpersonal origins of aggression. It describes some clinical problems involving verbal and physical aggression, and outlines management strategies for these issues. Several brief clinical examples illustrate aggressive dynamics in couples, the defences against them, and clinical approaches the author has found useful.


2019 ◽  
Vol 59 (1) ◽  
pp. 10-20
Author(s):  
Judith P. Siegel

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