scholarly journals An online sensate focus application to treat sexual desire discrepancy in intimate relationships: contrasting case studies

Author(s):  
Laura M. Vowels
Author(s):  
Torbjörn Bildtgård ◽  
Peter Öberg

Until recently the sex life of older people was more or less invisible in family and gerontological research. This chapter contributes to breaking this silence by focusing on the role and meaning of sex in intimate relationships in later life. Based on biographical case studies, the chapter investigates how sexual norms have changed over the life course of contemporary cohorts of older people and how they have experienced this change. The chapter considers sexual intimacy as part of new intimate relationships established late in life and questions the persistent assumption that older people who date are primarily looking for companionate relationships. It is shown that older people’s ideas about sex are deeply embedded in an ideology of love, where sex tends to be viewed as a natural part of a loving relationship, while sex outside of a loving relationship – also in a loveless marriage – is frowned on.


2019 ◽  
Vol 39 (3_suppl) ◽  
pp. 26S-41S
Author(s):  
Mariko Hamaya

Case studies of male–female ascetic couples in Haridwar in North India complicate the widespread knowledge that male Hindu renouncers are supposed to observe celibacy. Based on extended ethnographic work, this article investigates specifically how female ascetics tackle the dominant androcentric discourses and practise celibacy from a female point of view, focussing on their practice of sevā or spiritual service. The article argues that while female ascetics do not object to the androcentric ideology of celibacy, they follow it only partly, switching their focus from sexual abstinence to devotional sevā. Doing this, female ascetics value controlling emotion more than controlling sexual desire. Through the practice of sevā, they aim for fostering an attitude of devotion as a feminised manifestation of their efforts towards reaching spiritual attainment.


2020 ◽  
Vol 49 (3) ◽  
pp. 1017-1028
Author(s):  
Laura M. Vowels ◽  
Kristen P. Mark

2008 ◽  
Vol 94 (5) ◽  
pp. 808-823 ◽  
Author(s):  
Emily A. Impett ◽  
Amy Strachman ◽  
Eli J. Finkel ◽  
Shelly L. Gable

2015 ◽  
Vol 45 (2) ◽  
pp. 116-133
Author(s):  
Tricia Marie Van Rhijn ◽  
Sarah H. Murray ◽  
Robert C. Mizzi

Through the use of mixed qualitative and quantitative methods, the current study explored the impact of postsecondary study on the intimate relationships and school experiences of partnered mature students. Quantitative regression analyses indicated that parental status, family support, partner support, and sexual desire significantly predicted relationship satisfaction, while family support and partner support significantly predicted sexual satisfaction. Age and sexual desire predicted school satisfaction for women only. Through qualitative thematic analysis it was determined that not having enough time, feeling too tired, and being stressed negatively impacted sexual satisfaction, while experiencing personal growth was described as both beneficial and problematic. Some participants reported using sex to aid in their academic success by way of offering a distraction or reducing stress. We discuss possible ways that postsecondary institutions, through their campus programs, can better address the impact school may have on mature students’ intimate relationships.  


2020 ◽  
pp. 125-136
Author(s):  
Leslie Margolin

“Men’s Free Will” examines how differently sex therapy unfolds when a heterosexual male presents with the problem of low sexual desire—how heterosexual men are often treated more respectfully, more attentively, and more generously than heterosexual women. This chapter shows that for sex therapists, a man’s position in his marital orbit need not adapt to his wife’s needs. She must adapt to his. Through examination of contemporary case studies, the chapter examines how heterosexual men with low sexual desire not only present as more sexually intransigent than heterosexual women, but that their intransigence is more likely to be accepted by their spouse and therapist.


2015 ◽  
Vol 24 (2) ◽  
pp. 141-150 ◽  
Author(s):  
Siobhan E. Sutherland ◽  
Uzma S. Rehman ◽  
Erin E. Fallis ◽  
Jackson A. Goodnight

2018 ◽  
Vol 26 (2) ◽  
pp. 223-237 ◽  
Author(s):  
Mark F. Schwartz ◽  
Stephen Southern

An integrative model for treating sexual desire disorders was developed from the original work of Masters and Johnson Institute. Sensate focus exercises and psychoeducation were combined with couple therapy for relationship conflicts and individual therapies for issues with trauma and attachment disorders. The resulting model fits trends in systemic and integrative treatment.


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