Representing the Parent Analogy

I argue that Stephen Wykstra’s much discussed Parent Analogy is helpful in responding to the evidential problem of evil when it is expanded upon from a positive skeptical theist framework. This framework, defended by John Depoe, says that although we often remain in the dark about the first-order reasons that God allows particular instances of suffering, we can have positive second-order reasons that God would create a world with seemingly gratuitous evils. I respond to recent challenges to the Parent Analogy by arguing that God, like a good parent, wants a rightly ordered relationship of mutual love with created beings.

Education for Parents of Children with Gadget Addiction

Background: Inappropriate and excessive use of gadgets can cause addiction and interfere with physical, psychological, and emotional health, increase social isolation, and negatively affect development, especially in children. The resulting impact will be greatly influenced by the role of parents, family and the environment. Purpose: This study aims to understand what education can be provided to parents of children with gadget addiction, along with how parents can choose toys and alternative games for children to reduce this gadget addiction. Methods: The design used in this article was a narrative review that involved collecting and analyzing journals using the keywords "addiction", "children", "education", "parent" and "gadget"; this obtained 10 journal articles from PubMed, two journal articles from ScienceDirect, 14 journal articles from Google Scholar published between 2015–2020, three books, and one collection of survey data from the web. Results: There were several strategies that could be applied in managing the use of gadgets by children. The authoritative type of parenting style, good parent-child relationships, parent-child attachment and family environment conditions could also affect the use of gadgets and its impact on children. Parents could additionally provide toys and alternative games suitable for the children’s age, developmental ability and safety needs. Conclusion: Parents are expected to understand how to manage children with gadget addiction and how they can choose toys and alternative games for children to reduce gadget addiction.

Thematic expansion: A new strategy for theory development

We developed and applied metasynthesis methods to expand previously reported thematic descriptions of parents’ internal definition of “being a good parent to my seriously ill child” as part of a larger study to examine parenting of children with serious illness. Our systematic approach included: literature search, purposeful selection of grounded theories regarding parenting a seriously ill child, study summaries, mapping evidence of good parent themes onto structural elements of grounded theory, cross-study comparisons, and theoretical memoing to summarize analytic insights. Twenty-five grounded theory studies from 32 reviewed reports reflected multiple conditions (n=5), countries (n=10) and family members (n=386 families). We report a worked example of the processes used to extend the original good parent themes and detail our processes through one good parent theme. The methods we describe are a promising approach to extend thematic analysis findings and advance thematic expansions toward development of more formal theoretical syntheses.

Honoring the Good Parent Intentions of Courageous Parents: A Thematic Summary from a US-Based National Survey

Background: Parents of children with complex medical needs describe an internal, personal definition of “trying to be a good parent” for their loved child. Gaps exist in the current “good parent concept” literature: (1) When the idea of “trying to be a good parent” comes into existence for parents, (2) How parents’ definition of “being a good parent” may change over time and may influence interactions with the child, and (3) Whether parents perceive attainment of their personal definition. Aim: The purpose of this study was to explore these current gaps in the “good parent concept” knowledge base from the perspective of parents of children with chronic or complex illness. Materials and Methods: These themes were explored through a 63-item, mixed-method web-based survey distributed by the Courageous Parents Network (CPN), an organization and online platform that orients, educates, and empowers families and providers caring for seriously ill children. Results: The term “trying to be a good parent” resonated with 85% of the 67 responding parents. For the majority of parents, the concept of “being a good parent” started to exist in parental awareness before the child’s birth (70.2%) and evolved over time (67.5%) to include less judgment and more self-compassion. Parents identified their awareness of their child’s prognosis and changing health as influential on their “trying to be a good parent” concept. Parental advocacy, child’s age, and duration of illness were reported as influencing parental perceptions of having achieved their definition of “being a good parent”. Conclusions: Familiarity with parental perspectives on their parenting goodness and goals is a necessary core of family-centric health care.

Mother–child Engagement in Sports and Outdoor Activities: Intensive mothering, purposive leisure, and implications for health and relationship closeness

Using Fragile Families & Child Well-Being data (N = 3,252) from the U.S., this study examines mother-child interactions in sports and outdoor activities with their nine-year old children, and their association with mothers’ perceptions of the extent to which they think they are a good parent. The study also considers the implications of these mother-child engagement activities for the health of both generations and for their feelings of relationship closeness. The results reveal that most mothers participate in sports or outdoor activities with their child once per week or more; also, mother-child interactions are positively associated with mothers’ perceptions of being a good parent. In addition, we find that mother-child interactions in sports and outdoor activities are positively associated with mothers’ reports of their health and relationship closeness, but that it is children’s organized sports participation (and not mother-child interactions in sports and outdoor activities) that is positively associated with the children’s reports of their health and mother-child relationship closeness. Overall, there is support for understanding mother-child interactions in sports and outdoor activities as extensions of intensive mothering expectations and purposive leisure goals, and interactions that have positive implications for health and relationship closeness.