Long-Distance Relationship Maintenance Questionnaire

2012 ◽  
Author(s):  
Andy J. Merolla
2020 ◽  
Vol 1 (2) ◽  
pp. 165-178
Author(s):  
Reza Umami Zakiyah ◽  
Eneng Nuraeni

Ideally, a married couple lives together to carry out their respective duties and obligations. However, because the demands of work cause some of them must be far apart and live the life of Long Distance Relationship (LDR) as happened in Batujaya Village, Kec. Batujaya, Kab. Karawang. The problem that arises is how the pattern of fulfilling the rights and obligations of husband and wife in Batujaya Village, Kec. Batujaya, Kab. Karawang. How to communicate on LDR and how to overcome the difficulties that arise between the two. Through research using descriptive analysis method, the results of the study show that: (1) The pattern of fulfilling the rights and obligations of a husband and wife who are on a LDR at Batujaya Village, Kec. Batujaya, Kab. Karawang can be understood in three aspects, namely the Financial/material aspect is done by meeting in person/transferring money through Alfamart/ATM/POS. The biological aspect when far apart is by interacting by telephone, occupying with homework. Psychological aspects, namely by giving attention over the phone or when meeting by serving all their needs. (2) The way of LDR husband and wife communication via telephone, massage, whatsapp, and video call, but for those who do not use the telephone as a communication tool, the communication is carried out directly when meeting. (3) The way to overcome the difficulties that arise between the two is to maintain mutual trust, understanding, commitment, intensive communication, mutual attitude. The difficulties faced are financial, trust, communication, cooperation and sexual needs.Idealnya pasangan  suami istri hidup bersama dalam satu  rumah untuk melaksanakan tugas dan kewajiban masing-masing. Namun, karena tuntutan pekerjaan menyebabkan sebagian dari mereka harus berjauhan dan menjalani kehidupan Long Distance Relationship (LDR) seperti yang terjadi di Desa Batujaya, Kec. Batujaya, Kab. Karawang. Masalah  yang timbul yaitu bagaimana pola pemenuhan hak dan kewajiban suami istri di Desa Batujaya, Kec. Batujaya, Kab. Karawang. Bagaimana cara komunkasi suami istri LDR dan bagaimana cara mengatasi kesulitan yang timbul diantara keduanya. Melalui penelitian yang menggunakan metode deskriptif analisis ini, hasil penelitian menunjukan bahwa: (1) Pola pemenuhan hak dan kewajiban suami istri Long Distance Relationship (LDR) di Desa Batujaya, Kec. Batujaya. Kab. Karawang dipahami dalam tiga aspek yaitu Aspek Finansial/materi dilakukan dengan pola bertemu langsung/mentransfer uang melalui Alfamart/ATM/POS. Aspek biologis ketika berjauhan yaitu dengan berinteraksi melalui telepon, menyibukan diri dengan pekerjaan rumah. Aspek psikologis yaitu dengan memberikan perhatian lewat telepon ataupun saat bertemu secara langsung dengan melayani segala kebutuhan masing-masing. (2) Cara komunikasi suami istri LDR melalui telephone, sms, whatshap, dan Video call, tetapi untuk mereka yang tidak menggunakan telepon sebagai alat komunikasi, maka komunikasinya dilakukan secara langsung pada saat bertemu. (3) Cara mengatasi kesulitan yang timbul diantara keduanya yaitu saling menjaga kepercayaan, pengertian, komitmen, komunikasi intensif, sikap saling terbuka. Adapun kesulitan yang dihadapi yaitu masalah keuangan, kepercayaan, komunikasi, kerjasama dan kebutuhan seksual.


2011 ◽  
Vol 27 (10) ◽  
pp. 433-439 ◽  
Author(s):  
Ulf Andersson Ørom ◽  
Ramin Shiekhattar

2020 ◽  
Vol 4 (3) ◽  
pp. 205-224
Author(s):  
Fiona Christie ◽  
Cindy Maria

Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk menguji ada tidaknya perbedaan tipe love yang ditinjau dari komponen love (intimacy, passion, and commitment) pada individu dewasa awal yang sedang menjalani pacaran long distance relationship (LDR) dan proximal relationship (PR). Penelitian ini menggunakan pendekatan kuantitatif dan melibatkan 200 subjek penelitian, terdiri dari 100 individu dewasa awal yang sedang menjalani pacaran long distance relationship dan 100 yang sedang menjalani pacaran proximal relationship. Setiap subjek melengkapi kuesioner yang merupakan modifikasi dari Sternberg's Triangle Love Scale (STLS). Berdasarkan uji beda, didapatkan nilai signifikansi sebesar 0,754 sehingga kesimpulan yang diperoleh dari penelitian ini adalah tidak terdapat perbedaan pada tipe love yang dimiliki oleh individu dewasa awal yang sedang menjalani pacaran long distance relationship dan proximal relationship. Berdasarkan pengolahan data secara statistik pada komponen love dengan jenis kelamin, diketahui bahwa komponen intimacy memiliki nilai signifikansi sebesar 0,002, passion sebesar 0,05, dan commitment sebesar 0,001, artinya terdapat keterikatan antara komponen love dengan jenis kelamin. Selain itu, komponen intimacy memiliki nilai signifikansi sebesar 0,027 dan commitment sebesar 0,004, artinya terdapat keterikatan antara komponen passion dan intimacy dengan frekuensi berpacaran. Kata kunci: tipe love, intimacy, passion, commitment


2021 ◽  
Vol 3 (2) ◽  
pp. 141-155
Author(s):  
Danny Sanjaya Arfensia ◽  
Putu Diana Wulandari ◽  
Respianto Respianto ◽  
Satria Kamal Agassi ◽  
Riris Ristiana ◽  
...  

Technological advances make communication easier for couples who have long-distance relationships. The quality of the relationship between a couple who being apart and being together is not necessarily the same, especially when it comes to intimacy. This study aims to determine the quality of relationships in early adults who undergo long-distance relationships. The qualitative research method was chosen with a case study approach that focuses on how the individual interacts in long-distance relationships. Data collection techniques in this study using interviews. The subjects of this study were 2 early adult couples who had a long-distance relationship between Surabaya and outside Surabaya and the couple had been in a relationship for at least 1 year. The data analysis technique used in this research is thematic analysis technique theory driven. The results indicate that respondent 1 shows relationship satisfaction despite feeling uncomfortable with the relationship being undertake. Respondent 2 showed relationship satisfaction but not appreciate his partner's achievements. From these results can be concluded that the quality of the relationship of each partner who has a long-distance relationship is different.


2020 ◽  
Vol 8 (1) ◽  
pp. 45-72
Author(s):  
Iason Eleftherios Tzouriadis ◽  
Jacob Deacon

The fifteenth-century fight book author Filippo Vadi wrote that the sword “is a cross and a royal weapon”: this inherent chivalric symbolism associated with the sword has led to a wealth of scholarship on the weapon but seemingly at a cost to research into other forms of weaponry used in medieval and early modern Europe, particularly various typologies of staff weapons. This article presents an analysis of the appearance staff weapons in the heterogeneous fight book genre. It uses their limited appearance, in comparison to swords, as a means of creating a microcosm through which several questions about the wider fight book genre can be assessed.


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