Love at the Threshold of War and Migration
In 1946, as the dust began to settle from the brutalities and destruction of war, Maria’s young life was set in motion. Her departure from her home village in Southern Italy to a boarding school in Umbria—followed by subsequent moves within Italy, and later to Canada—signaled a mobilization that would, in time, transform her notions of love, home, and family. Love and separation form the nexus of analysis in this chapter on love and migration. Through narratives of memory, silence, loss, regret, and resilience, a transnational love between a mother and daughter is unraveled. Drawing from a series of oral history interviews and a lifetime of conversations, this chapter examines the world of tensions and dynamics of distant love between a mother and her daughter. It shows how love was a powerful driver of migration and legitimizer of separation between mother and daughter in a historical moment of severe austerity in Italy. An auto/biographical, personal narratives approach is employed to explore questions on love and distance emerging in the contexts of war and migration in the mid-twentieth century.