While women have made great strides in the workplace over the last several decades, it is far too early to declare victory. Women still hold a disproportionately small number of executive level positions and high-growth entrepreneurial ventures. Although many factors contribute to this lag, the key issue that we have focused on in this book is the persistent expectation that working mothers must choose between being “ideal” mothers and “ideal” workers. Consequently, women have become consumed with how to best manage the intersection of work and family while trying not to succumb to the outdated gendered norms and expectations or neglect their families. Regardless of the type of work, parenting stage, or family situation, working mothers are often troubled about not being able to put 100% into either role. We have described many moments that lead women to begin to question who they are, what is important to them, and whether they want to or how they will blend work and family. In contrast with many other books, we do not believe that work and family should be an either/or proposition. “Having it all” is unattainable only when we allow societal or organizational influences to dictate what “having it all” means. What is required is a fundamental shift away from letting others prescribe how to blend work and family to allowing individuals to construct their own definitions of being “good” working mothers. When guided by their own values and needs rather than by gendered assumptions, individual ...