Ask, Don’t Tell
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This is the problem: You can't listen and talk at the same time. This is my problem: I talk too much. For instance, each week when I prepare to teach my undergraduate class, my slides and the notes that go with them grow longer and longer as I think of more and more ideas it feels urgent to share. By the time I meet with my students, I'm a fire hydrant of facts. Nervously, I glance at the ticking clock, talking faster and faster in an attempt not to leave anything out. At the end of class, if I've delivered everything planned, it feels like a small victory.