Students’ connectedness to school is important for academic results, wellbeing and health. Research, mostly from US schools, have shown consistent results over the last 20–30 years. The recent decade especially has yielded important insights for higher education. However, as this knowledge comes from international studies, little is known about Norwegian conditions, and this is the first study to explore students’ connectedness in higher education in Norway. Theoretical reading on empirical data from three focus group interviews with preservice teachers in their 3rd year supported the analysis of students’ connectedness in two categories: social connectedness and academic connectedness. The two categories were not sharply delineated as they interacted with each other, and it seems as though social connectedness was a prerequisite for academic connectedness. This diverges from findings in a Norwegian study on 12-year-old students in primary school, where social and academic connectedness were more equal. We found emotional bonding among students as well as caring and responsibility in both categories. The lecturer (class teacher) became particularly important in creating a classroom environment conducive to learning, and mutual appreciation described the relationship between the lecturer and students. Students praise lecturers who facilitate learning in a caring and accepting classroom environment, whereas students who have not experienced such classes express their lack and disappointment. It is reasonable to assume that a strong connectedness to the university, in our case the Institute of Teacher Education, may strengthen reasons to stay in the educational program and thereby prevent attrition. Longitudinal studies can give some answers in this area.