Parents' Learning about Children's Learning
Through their experiences in OC classrooms, parents become learners themselves and transform their way of thinking about how children learn and develop. The parents’ learning is an important resource for the children’s classroom learning, and it also extends the impact of the OC philosophy from classrooms to homes. Because parents and children share in learning at school, the philosophy and practices become part of many families’ home life. Before our family found the OC, I had been volunteering in my daughter’s kindergarten in her previous school—cutting, laminating, filing, and trying to stay out of the way. It didn’t take long to realize that the teacher (nice though she was) saw a clear distinction between home and school. She tolerated me, but neither of us had a clear idea how I could best help in the classroom. I wasn’t interacting with the children at all. Even when the teacher left the classroom for 15 or 20 minutes to deal with behavior problems, she didn’t ask me to take charge; the children were on their own. When a friend and I went to observe the OC, I was impressed that the co-opers and the teacher were focused and collaborative and supportive. Soon after this we joined the OC. I was motivated to help my daughter learn, like most parents in the OC, but I had a lot to learn myself about how I and other adults can help children learn. Initially, the only thing that made the OC more valuable to my family than the neighborhood school was the parental involvement—I could know what was going on in the classroom as well as being acquainted with the children and adults in my child’s life. As to other aspects of education at the OC, such as problem solving and building curriculum around children’s interests—I knew nothing about them and did not know what to expect. My children’s education has become one of the biggest educational experiences of my life. Some of my most important “lessons” were how children can solve problems and how adults can support this, how teaching can be integrated around children’s interests, and how adult flexibility supports children’s learning.