Gratitude is Always Eloquent
Last week, I had the pleasure of talking onstage at the Aspen Ideas Festival with Jackie Bezos, a board member of Character Lab. Earlier in the day, I met with this year's Bezos Scholars, exceptionally gritty and purpose-driven high school students who will spend the next year developing social change projects in their communities. After my talk, one of these young scholars and I got to talking about our favorite teachers. I suggested she do what I never did when I was her age: write a gratitude letter thanking that teacher for what she'd done for her. This young lady assured me she would sit down and write the letter as soon as she got home from Aspen. Knowing what I do about the intention-behavior gap, I suggested she take two minutes right then and there and simply text her teacher a quick note of thanks. Did she write that text? Maybe. But maybe instead, she'd hesitate. Maybe she'd worry she wouldn't be able to put into words everything she wanted to say. And maybe that pause would be the end of a beautiful impulse