This study explores the emotions, beliefs, and deep stories about the
self and other that are held by individuals on the political right and left in America in
order to understand the manifestation of affective polarization during divisive historical
moments. It also documents expressions of victimhood, villainhood, and privilege to
determine how they intersect with narratives about the ingroup and outgroup. Horwitz (2018)
argues that victimhood has become a desirable status in American politics and is thus a site
of contestation. Therefore, we ask: what beliefs and emotions do individuals hold about the
ingroup and outgroup and how do these contribute to exacerbating affective polarization? We
conducted a four-month digital ethnography before, during and after the 2020 US election and
developed an innovative approach to affective discourse analysis through an iterative,
grounded study in order to analyse Facebook, Twitter, and Gab content. We coded 2500
cross-partisan posts/comments that focused on the January 6 Capitol events and election
outcome/fraud and were underscored by themes of race and partisanship. Individuals on the
political right and left expressed deep distrust towards the outgroup but thankfulness to
those speaking their own narrative. Findings also indicate that affective polarization has
deeper roots in feelings of bitterness and resentment of the other. These are linked to the
ingroup’s narrative of victimhood/blame and serve to strengthen the boundaries of ingroup
and outgroup identities as membership in the group becomes defined in part by the
recognition (or lack thereof) of that group’s pain and oppression.