The Toddler, the Second Adoption, Telling Children About Adoption

Author(s):  
Donald W. Winnicott

In this essay Winnicott discusses the psychology of adoption for parents and child. He writes that it is important to be truthful when talking to adopted children about where they come from, that the adoptive parents are not their biological parents, and that the child was made by nature, and not by magic. If the truth cannot be borne by the adoptive parents, it is very difficult for the adopted child to cope with it. He also considers that adoptive parents wanting a second adoption must go through the selection procedure and other anxieties about choosing to have the adoption, rather than being able to have a child, as it were, normally ‘by accident’. When a mother conceives a second baby, the first child has the experience of mother growing larger over a period of months unlike the case of a second adopted baby that just ‘appears’.

Jurnal Akta ◽  
2019 ◽  
Vol 6 (3) ◽  
pp. 531
Author(s):  
Agil Aladdin ◽  
Akhmad Khisni

This research aims to knowing position adopted child in Islamic Law Compilation with the Book of Civil Law; and Similarities and Differences position adopted children in inheritance of Islamic Law Compilation with the Book of Civil Law; This research method using normative juridical research with comparative approach (comparative). The results were obtained conclusions from Islamic Law Compilation in terms of inheritance, uninterrupted lineage adopted children with biological parents, who turned just the responsibility of the biological parents to the adoptive parents. The adopted child does not become heir of adopted parents. In Gazette No. 129 Of 1917. In Article 5 through Article 15. The position adopted child found in Article 12 to equate a child with a legitimate child of the marriage of the lift. According to the Civil Law for the adopted child the same as for biological children. While in KHI adopted children get as much as 1/3 of the estate left by his adoptive parents (Article 209 KHI) exception has been assigned the consent of all the heirs.Keywords: Heritage; Adopted; Testament.


Owner ◽  
2021 ◽  
Vol 5 (2) ◽  
pp. 396-406
Author(s):  
Suparna Wijaya ◽  
Annisa Febriana Safira

Adoption have legal consequences for both adopted children, adoptive parents, and biological parents. The legal consequences can be seen in terms of civil law, customary law, islamic law, and also taxes. In civil law, customary law, and also islamic law, the legal consequences of adopting a child are related to the inheritance rights of an adopted child. Meanwhile, in tax the legal consequences of adopting children are related to Non-Taxable Income (PTKP) and the income of adopted children. Provisions related to inheritance rights for adopted children are very clear in the three laws, but the provisions regarding PTKP and the income of adopted children in taxes are not so clear. Based on the results of the study, it was found that there were still differences of opinion regarding PTKP and the income of adopted children. Differences related to PTKP arise when the adopted child has earned income, where the majority of interviewees argue that the adopted child can still be counted as PTKP of his adoptive parents and for the imposition of taxes on the income of the adopted child it is also combined with the adoptive parents. However, there is a opinion that when the adopted child has earned income, it will be counted as PTKP of the biological parents and for the imposition of taxes on the income of the adopted child it will also be combined with his biological parents.


2020 ◽  
Vol 1 (2) ◽  
pp. 42-46
Author(s):  
I Gede Eka Julia Artanida Wijaya

The law of inheritance is a law that regulates what should happen to the deceased person's property, in other words, it regulates the transfer of property left by the deceased to the heir. In principle, only rights and obligations in the field of property law can be inherited, and it does not include rights and obligations in the field of law that cannot be inherited, such as work agreements, employment relationships, individual membership, and authorizations. This research was conducted with the aim of describing the rights and obligations of an adopted child in inheriting property by the adopted parent and the position of the adopted child in inheriting property by the adopted parent. This research was conducted using empirical legal research methods. The results of this study indicated that adopted children in Bali are entitled to receive an inheritance from their adopted parents as well as their biological parents. This is known as ma’bubun dua ma’saruran patomali. Its meaning has two kiblat oase, that is to be able to be given an inheritance from adoptive parents as well as biological parents. On the other hand, the adopted child is obliged to maintain and establish family relationships as harmonious as possible, and carry out or replace the role or obligation of the adopted father/mother to the duties of the area where he lives (local community). In addition, the position of the adopted child in the inheritance of the property by the adopted parent is equal to or completely the same when compared to the biological child. Therefore, the adopted child is also entitled to inherit the inheritance of the adopted parent.


2020 ◽  
Vol 7 (1) ◽  
pp. 94-106
Author(s):  
Muhammad Lutfi Syarifuddin

In practice, in Indonesia children adoption has become a public phenomenon in society and is part of the family law system because it involves individual interests in the family. In the case of adoption, parents need to pay attention to the best interests of the child and be implemented based on local customs, applicable laws and regulations, this has been regulated in Article 39 of the Child Protection Act. Adoption of children is divided into two types, namely adoption of children between Indonesian citizens (domestic adoption) and adoption of Indonesian citizens by foreign citizens (adoption between countries). Appointment of children must be done by legal process, through the establishment or decision of the Court. The research method is normative juridical research. Based on the research results, the inheritance Indonesian citizens rights in the Indonesian inheritance law case are implemented based on Islamic law, adopted children do not inherit from adoptive parents and remain the biological parents. Under customary law, the inheritance of adopted children depends on customary law in the area. By law adoption children do not inherit from adoptive parents, and adopted children remain the heirs of their biological parents.


1997 ◽  
Vol 8 (6) ◽  
pp. 442-447 ◽  
Author(s):  
Robert Plomin ◽  
David W. Fulker ◽  
Robin Corley ◽  
John C DeFries

Children increasingly resemble their parents in cognitive abilities from infancy through adolescence Results obtained from a 20-year longitudinal adoption study of 245 adopted children and their biological and adoptive parents, as well as 245 matched nonadoptive (control) parents and offspring, show that this increasing resemblance is due to genetic factors Adopted children resemble their adoptive parents slightly in early childhood but not at all in middle childhood or adolescence In contrast, during childhood and adolescence, adopted children become more like their biological parents, and to the same degree as children and parents in control families Although these results were strongest for general cognitive ability and verbal ability similar results were found for other specific cognitive abilities—spatial ability, speed of processing, and recognition memory These findings indicate that within this population, genes that stably affect cognitive abilities in adulthood do not all come into play until adolescence and that environmental factors that contribute to cognitive development are not correlated with parents' cognitive ability


Author(s):  
Nur Aisyah

AbstractThe issue of adoption has been determined in Islamic law and civil law. Where both legal instruments state that the adoption of a child is something that is allowed as long as it is in the best interest of the adopted child. However, problems arise regarding adoption of children associated with inheritance issues. In Islamic law and civil law have different provisions. In Islamic law the status of adopted children can’t be equated with biological children so that they can’t receive inheritance from their adopted parents. However, the adopted child is entitled to get a will from his adoptive parents provided that no more than one-third of the assets of the adoptive parents. Whereas according to the law code of civil law states that the adopted child as a family member can get the inheritance from the adoptive parents based on the provisions of the applicable law (ab instestato) or with a will (testament).Keywords: Adopted Children, Civil Law, Inheritance, Islamic Law, Mandatory Wills.AbstrakPersoalan pengangkatan anak telah ditentukan dalam hukum Islam dan hukum perdata. Dimana kedua perangkat hukum tersebut menyatakan bahwa pengangkatan anak adalah sesuatu yang diperbolehkan selama demi kepentingan terbaik bagi anak angkat. Akan tetapi muncul persoalan terhadap pengangkatan anak yang dikaitkan dengan persoalan waris. Dalam hukum Islam dan hukum perdata mempunyai ketentuan yang berbeda. Dalam hukum Islam status anak angkat itu tidak dapat disamakan dengan anak kandung sehingga tidak dapat menerima harta warisan dari orang tua angkatnya. Meskipun demikian, anak angkat tersebut berhak mendapatkan wasiat dari orang tua angkatnya dengan ketentuan tidak boleh lebih dari sepertiga harta kekayaan orang tua angkat. Sedangkan menurut kitab undang-undang hukum perdata menyatakan bahwa anak angkat sebagai anggota keluarga dapat memperoleh harta warisan dari orang tua angkatnya berdasarkan ketentuan undang-undang yang berlaku (ab instestato) ataupun dengan adanya surat wasiat (testament).Kata Kunci : Anak Angkat, Hukum Islam, Hukum Perdata, Warisan, Wasiat Wajibah.


2018 ◽  
Vol 3 (2) ◽  
pp. 167
Author(s):  
Ade Kurniawan Akbar

Abstract: Islamic jurists suggest that a will is ownership based on a person who declares a will died in the way of goodness without demanding compensation or tabarru '. In Islamic law, adopted children are not heirs, so if the adoptive parents die, the adopted child does not get a heritage. However, of course this is not fair for adopted children who are like their own children by their adoptive parents. For this reason, a will for the adopted child is needed to obtain the inheritance of the adoptive parents. The purpose of this study, namely: 1). To study and explain the provisions of Islamic law regarding testaments to inheritance. 2). To study and explain the provisions of Islamic law regarding testaments to inheritance for adopted children. This type of research belongs to the category of normative legal research. Conclusion, Many inheritance that can be inherited for adopted children is as much as 1/3 of all assets left behind, where the assets are in the distribution system that before the distribution of inheritance to the heirs is carried out, the obligatory will must be fulfilled first. In the division of obligatory wills, which have been determined according to Islamic law, what must be considered is that the part of the adopted child is a third part and must not exceed the minimum portion received by the heirs.Keywords: testament, adoption, inheritance


2021 ◽  
Vol 1 (3) ◽  
pp. 232-239
Author(s):  
Nur Farikha ◽  
M. Ali Syaifudin Zuhri

When a human couple performs a marriage, then both are not blessed with a child. One way for the couple is to adopt a child, the law is fine as long as it fulfills the conditions prescribed by religion. This was done by the Prophet Muhammad. Adoption of children must meet state requirements, namely through court channels. Because something related to the rules certainly has a positive impact on the public, namely maslahah ummah. There are several legal consequences when someone is adopted as a child, one of which is if one of the adoptive parents or the adopted child has died there is an appreciation given by one of them. The author conducted this research to describe the concept of wills for adopted children in the distribution of inheritance according to KHI and Prof. Wahbah Zuhaili. The author in this study uses the analytical approach research method, namely an approach that is carried out by analyzing the thoughts of a character in this case Prof. Zuhaili, and its comparison with KHI. The conclusion found in this study is the wills of the compulsory will be something very new in Islam, especially when it comes to adopted children. Therefore, the concept of inheritance for adopted children is in the form of a mandatory will, which has been stipulated in the Islamic Law Compilation that a will when it is not disclosed by the adoptive parents, the adopted child will still receive a will, at most a third of the assets of the adoptive parents. Meanwhile, Prof. Wahbah Zuhaili stated that the will is obligatory for relatives and parents (people who are related by blood) because they are prevented from inheriting.


Jurnal Akta ◽  
2017 ◽  
Vol 4 (3) ◽  
pp. 433
Author(s):  
Yanuar Dwiyan Putra ◽  
Sri Endah Wahyuningsih

Research on "Implementation Arrangement of Article 209 Compilation of Islamic Law About Testament Required To Child Lift Through Notary Act Notarized In Notarial Form" aims To know and analyze the basic law of mandatory testament to adopted child in terms of Islamic inheritance law and Compilation of Islamic Law, To know and analyzing the legal consequences of the mandatory provision of the adopted child, To know and analyze the notary's responsibility as a mandatory certificate deed for adopted children.The basis of the law of provision of natural must must be preceded by the love and affection of adoptive parents to adopted children, so that parents want to be fair to their adopted children. The will is basically only given to the heirs who do not receive the inheritance due to being heaved by the heirs who are closer to the heirs. Provision of a mandatory will to an adopted child if it is based on Article 209 paragraph (2) of the Compilation of Islamic Law shall not cause any legal consequences resulting in a dispute between the adopted child and the principal heir of the heir. Because in Article 209 paragraph (2) Compilation of Islamic Law explains "Against adopted child who does not receive will is given a will as much as 1/3 of the inheritance of his adoptive parents". Notary besides being responsible in making the deed of will is also responsible in its implementation.Keywords: Wills Wajibah, Adopted Children, Compilation of Islamic Law, Notary Public


Author(s):  
Donald W. Winnicott

An essay in which Winnicott expresses his belief that every adopted child needs to be told he or she is adopted as soon as possible. Because of the circumstances of their birth, when older, they will need definite information about sex and their own origins which the biological child can acquire in a more haphazard way. Because they are dealing with the child’s whole being adoptive parents must be more aware of what child development is about, and much more than parents who are caring for their own children. The psychological needs of adopted children must be considered even when they are healthy.


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