Community-based processes responding to social conflicts tend to originate organically, and because they adapt to the fluctuating nature of communities, they are “messy.” The authors' fieldwork has found that one of the biggest challenges youth and community leaders face in transforming their communities is in developing a process for their work. This chapter offers a discussion on how to set goals and desired outcomes, identify the resources needed, and then figure out the steps that need to be taken to get there. They draw from concrete experiences that have produced desired outcomes, and from the lessons learned from those experiences, they offer methods to enhance already established initiatives and projects, and to give birth to new ones. Conceptually, this chapter includes discussions on the centrality of interpersonal and community dialogues as understood by Pearce and Buber, as well as on the implications of the development and limitations of resilience by Schein.