Love and Marriage
Section 1 considers the Protestant Church’s idea of engagement, and compares it with the promises to marry made by ordinary people. It considers popular ideas about the role of gifts and ritual in the making of marriage, including sharing bread and wine, exchanging rings and other presents, and dowries. It exposes the gap between religious and popular ideas about what constituted a proper betrothal. It also examines how people chose whom to marry, and considers the role of parental consent, affection, and individual choice. Section 2 considers women and men wishing to break off engagements to marry. It examines the reasons why women chose not to proceed with marriage, focusing on gender ideals and men’s unsuitability as spouses, and then how women tried to use the consistory to enforce marriage promises, considering their chances of success and the evidence they required.