Student misbehavior has the power to make our lives miserable, derail our lessons, and convince us that we should not be teachers. Whether we are early- , mid- , or late- career educators, few experiences in life rob us of our peace of mind to the extent that student misbehaviors do. Sometimes our attempts to manage student behavior problems cause us to become so hypervigilant that we turn into pouncers. We jump on any potential behavioral infraction we see, and that becomes our habit. Always watchful in order to stave off unruly behavior, we can become harsh, unyielding, and strident in our attempts to keep students “under control.” Yet what if we’re wrong about misbehavior? What if it’s not what we think it is? One of the most profound changes we can make in our teaching comes from a very simple idea, a unique definition of misbehavior. Educational psychologist C. M. Charles tells us that only when behavior is knowingly and willingly obstructing is it misbehavior (Charles, 1985, p. 4). Could it be true that most of what we see in schools is simply behavior? Reinterpreting behaviors initially takes some effort, but it is well spent. Soon such reinterpretation becomes automatic. The habit of seeing behavior first as simply behavior gives us pause. And that pause allows us to craft our verbal and emotional responses. • We more often retain a calm internal and external countenance. This calm allows us to address the behavior and the consequence matter- of- factly and without accusation. • We respond with the appropriate level of assertiveness and direction. • We give a moment of grace to neutrally identify what we see and hear. • We explain calmly and assertively why the behavior needs to change. Consider this. Sometimes we adults are rude, annoying, unfair, rough, or vulgar. Are we misbehaving? Is our misbehavior worthy of punishment? When we give up assuming intent, it changes us. We may choose not to ignore the behavior, but we also do not presume malicious or disrespectful intent.