scholarly journals The Wife’s Act of Refusing to Have an Intimate Husband (Equity, Sociological and Health Study)

2021 ◽  
Vol 5 (2) ◽  
pp. 671
Author(s):  
Amin Songgirin
Keyword(s):  
The Other ◽  
Health Study ◽  
Other Hand ◽  
Husband And Wife

This paper discusses the hadith cursing angels against wives who do not want to be invited to bed. In discussing it, the author uses an equality approach, a sociological and health perspective. The problem of the bed is an important problem in the household because such rituals are a form of obedience and fulfillment of the rights of both parties as well as a form of worship. Angels act against a wife who refuses the husband's invitation to bed, even when she is menstruating. On the other hand, the husband also sins if his wife asks to make out, but the husband refuses, even though the reason is busy doing worship. So on the matter of the bed, there must be equality between husband and wife, because in addition to the purpose of physic (zahir) goodness, it is far from that to build inner (bathin) pleasure, namely sakinah, mawaddah wa rahmah. In essence, marriage is worship, so it must be interpreted as jima' as a form of worship, not as coercion or oppression. "Hunna libāsun lakum, wa antum libāsun lahun" "You are clothes for them, so they are clothes for you".

scholarly journals SUKSES BERINTERAKSI DENGAN ANAK TIRI (Studi Kasus Nabi Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam Bersama Anak Tiri Beliau)

Al-MAJAALIS ◽  
2021 ◽  
Vol 8 (2) ◽  
pp. 331-350
Author(s):  
Muhamad Arifin
Keyword(s):  
Role Model ◽  
Descriptive Analysis ◽  
The Other ◽  
Analysis Method ◽  
Married Life ◽  
Other Hand ◽  
Husband And Wife

The existence of stepchild in a household is often the source of the household disharmony between husband and wife. It is common for this disharmony to lead to divorce.On the other hand, the stepchild often receives discriminatory and even cruel treatment. By using the descriptive analysis method, the author collected the data on the life of the Prophet -peace and blessings of Allah be upon him- with his stepchildren.Then the data were analysed, in order to reveal his practical and applicabletips from living with the stepchildren. The author madethe Prophet life with his stepchildren the object of research, asthe Prophet is a role model for mankind in every aspect of life. He had of course taught a set of applicable and effective tips in living a married life with his stepchildren. Moreover, he married ten widowed women who all had children from their previous marriage. From analysing these data, the author found at least six practical tips that the Prophet exemplified so that he succeeded in interacting with all of his stepchildren.From this research, the author concluded that one of the solutions to the success of the Prophet -peace and blessings of Allah be upon him-in interacting with his stepchildren is because he positioned them as one of the keys to the Prophet’s marriage with their mothers and as one of the keys to happiness in the household. Likewise, the Prophet never perceived his stepchildren as a threat to the peace of his household.

scholarly journals MAKNA KEBAHAGIAAN DAN KEHARMONISAN RUMAH TANGGA DALAM PERSPEKTIF PSIKOLOGI

2018 ◽  
Vol 12 (1) ◽  
pp. 5-36
Author(s):  
Mohamat Hadori ◽  
Minhaji Minhaji
Keyword(s):  
Family Relationship ◽  
The Other ◽  
Considerable Influence ◽  
Emotional Maturity ◽  
Other Hand ◽  
Husband And Wife

Happiness and harmony of household come from the love, emotional maturity, and intensity of communication that is built up from each individual in the household. The characteristic of a sense of love of the household is harmonious relationship especially between the husband and wife. In ddition to being a form of character and the personality of parents is also a means of forming the character and personality of child. Harmony of the home sourced from the harmony of each individual in the household that has performed its duties, functions, and responsibilities is a manifestation of an emotional maturity of each individual in the household. On the other hand, harmony of the household is a factor of communication intensity in family that runs effectively. The intensity of communication of the household has a considerable influence on whether or are not harmony Conversely relationships of family, ineffective communication is often the cause of harmony in a family relationship.

scholarly journals SURROGATE MOTHER;TINJAUAN HUKUM PERDATA DAN ISLAM

2018 ◽  
Vol 4 (2) ◽  
pp. 131
Author(s):  
Muhammad Ali Hanafiah Selian
Keyword(s):  
The Other ◽  
Surrogate Mother ◽  
Other Hand ◽  
Other Woman ◽  
Husband And Wife

In the national law context, surrogate mother or populary and the term often used is “womb renting” is defined freely as an agreement between a woman who bind themself with another party (husband or wife) to become pregnant with the result of conception of the husband and wife that planted into her womb. Womb renting is a condition of a woman that contracted or hired to raise a fetus that belong to other woman or other spouse. On the other hand, the surrogate mother in Islam, commonly called al-‘Ummu al-musta’jin or al-‘Ummu al-badilah or also known as ar-rahmu al-musta’jin. In the implementation womb renting involves two parties, the first party is a woman that rent her womb and the second party that rent the womb who have no offspring. The price of rent according to an agreement between the parties.

scholarly journals MEANING OF PROPOSING DIVORCE IN TUBAN REGENCY OF EAST JAVA (Matrilocal Residence in Proposing Divorce)

2016 ◽  
Vol 10 (2) ◽  
pp. 205-227
Author(s):  
Ulin Na`mah
Keyword(s):  
Gender Role ◽  
Family Life ◽  
The Other ◽  
Other Hand ◽  
The One ◽  
Husband And Wife

The availability of nafkah (money given by husband to his wife for household expenses) in family life often becomes a source of conflict. Moreover, nafkah often becomes a reason for husband and wife for divorce. This is due to the obligation for providing nafkah is relied on husband (man) rather than wife (woman). Yet, on the one hand, “nafkah relied on husband” is often used by husband to powerfully control over his wife. On the other hand, in a culture of matrilocal residence (in wife’s home with her parents), “nafkah relied on husband” can be also used by wife to powerfully control her husband  and this becomes a means for woman to subordinate and oppress her husband. Furthemore, for both husband or wife, “nafkah relied on husband” may often becomes a trigger to divorce. Therefore, it is important to redefine such strict division of gender role and contextually give more priority to equality in gender role in households life.Copyright (c) 2015 by Al-Ihkam. All right reserved DOI : 10.19105/al-ihkam.v10i2.715

scholarly journals Si Rukat Nakan dalam Masyarakat Karo

2021 ◽  
Vol 6 (2) ◽  
pp. 161
Author(s):  
Raharja Sembiring ◽  
Dina Datu Paonganan ◽  
Rut Debora Butar-butar
Keyword(s):  
The Other ◽  
Women's Roles ◽  
Men And Women ◽  
Literary Research ◽  
Other Hand ◽  
Women’S Roles ◽  
Role Of Women ◽  
The Relationship ◽  
Husband And Wife

This article aims to describe the relations of equality and respect for men and women in the Karo cultural frame. The relationship between the two, where adat (culture) is the main reference often has bad-faced implications for the Karo patriarchy. Patriarch Karo is often claimed not to have a space of equality and respect for women. The problem will be focused on the use of idioms attached to Karo women. One idiom that is very attached to Karo women is rukat nakan. Idiom the rukat nakan describes the domestic duties of women, namely arranging accommodation and household logistics. With regard to the relationship between men and women, feminists claim the rukat nakan idiom is a form of condescension toward women, even an attempt to domesticate Karo patriarchal role of women. On the other hand, this idiom is also often referred to to validate the wife's subordination to her husband. The results of the research through interviews, literary research and analysis of Karo song poems, the idioms of rukat nakan are an illustration of the appreciation of the domestic role of women. Si rukat nakan is a domestic assignment which describes a very private relationship between husband and wife. The term “si rukat nakan” is not to denigrate or domesticate women, but it shows respect for women's roles.

scholarly journals UTANG PIUTANG SETELAH TERJADINYA PERCERAIAN

2021 ◽  
Vol 5 (1) ◽  
pp. 773
Author(s):  
Wayan Resmini ◽  
Abdul Sakban ◽  
Ni Putu Ade Resmayani
Keyword(s):  
The Other ◽  
Other Hand ◽  
Kinship System ◽  
The People ◽  
Question And Answer ◽  
The Government ◽  
Husband And Wife

ABSTRAK Perkawinan adalah  ikatan sebagai suami istri dengan tujuan membentuk keluarga yang bahagia dan kekal. Sayangnya, ikatan tersebut kerap berujung pada perceraian. Tanggung jawab suami dan istri terhadap utang piutang bersama setelah terjadinya perceraian dibedakan menjadi dua, yaitu utang pribadi  dan utang persatuan. Berkaitan dengan hal tersebut, perlu dilaksanakan penyuluhan untuk memberikan pemahaman dan pendidikan bagi masyarakat yang akan melakukan perceraian terutama dalam masalah hukum yuridis utang piutang. Lokasi kegiatan adalah di kecamatan Sekarbele, Kota Mataram. Metode yang dipergunakan dalam kegiatan ini adalah ceramah dan tanya jawab. Dari hasil diskusi, diketahui bahwa Masyarakat  Kecamatan Sekarbela  belum mengerti dengan masalah tersebut karena belum pernah adanya sosialisasi dari pemerintah terkait.   Umumnya, apabila terjadi perceraian, pihak perempuan tidak terlalu memikirkan hak – hak mereka. Begitu ada putusan perceraian, mereka pulang ke rumah orang tuanya dengan membawa apa yang bisa mereka bawa (pakaian dan perabot rumah tangga). Hal ini disebabkan karena masyarakatnya masih sangat sederhana kehidupannya. Disamping itu, pengaruh sistem kekerabatan patrilinial turut berperan dalam permasalahan ini. Jika pihak perempuannya yang menyebabkan terjadinya utang, maka keluarga pihak laki-laki (suaminya) yang menanggung utang tersebut dengan menceraikan istrinya (dengan kesepakatan), sebaliknya kalau yang membuat utang suami jelas itu adalah tanggung jawab sang suami. Kata Kunci: utang; piutang; perceraian ABSTRACTMarriage is a bond between husband and wife to form a happy and eternal family. Unfortunately, these bonds often lead to divorce. The responsibility of husband and wife for joint debts after the divorce is divided into two, namely personal loan and union loan. In this regard, it is necessary to conduct counseling to provide understanding and education for people going to divorce, especially in legal matters of debt and debt juridical. The location of the activity is in the Sekarbele sub-district, Mataram City. The method used in this activity is lecture, question, and answer. The discussion results show that the people of Sekarbela District do not understand this problem because there has never been any socialization from the government. Generally, when a divorce occurs, the women do not think about their rights. Once a divorce verdict happens, they return to their parents' house with what they can bring (clothes and some household furniture). This situation occurs because the people are still naive in doing their life. In addition, the influence of the patrilineal kinship system also plays a role in this problem. If the woman causes the debt, then the man's family (husband) bears the debt by divorcing his wife (by agreement). On the other hand, it is the husband's responsibility if the husband makes the debt clear. Keywords: debt; receivable; divorce

scholarly journals Islamic Family Values Depicted in Urdu Drama before and during Cable Era

2020 ◽  
Vol V (I) ◽  
pp. 119-126
Author(s):  
Rooh ul Amin Khan ◽  
Yasar Arafat ◽  
Muhammad Atif Shahzad
Keyword(s):  
Content Analysis ◽  
Married Couple ◽  
Family Values ◽  
The Other ◽  
Other Hand ◽  
Before And After ◽  
The Relationship ◽  
Husband And Wife

This study aims to describe the content analysis of televised Urdu dramas before and after the advent of the cable. This research focuses that how relationships between the married couple are depicted in televised Urdu drama serials. The Islamic objective of marriage is examined in this study. This study divided the Urdu drama serials into two broad eras, pre cable and post cable eras, it is observed that in pre cable dramas serials, relationship between the married couple was more positive and loving and more in accord with Islamic objective of marriage. On the other hand, in post cable era, the relationship between husband and wife presented in televised Urdu drama serials found to be more negative, deviating from the Islamic objective of marriage. Extramarital relations are on the increase side in post cable era; these relations were absent pre cable Urdu drama serials.

A study of cometary eruptions through OH radio-lines

1999 ◽  
Vol 173 ◽  
pp. 249-254
Author(s):  
A.M. Silva ◽  
R.D. Miró
Keyword(s):  
Short Duration ◽  
Growth Curves ◽  
The Other ◽  
Initial Mass ◽  
Radio Lines ◽  
Other Hand ◽  
Sudden Rise

AbstractWe have developed a model for theH2OandOHevolution in a comet outburst, assuming that together with the gas, a distribution of icy grains is ejected. With an initial mass of icy grains of 108kg released, theH2OandOHproductions are increased up to a factor two, and the growth curves change drastically in the first two days. The model is applied to eruptions detected in theOHradio monitorings and fits well with the slow variations in the flux. On the other hand, several events of short duration appear, consisting of a sudden rise ofOHflux, followed by a sudden decay on the second day. These apparent short bursts are frequently found as precursors of a more durable eruption. We suggest that both of them are part of a unique eruption, and that the sudden decay is due to collisions that de-excite theOHmaser, when it reaches the Cometopause region located at 1.35 × 105kmfrom the nucleus.

Closing the GAP—A 5Å Scanning Microscope

1969 ◽  
Vol 27 ◽  
pp. 6-7
Author(s):  
A. V. Crewe
Keyword(s):  
Normal Form ◽  
The Other ◽  
Resolving Power ◽  
Scanning Microscope ◽  
Conventional Microscope ◽  
Other Hand ◽  
Closing The Gap ◽  
Thermal Sources ◽  
Better Than ◽  
Transmission Microscope

We have become accustomed to differentiating between the scanning microscope and the conventional transmission microscope according to the resolving power which the two instruments offer. The conventional microscope is capable of a point resolution of a few angstroms and line resolutions of periodic objects of about 1Å. On the other hand, the scanning microscope, in its normal form, is not ordinarily capable of a point resolution better than 100Å. Upon examining reasons for the 100Å limitation, it becomes clear that this is based more on tradition than reason, and in particular, it is a condition imposed upon the microscope by adherence to thermal sources of electrons.

Life Beyond 1MeV

1980 ◽  
Vol 38 ◽  
pp. 30-33
Author(s):  
K.H. Westmacott
Keyword(s):  
Electron Microscopy ◽  
Past Experience ◽  
The Other ◽  
Good Case ◽  
Other Hand ◽  
The U.S

Life beyond 1MeV – like life after 40 – is not too different unless one takes advantage of past experience and is receptive to new opportunities. At first glance, the returns on performing electron microscopy at voltages greater than 1MeV diminish rather rapidly as the curves which describe the well-known advantages of HVEM often tend towards saturation. However, in a country with a significant HVEM capability, a good case can be made for investing in instruments with a range of maximum accelerating voltages. In this regard, the 1.5MeV KRATOS HVEM being installed in Berkeley will complement the other 650KeV, 1MeV, and 1.2MeV instruments currently operating in the U.S. One other consideration suggests that 1.5MeV is an optimum voltage machine – Its additional advantages may be purchased for not much more than a 1MeV instrument. On the other hand, the 3MeV HVEM's which seem to be operated at 2MeV maximum, are much more expensive.

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