Avoidant and Defensive: Adult Attachment and Quality of Apologies

2017 ◽  
Author(s):  
Karina Schumann ◽  
Edward Orehek
Keyword(s):  
Adult Attachment ◽  
Attachment Styles ◽  
Attachment Avoidance ◽  
High Quality ◽  
Defensive Strategies ◽  
Important Decision ◽  
The People ◽  
Emotional Vulnerability ◽  
Emotional Aspects

After committing an offense, transgressors face an important decision regarding how to respond to the people they hurt. Do they make themselves emotionally vulnerable by offering high-quality, comprehensive apologies? Or do they seek to protect themselves with defensive strategies, such as justifications and excuses? In two studies, we examined the link between attachment styles and apology quality. We hypothesized that because people high in attachment avoidance are uncomfortable with emotional vulnerability and tend to defensively disengage from emotional aspects of relationships, they would offer less comprehensive and more defensive apologies. In Study 1, participants imagined hurting a friend and then rated their likelihood of using each of eight apology elements and five defensive strategies. In Study 2, participants wrote a real email to a person they had hurt. Our prediction was supported in both studies, suggesting that attachment avoidance plays an important role in how transgressors manage their offenses.

scholarly journals Avoidant and defensive: Adult attachment and quality of apologies

2017 ◽  
Vol 36 (3) ◽  
pp. 809-833 ◽  
Author(s):  
Karina Schumann ◽  
Edward Orehek
Keyword(s):  
Attachment Styles ◽  
Attachment Avoidance ◽  
High Quality ◽  
Defensive Strategies ◽  
Important Decision ◽  
The People ◽  
Emotional Vulnerability ◽  
Emotional Aspects ◽  
E Mail

After committing an offense, transgressors face an important decision regarding how to respond to the people they hurt. Do they make themselves emotionally vulnerable by offering high-quality, comprehensive apologies? Or do they seek to protect themselves with defensive strategies, such as justifications and excuses? In two studies, we examined the link between attachment styles and apology quality. We hypothesized that because people high in attachment avoidance are uncomfortable with emotional vulnerability and tend to defensively disengage from the emotional aspects of relationships, they would offer less comprehensive and more defensive apologies. In Study 1, participants imagined hurting a friend and then rated their likelihood of using each of eight apology elements and five defensive strategies. In Study 2, participants wrote a real e-mail to a person they had hurt. Our prediction was supported in both studies, suggesting that attachment avoidance plays an important role in how transgressors manage their offenses.

scholarly journals Pendampingan Komunitas Produsen Kecap Skala Rumah Tangga di Kelurahan Putat Jaya Kecamatan Sawahan Kota Surabaya

2019 ◽  
Vol 3 (1) ◽  
pp. 106-112
Author(s):  
Wiwik Handayani ◽  
Sulastri Irbayuni ◽  
Luky Susilowati
Keyword(s):  
Community Development ◽  
Coconut Water ◽  
Soy Sauce ◽  
High Price ◽  
Fixed Income ◽  
High Quality ◽  
The People ◽  
Asset Based Community Development

Today, efforts to build the entrepreneurship of society have begun to grow. Making Soy Sauce is an opportunity for home industry to increase the level of economy of the community. However, the obstacle faced by the community is the high price of soybeans and the condition of the people in the Putat Jaya village who do not have a fixed income and do not have the skills, so it is necessary to find another alternative to making the soy sauce. By using the Asset-Based Community Development (ABCD) method, this study aims to provide training assistance to make soy sauce using cheaper ingredients, but it still has high quality. As a result of this assistance, the community was given counseling and twice practice to makie soy sauce from the basic ingredients of coconut water. The training in making coconut water sauce was successfully carried out, and the residents of Putat Jaya village were able to make good quality of soy sauce with savory taste, so that the community was able to become a soy sauce producer with coconut water and have a community of soy sauce makers.

scholarly journals AQUiD: Automated Quality Assessment Using Digital Image Processing

2020 ◽  
pp. 295-300
Keyword(s):  
Oil Quality ◽  
Coconut Oil ◽  
Texture Features ◽  
High Quality ◽  
Quality Requirements ◽  
The People ◽  
Coconut Kernel ◽  
Growth Of Bacteria

Products in the market are expected to satisfy the consumer’s quality requirements. Agriculture being one of the main occupation of the people of India, the raw products must be sorted to determine whether they fit the quality description so that high quality products are obtained as the end result. The proposed method is designed to ensure the availability of good quality coconut oil in the market by assessing the quality of each individual sample going into the production line. 70% of moisture content present naturally in copra(dried coconut kernel) is dried to almost 7% for coconut oil production. To prevent the growth of bacteria and fungus on the surface of the copra, sulphur is added as a preservative. Allergenic reactions and lung performance restrictions can be caused due to the presence of sulphur in copra. The presence of moisture may also adversely affect oil quality. The texture features such as wrinkles, moulds, fungi growth on the surface also deplete the oil quality. The features of different kinds of copra are analysed and is used train the machine. The machine learning methodology is adopted for the classification of copra as usable and unusable.

scholarly journals MENGEMBANGKAN KAPASITAS GURU DALAM MENINGKATKAN MOTIVASI BELAJAR SISWA (PENDAMPINGAN DI MI AL HIDAYAH MARGOREJO SURABAYA)

2021 ◽  
Vol 4 (2) ◽  
pp. 252-273
Author(s):  
Lailatu Zahroh ◽  
Lailatul Choiriyah
Keyword(s):  
Capacity Building ◽  
Active Role ◽  
Learning Motivation ◽  
Learning Activities ◽  
Teacher Capacity ◽  
High Quality ◽  
The People ◽  
Quality Of Learning ◽  
The City

Capacity building is a process that occurs within the community itself.Outsiders cannot develop people, organizations, or communities, but it is the people,organizations or communities themselves who can develop themselves. Outsiders canonly support by facilitating the process to accelerate their development, and help findaccess to the resources and inputs needed .Currently, improving the quality of learning isthe dream of all teachers. The existence of an active role from all components willrealize learning that is truly quality and also of high quality. The quality of learning canbe realized and achieved when teachers are able to, among others, boost students'learning motivation. Motivation is a psychological condition that encourages someone todo something. Ibtidaiyah madrasas in the city of Surabaya, the majority of their learningquality is still far from expectations; and this is due to the low capacity of teachers.Thus,mentoring at MI Al Hidayah Margorejo Surabaya to develop teacher capacity inincreasing students' learning motivation is urgent and significant in order to equip themto be later applied in learning activities for the convenience of achieving competence forstudents. This assistance can contribute in the form of developing teacher capacity inincreasing student learning motivation at MI Al Hidayah Margorejo Surabaya.

scholarly journals Peluang, Tantangan, dan Stategi Zakat dalam Pemberdayaan Ekonomi Umat

2016 ◽  
Vol 16 (1) ◽  
Author(s):  
Siti Zumrotun
Keyword(s):  
Human Resources ◽  
High Quality ◽  
Managerial Skill ◽  
The People ◽  
The One ◽  
The Way

Basically, zakat in Islamic teaching is the one of effective and strategic ways to be developed in increasing prosperous of people. So, it can be very potential. The potency of zakat will be great and useful if the institution of zakat administrator can manage effectively and overcome all classic problems always faced by administrators. Managerial skill, accountability, integrity, and truth are the main capitals to manage zakat. Meanwhile, empowering, supervising, and teaching on the people who received zakat (mustahiq) are some important things that should be thought. Therefore, the institution of zakat management should get the way to change people perspective from receiver to giver (mustahiq to muzakki). The strategies are to accustom for paying zakat, to be creative and smart in collecting zakat, distribute zakat effectively, create high quality of human resources, and to be focus on the programs of developing zakat.DOI: 10.15408/ajis.v16i1.2899

scholarly journals Exposure to animal suffering, adult attachment styles, and professional quality of life in a sample of Italian veterinarians

PLoS ONE ◽  
2020 ◽  
Vol 15 (8) ◽  
pp. e0237991
Author(s):  
Alessandro Musetti ◽  
Alessandro Schianchi ◽  
Luca Caricati ◽  
Tommaso Manari ◽  
Adriano Schimmenti
Keyword(s):  
Quality Of Life ◽  
Adult Attachment ◽  
Attachment Styles ◽  
Professional Quality Of Life ◽  
Animal Suffering ◽  
Professional Quality ◽  
Adult Attachment Styles

scholarly journals KAJIAN POSKOLONIAL GERAKAN PEMIKIRAN DAN SIKAP ULAMA PESANTREN TEGALSARI DALAM PUSARAN KONFLIK MULTIDIMENSIONAL DI JAWA (1742-1862)

2018 ◽  
Vol 29 (1) ◽  
pp. 189
Author(s):  
Saifuddin Alif Nurdianto ◽  
Hermanu Joebagio ◽  
Djono Djono
Keyword(s):  
Religious Education ◽  
Historical Research ◽  
Economic Cycle ◽  
High Quality ◽  
Post Colonial ◽  
The People ◽  
Political Approach ◽  
History Of ◽  
Practical Politics

<div class="Section1"><p class="Iabstrak"><strong>Abstract: </strong><em>Pesantren Tegalsari was one of the most influential religious-education institutions in Java during 18-19 century. Those years were the golden era of Pesantren Tegalsari which was known as an institution that produced “pujangga” </em>(<em>Javanese intellectuals</em>)<em> and the people of Tegalsari village was well known for producing high quality of dluwang </em>(<em>traditional paper</em>)<em>. On the other hand, the 18-19 century itself was a time of turmoil, both socially and politically. Some events such as Geger Pacina </em>(<em>1742</em>)<em>, Javanese Succession War III </em>(<em>1746–1755</em>)<em>, Java War </em>(<em>1825-1830</em>)<em>, and Cultuurstelsel </em>(<em>1830–1917</em>)<em> were crucial moments in the history of Indonesia, especially in Java. At this point, the ulema </em>(<em>Islamic scholars</em>)<em> of Pesantren Tegalsari played an important role. Thought and attitude movements of ulema </em>(<em>Islamic scholars</em>)<em> in Pesantren Tegalsari had determined the existence of the pesantren and the economic cycle of local commmunity. Historical research with post-colonial political approach was used to study the thought and attitude movement of ulama </em>(<em>Islamic scholars</em>)<em> in Pesantren Tegalsari during 1742–1862. The result of this research shows that Pesantren Tegalsari had a political line to not engage in practical politics. This political line was followed by all the leaders of Pesantren Tegalsari. As the result, Pesantren Tegalsari developed into an institution that produced poets and transformed into a place to seek legitimacy in social, academic, and politic</em>.</p><p class="Iabstrak"><strong>Abstrak:</strong> Pesantren Tegalsari merupakan salah satu lembaga pendidikan-keagamaan yang paling berpengaruh di Jawa abad 18-19. Tahun-tahun tersebut merupakan masa keemasan dari Pesantren Tegalsari yang dikenal sebagai lembaga pencetak <em>pujangga</em> (intelektual Jawa). Bagi masyarakat Desa Tegalsari sendiri, tahun-tahun itu adalah masa perekonomian yang dikembangkan sedang mengalami pertumbuhan yang pesat. Desa Tegalsari terkenal sebagai daerah penghasil <em>dluwang</em> (kertas tradisional) berkualitas tinggi yang diekspor ke berbagai daerah. Di sisi yang lain, abad 18-19 sendiri merupakan masa yang penuh dengan gejolak, baik secara sosial maupun politik. Beberapa peristiwa seperti <em>geger pacina </em>(1742), Perang Suksesi Jawa III (1746-1755), Perang Jawa (1825-1830), dan kebijakan tanam paksa (1830-1917) merupakan momen-momen krusial dalam perjalanan sejarah Indonesia, khususnya di pulau Jawa. Pada titik inilah ulama Pesantren Tegalsari, sebagai salah satu pimpinan lembaga pendidikan-keagamaan paling berpengaruh di Jawa abad 18-19 sekaligus tokoh panutan bagi masyarakat sekitar, memiliki peranan penting. Gerakan pemikiran dan sikap dari ulama Pesantren Tegalsari menjadi sangat menentukan eksistensi pesantren dan perputaran roda perekonomian masyarakat sekitar. Penelitian historis dengan pendekatan politik-poskolonial akan digunakan untuk mengkaji gerakan pemikiran dan sikap ulama Pesantren Tegalsari tahun 1742-1862. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan bahwa Pesantren Tegalsari memiliki garis politik untuk tidak terjun dalam politik praktis. Garis politik inilah yang diikuti oleh semua pimpinan Pesantren Tegalsari. Hasilnya adalah, Pesantren Tegalsari berkembang menjadi lembaga pencetak <em>pujangga</em> dan menjelma sebagai tempat untuk men­cari legitimasi, baik secara sosial, akademik, maupun politik</p></div>

scholarly journals SYNBIOTIC ADDITIVES IN THE WAFFLES TECHNOLOGY

2019 ◽  
Vol 13 (1) ◽  
Author(s):  
E. I Orgachev ◽  
H. Korkach ◽  
T. Lebedenko ◽  
O. Kotuzaki
Keyword(s):  
Equivalent Amount ◽  
Human Gastrointestinal Tract ◽  
High Quality ◽  
Encapsulated Cells ◽  
Technological Factors ◽  
The People ◽  
Reduce Sugar ◽  
Optimum Weight

The problems considered in the paper are the incidence of dysbiosis in the Ukrainian people, the reasons for it, and the methods of improving the diet of those suffering from microfloral disorders. Useful properties and effects of the microorganisms Bifidobacterium and Lactobacillus, and of inulin and lactulose have been studied as well as the ways in which they help to restore a person’s normobiocoenosis. After a research in vitro, with the conditions imitating the human gastrointestinal tract, the survival rate of encapsulated cells of bifidobacteria and lactobacilli in an unfavourable environment has been determined. It has been grounded how necessary microencapsulated forms of microorganisms are in the production of confectionery – firstly, to ‘protect’ them against physiological and technological factors, and secondly, to help them reach the lower regions of the small intestine where their capsules are destroyed and the bacteria are released. The reasons have been given why fatty filling for waffles, as an object to be enriched with useful ingredients, should be preferred when developing healthy and wholesome confectionery. It has been shown how promising probiotics and prebiotics are if used in confectionery technology. The two synbiotic complexes SC 1 and SC 2 have been developed, and such parameters have been determined as the optimum weight fractions of inulin and lactulose in the formulation of the filling, and the number of probiotic microorganisms. It has been established that lactulose can reduce sugar in the formulation of the filling, and using inulin results in replacement of an equivalent amount of fat. To prove how practical it is to add synbiotics to waffles, and to determine the product’s consumer appeal, a tasting assessment of the new types of waffle products has been made. It has been proved that adding synbiotic complexes to the formulations of waffles will result in the consistent high quality of the products, and in their better sensory characteristics. Besides, it can contribute to making the people of Ukraine healthier and fitter for work.

Integrating Interpersonal Assessment and Adult Attachment Using SASB

1999 ◽  
Vol 15 (3) ◽  
pp. 206-220 ◽  
Author(s):  
Aaron L. Pincus ◽  
Kelly A. Dickinson ◽  
Alex J. Schut ◽  
Louis G. Castonguay ◽  
Jamie Bedics
Keyword(s):  
Adult Attachment ◽  
Attachment Styles ◽  
Self Report ◽  
Parental Representations ◽  
Early Attachment ◽  
Internal Working ◽  
Adult Attachment Styles ◽  
Relational Diagnosis ◽  
Two Measures

Summary: The increasing interest in adult attachment concepts in social, personality, and clinical psychology has led to the proliferation of multiple self-report measures operationalizing such constructs as they are reflected in a variety of related conceptual models. Recent investigations of adult attachment measures indicate they generally converge in providing rather global information regarding the general positive or negative quality of enduring bonds with primary caregivers during the adult years or the general positive or negative quality of relational style individuals exhibit in the formation of new relationships. Benjamin and her colleagues proposed an integration of interpersonal and attachment theories based on Structural Analysis of Social Behavior (SASB) to improve precision of adult attachment assessment. They suggested that the addition of SASB-based interpersonal descriptors would improve the utility of attachment concepts in assessment and relational diagnosis. Two studies were conducted to evaluate these propositions by examining the convergent relations between childhood parental representations assessed by the SASB Intrex questionnaires and two measures of adult attachment constructs. Results of both studies supported predicted convergence between SASB dimensions and attachment constructs. Fearful and preoccupied adult attachment styles, perceptions of rejecting early attachment, and current angry and dismissive states of mind toward the caregiver are negatively related to SASB affiliation. Perceptions of enmeshed early attachment is negatively related to SASB autonomy. The addition of interpersonal descriptors to the assessment of global attachment constructs adds precision to the description of “internal working models,” increasing sophistication of attachment concepts for relational diagnosis and assessment. A framework for integrated attachment/interpersonal assessment is discussed and examples are provided.

The Relationship Between Texture Responses on the Rorschach and Adult Attachment

2010 ◽  
Vol 31 (1) ◽  
pp. 4-21 ◽  
Author(s):  
Kazunori Iwasa ◽  
Toshiki Ogawa
Keyword(s):  
Graduate Students ◽  
Adult Attachment ◽  
Japanese Population ◽  
Attachment Anxiety ◽  
Anxiety Scale ◽  
Self Report ◽  
Comprehensive System ◽  
Attachment Avoidance ◽  
Sensitive Measure ◽  
The Relationship

We examined the relationship between texture responses (T) on the Rorschach and adult attachment in the Japanese population. 47 Japanese undergraduate and graduate students (mean age = 20.16, SD = 1.87) completed a self-report adult attachment scale as well as the Rorschach. An ANOVA revealed that T = 1 participants were attached more securely than were other groups. T > 1 participants were more preoccupied with attachment and scored higher on an attachment anxiety scale than the T = 1 group. Although these results were consistent with the interpretation of the texture response according to the Comprehensive System (CS), the results obtained for T = 0 participants were inconsistent with hypotheses derived from the CS. T = 0 participants were high on preoccupied and attachment anxiety scores, although they were theoretically expected to be high on dismissing or attachment avoidance. These results indicated that – at least in Japan – T should be regarded as a sensitive measure of attachment anxiety.

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