CommentsTrina Grillo: Productive Rage
Trina Grillo’s article was powerful because it conveyed a woman’s anger, rising from deep inside the field. Writing as a woman of mixed race and as a mediator, Grillo critiqued mediation by enlisting its own methods: she drew her insights from behavioral and social sciences and from women’s stories of lived experience. Grillo wrote that mandated mediation in the intimate field of family law could trap a woman in an impossible dilemma. Forced to face her opponent at the informal mediation table, she could be “good”—cooperative, responsible, and calm. Or she could be “bad”—bitter, vengeful, and raging. Either way, silent or screaming, the woman was losing her voice....