Check Yo’ Stuff
Contemporary social contexts motivating protests against injustice have also increased calls for dialogue—all too often proposed as communication for consensus. Dialogue cannot do this, but intergroup dialogue can increase shared meaning by bridging social identity divisions with understanding. This process, however, requires participants show up and recognize that what they “bring” to intergroup interaction can interfere with better understanding the everyday lived experiences of marginalized and disenfranchised social identities. This “stuff” gets in the way. Checking “stuff” reveals what needs to be released for understanding and action. This piece emerged during a university-sponsored community event offering opportunities to dialogue across difference. I assumed my university encouraged student, staff, and faculty participation, but students were not there and only a handful of “allies”—those who regularly call for “dialogue”—attended. As my disappointment morphed to anger, I began to write this “rant” on a napkin from the lunch buffet.