“Men are the Protectors of Women”: Negotiating Marriage, Feminism, and (Islamic) Law in American Muslim Efforts against Domestic Violence

2016 ◽  
pp. 269-288
2019 ◽  
Vol 1 (2) ◽  
pp. 229-256
Author(s):  
Diyan Putri Ayu

Marriage is a strong contract (mitsaqan Ghalidzan), containing transcendental values ​​(divine), carried out consciously by men and women to form a family whose implementation is based on willingness and agreement between the two. Understanding that a woman (wife) under any circumstances must fulfill her husband's sexual desires and if the wife refuses her husband's sexual invitation, then he is said to be a great sinner often used as a legitimate tool in the name of religion. Thus, it becomes natural if then the husband's sexual coercion of his wife which should be between each other intercourse in ways that are ma'ruf and loving. Given this reality, the author will discuss the main problem is the analysis of Maqashid Shari'ah on the effects of marital rape in Law No.23 Th. 2014 and RUKHP. The results of the analysis explained that in an effort to deal with the wife of a victim of domestic violence must be in line with the objectives of Islamic law, namely the protection of the 5 main principles in Islam, namely maintaining religion, life, reason, descent and wealth. Perkawinan merupakan akad yang kuat (mitsaqan Ghalidzan), mengandung nilai-nilai transendetal (ilahiyah), dilakukan secara sadar oleh laki-laki dan perempuan guna membentuk keluarga yang pelaksanaanya didasarkan pada kerelaan dan kesepakatan diantara keduanya. Pemahaman bahwa wanita (istri) dalam keadaan apapun harus memenuhi keinginan seksual suaminya dan jika istri menolak ajakan seks suaminya, maka ia dikatakan berdosa besar kerap kali dijadikan alat legitimasi atas nama agama. Dengan demikian, menjadi wajar jika kemudian terjadi pemaksaan seksual suami terhadap istri yang seharusnya diantara keduanya saling menggauli dengan cara-cara yang ma’ruf dan penuh kasih sayang. Dengan adanya kenyataan inilah, maka penulis akan membahas Pokok permasalahanya adalah analisis Maqashid Syari’ah terhadap akibat tindakan marital rape dalam UU No.23 Th. 2014 dan RUKHP. Hasil analisis mejelaskan bahwa dalam upaya penanganan istri korban kekerasan dalam rumah tangga harus sejalan dengan  tujuan hukum islam yakni perlindungan terhadap terjaminya 5 prinsip utama dalam islam yakni memelihara agama,jiwa, akal, keturunan dan harta.


2021 ◽  
Vol 6 (1) ◽  
pp. 49-72
Author(s):  
Eki Resa Firiski

This article is the result of library research. The direction of this research discussion is how the Islamic religion addresses the issue of forced sexual intercourse between husband and wife. This article discusses vis a vis between maqāsid sharī'ah and Law Number 23 of 2004 concerning the Elimination of Domestic Violence. Claim of this research is the forced sexual intercourse of husband and wife according to Law Number 23 of 2004 is in line with the objectives of Islamic law (maqashid syar'iah) which is to protect tauhid/monotheism (hifd al din) men and women. The equality of relations between men and women is contained in the teachings of mu'āsharah bi al-ma'rūf (good association). Sexual violence can occur in both husband and wife. If the husband forces sexual intercourse, then it is prohibited. Vice versa, if the wife refuses to have sex without a syar'i reason, then this is also prohibited. not allowed. According to Islamic law, sexual violence can be punished with a finger of ta'zir sanction. Islam forbids acts of forced sexual intercourse as well as violence by husbands against their wives. And vice versa. Islam came with the main mission of realizing the benefit of all creatures, men and women. Islam teaches equal and equal sexual relations between husband and wife. Keywords: forced sexual intercourse, maqashid shari'ah   Abstrak Artikel ini adalah hasil dari penelitian kepustakaan. Arah diskusi penelitian ini adalah bagaimana agama islam menyikapi  isu pemaksaan hubungan seksual suami istri. Artikel ini mendiskusikan vis  a vis antara maqāsid sharī’ah dan Undang-Undang Nomor 23 Tahun 2004 Tentang Penghapusan Kekerasan Dalam Rumah Tangga. Klaim penelitian ini adalah bahwa pemaksaan hubungan seksual suami istri menurut Undang-Undang Nomor 23 Tahun 2004 selaras dengan tujuan syariat islam (maqashid syar’iah) yaitu melindungi ketauhidan (hifd al dīn) laki-laki dan perempuan. Kesetaraan relasi laki-laki dan perempuan tertuang dalam ajaran mu’āsharah bi al-ma’rūf. Kekerasan seksual dapat terjadi pada istri maupun suami. Jika suami memaksa hubungan seksual, maka itu dilarang. Demikian pula sebaliknya, jika istri menolak berhubungan tanpa alasan yang syar’i, maka ini juga dilarang. tidak diperbolehkan. Menurut hukum Islam, kekerasan seksual dapat dipidana dengan sanksi jarimah ta’zir. Islam melarang tindakan pemaksaan hubungan seksual juga kekerasan yang dilakukan suami atas istri.dan juga sebaliknya. Islam datang dengan misi pokok mewujudkan kemaslahatan bagi seluruh makhluk, laki-laki maupun perempuan. Islam mengajarkan relasi seksual suami–istri yang sejajar dan setara. Kata Kunci : pemaksaan hubungan seksual,  maqashid syari’ah


2008 ◽  
Vol 2 (2) ◽  
pp. 197-208
Author(s):  
Ramdani Wahyu

UU no. 23 th. 2004 about domestic violence demolishing is intended to prevent the violence in domestic area. Based on Islamic syariah, the forbidding about violence to woman is already in line to the Islamic law.


2020 ◽  
Vol 2 (1) ◽  
pp. 45-66
Author(s):  
Nurzakia .

Islam regulates the resolution of nusyuz (disobedience) for husbands and wives in the Qur'an Surah an-Nisa’ verse 34 and an-Nisa’ verse 128. Within the Islamic law, the resolution of nusyuz does not promote any violence against wives. Beatings to wives as stated in Surah an-Nisa’ verse 34 should be interpreted as actions to give lessons. However, some cases of domestic violence, relate to the understanding of nusyuz developed within the community. People generally understand nusyuz as an act of a wife's disobedience towards her husband. This inaccurate understanding of nusyuz may lead to domestic violence by the husband, under the pretext of a disobedient wife, while most often it is the husband who is disobedient. In this present study, the field research approach was used. The data collection techniques included interviews and documentation. The data were then analyzed using the qualitative descriptive analysis by interpreting and describing the data. The results of the study revealed that there were three groups of people that understood the concept of nusyuz differently at Ingin Jaya Subdistrict of Aceh Besar District. The first group perceived that nusyuz could be present both in the wife and in the husband. The second group argued that the nusyuz attitude only existed within the wife, whereas the third group had no idea of the concept of nusyuz at all even though they might have done it. The public understanding of nusyuz is very likely obtained from their educational background. Those studying in Islamic boarding schools have had more knowledge of religion and vice versa. Here, most of the interviewees stated that the concept of nusyuz was closely related to domestic violence because public perception had been highly influenced by Surah an-Nisa’ verse 34 concerning the beating of a nusyuz wife. This perception has then given the husband a valid reason to physically beat the wife who has been considered nusyuz. Thus, it is difficult to separate the Islamic doctrine that has long developed within the lives of today’s Muslim communities.


Affilia ◽  
2016 ◽  
Vol 31 (4) ◽  
pp. 450-462 ◽  
Author(s):  
Olubunmi Basirat Oyewuwo-Gassikia

Author(s):  
Juliane Hammer

This introductory chapter provides an overview of American Muslim organizations working against domestic violence in Muslim communities. The central goal of these organizations is simple: the eradication of domestic violence, a scourge that affects too many individuals, families, and communities in the United States and all over the world. Their work, however, is complicated, ongoing, and challenging. This book is about the people who carry out anti-domestic violence work in Muslim communities in the United States. It chronicles their efforts, their motivations, and their engagement with gender dynamics, textual interpretation, and religious authority. The chapter then lays out the framework for the following chapters, including the sources and methods employed in the study and the complex landscape of secondary literature on domestic violence.


2004 ◽  
Vol 29 (01) ◽  
pp. 1-38 ◽  
Author(s):  
Lisa Hajjar

This article focuses on the issue of domestic violence in Muslim societies in the Middle East, Africa, and Asia. The analytical framework is comparative, emphasizing four factors and the interplay among them: shari'a (Islamic law), state power, intrafamily violence, and struggles over women's rights. The comparative approach historicizes the problem of domestic violence and impunity to consider the impact of transnational legal discourses (Islamism and human rights) on “local” struggles over rights and law. The use of shari'a creates some commonalities in gender and family relations in Muslim societies, notably the sanctioning and maintenance of male authority over female relatives. However, the most important issue for understanding domestic violence and impunity is the relationship between religion and state power. This relationship takes three forms: communalization, in which religious law is separate from the national legal regime; nationalization, in which the state incorporates religious law into the national legal regime; and theocratization, in which the national legal regime is based on religious law.


2016 ◽  
Vol 4 (2) ◽  
pp. 64
Author(s):  
Oom Mukarromah ◽  
Asep Ubaidillah

The purpose of this study was to determine the criminalization law of nusyuz behavior both in Islamic law and the Criminal Code, and to know the relevance of Islamic law with the Criminal Code and Law No. 23 of 2004 in criminalization law of nusyuz behavior. The study used juridical normative approach in order to find the principle or the doctrine of positive law relevant to the issues studied, such as the opinions and ideas of jurists on the criminalization of the nusyuz behavior. This study used literature research method, which is a research conducted with data resources obtained from books or other writings relevant to the subject matter. The sources drawn from various works that discuss the problems of the family, the rights and protection of women, domestic violence and some literature on criminal law from the perspective of Islamic law and positive law. From the study, it can be concluded that: First, under the Islamic law, any form of physical violence against the wife is categorized in the form of jarimah (a criminal act) which is regulated in Islamic criminal law (fiqh jinayah). Second, in a substance, criminal law of physical violence against wife in the Domestic Violence Act is part of jarimah, a criminal act besides the soul. According to the Islamic criminal law, criminal act is classified into jarimah takzir.


2018 ◽  
Vol 4 (1) ◽  
pp. 1-18
Author(s):  
Abu Yazid Adnan Quthny

Cases of domestic violence or domestic violence are still a frequent phenomenon in people's lives. Not infrequently, the violence produces physical harm to the victim. The perpetrators of Violence often defend themselves with the rogue, what it does is a right guaranteed in culture and religion.In a patriarchal society, the act of domestic violence is often not a serious problem. In fact, not infrequently the women to close the meeting of the actions of his partner because it is considered a disgrace of the husband. In Indonesia, the biggest religion is Islam.Namun in the last 10 years, the number of domestic violence is quite alarming.A narrow religious understanding, as well as the women's permissive culture of domestic violence become one of the root causes of the problem, why such action is still ongoing. Islamic law, which in fact provides high positions for women, is much reduced to justify acts of domestic violence. Keywords: Islam, KDART, Violence, Household Appliances


2017 ◽  
Vol 8 (2) ◽  
pp. 113
Author(s):  
Lukman Santoso ◽  
Bustanul Arifin

The issue of violence against wife physically and psychologically, today more frequent in the community. The factual reality shows that domestic violence against wife is a phenomenon that sometimes considered to be prevalent in society. The common assumption must not be separated from social construction in the society that the husband is the head of the family and has full authority to the family members, including his wife. In that context, this study attempts to analyze how the concept of the women protection as victims of domestic violence in Islamic law. In the context of the protection of women in the household, the texts of the Quran give many answers that require embodiment household with ma'ruf relationship in the sense of equal, fair and democratic. It is confirmed that Islamic law carries a mission of<br />protection, which is a mercy for all human beings on earth. It also harmonized with applicable laws protecting women in Indonesia today.<br />Persoalan kekerasan terhadap istri secara fisik maupun psikis, dewasa ini semakin sering terjadi di masyarakat. Realita tersebut secara faktual menunjukkan bahwa kekerasan dalam rumah tangga terhadap istri, merupakan suatu fenomena yang terkadang dianggap lazim di lingkungan masyarakat. Anggapan lazim ini tentunya tidak terlepas dari konstruksi sosial yang berkembang di tengah masyarakat bahwa suami adalah kepala keluarga dan memiliki otoritas penuh terhadap anggota keluarga termasuk isteri. Dalam konteks itu kajian ini berupaya mengupas tentang bagaimana konsep perlindungan terhadap perempuan korban KDRT dalam hukum Islam. Dalam konteks perlindungan perempuan dalam rumah tangga,teks-teks al-Qur’an memberikan banyak jawaban yang mengharuskan perwujudan hubungan rumah tangga secara ma’ruf dalam arti setara, adil dan demokratis. Hal ini menegaskan bahwa hukum Islam membawa misi perlindungan, yaitu sebagai rahmat bagi seluruh manusia di muka bumi. Hal ini juga diharmonisasikan dengan hukum perlindungan perempuan yang berlaku di Indonesia saat ini.


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