The Holy Trinity of Healthy Relationships
The pandemic has thrust students of all ages more forcefully into the arms of technology. Now that the Zoom-enabled school year is underway, I've pondered just how far technology will go toward replacing old-fashioned, one-on-one human interaction. It is indeed amazing what robots and chatbots can do. I schedule 90% of my meetings using an artificial intelligence “assistant” and not once has anyone guessed that their calendar appointment, reminder, and chirpy “Thanks!” came from an algorithm. And it has occurred to me that the two undergraduate classes I am now teaching remotely, attended by fewer than 100 students in total, could in theory balloon to a million at nearly zero marginal cost. And yet my experience teaching remotely has convinced me that human beings are built for human relationships. We don't mind buying paper towels on our browsers, but there is no one-click equivalent to feeling understood, respected, and cared for by another person.