Does sharing memories make us feel closer? The roles of memory type and culture
The present study investigated in a cross-cultural context whether sharing different types of memories would differentially influence perceived relationship closeness and how that, in turn, was related to psychological well-being. Participants (N = 410) from European American and Asian cultural backgrounds reported their feelings of closeness to a conversational partner in hypothetical scenarios following five types of information sharing: specific and general autobiographical memories, specific and general vicarious memories, and non-personal information. Asians felt closer to the conversational partner than did European Americans following all types of information sharing, consistent with the greater interdependent value orientation among Asians. While sharing autobiographical memories led to greater closeness than sharing vicarious memories for both groups, sharing specific autobiographical memories appeared most effective to develop relationship closeness for European Americans. Perceived relationship closeness following memory-sharing was positively associated with psychological well-being across cultures.