HATI YANG TERLUKA

Healing the inner wounds by forgiveness is an indispensable step for the recovery of one’s self so he/she can experience peace and prosperity. Both of patient (victim) and actors, need to realize and to confess honestly and openly— to heal—that he/she was actually suffering from the inner wounds that are embedded in the heart, which can even be experienced by a person since he/she was in the womb and therefore need to take immediate action to forgive. Considering that inner wounds are a problem that can be experienced by anyone and the resulting negative impact in one's life, then the research was conducted. The study, based on a literature review indicates that there is a strong correlation between inner wounds suffered by a person with a bad experience. Research also shows that the inner wounds can be healed by forgiveness. The study is expected to be contributing to problem-solving inner wounds caused by a person's past by forgiveness.

GAMBARAN PROBLEMATIKA KOMUNIKASI RUMAH TANGGA KRISTEN DI KOTA KUPANG

Marriage will occur if each partner feels they are compatible, complementary, respectful, able to receive. However, marriage is not as smooth as they imagined when they were not married because there will be a variety of new problems that must be faced. The reason for this research is that poor communication can cause many problems in a Christian family. Communication plays a very important role in married life. As for the formulation of the problem that this research wants to answer, How big is the picture of communication problems in Christian households in the city of Kupang? What type of communication is used? How much does the church carry out Christian household accompaniment? This study surveyed 116 respondents who were married in the city of Kupang using Simple Random Sampling techniques. The instrument used was a questionnaire based on the Gultman scale with two answer choices. Based on the results of the study concluded that the description of communication problems in Christian households in the city of Kupang is in the near-low category at 33.10%. The type of non-verbal communication used by research respondents was 68.10%. Based on 52.17% of respondents answered that the church does not carry out the task of assisting Christian household communication problems.

Analisis Kesulitan Belajar Mahasiswa Pada Mata Kuliah Bahasa Inggris

This study intends to analyze student learning difficulties in English language courses. This case study was conducted at IAKN Manado, specifically 30 students in the first semester of the 2019/2020 school year from 3 different study programs. Researchers use a classic and individual approach to combine data, and analyzed with qualitative descriptive methods. The results showed that students' learning difficulties occurred due to feelings of compulsion in learning, poor mastery of learning concepts, being unable to remember lessons, and not having the opportunity to practice English. Referring to the findings, it is recommended that the teacher and institutions should facilitate and provide high motivation for the learning process of English.

MAKNA KONSELING DALAM KITAB SUCI

ABSTRACT The counseling crisis is felt by everyone, lacking trust in the counselor. Based on that, it is necessary to contribute to pastoral counseling in guiding according to the scriptures. The Meaning of Counseling in the Scriptures. The purpose of this paper is to describe the meaning of counseling in the scriptures theologically. The method used is qualitative, using literature studies, namely the Bible and reference books. The results of the study are pastoral counseling that God loves all people regardless of our lives filled with sin though. The meaning of Counseling in the Scriptures is first, to become a new creation in Christ. Second, Have a New Mind for the New World. Third, Have a New Heart. Fourth, become a disciple of Jesus

KEPEKAAN PASTORAL KONSELING BAGI PELAYAN GEREJA KONTEMPORER

This research is focused on a scientific study of the Pastoral Sensitivity of Counseling for Contemporary Church Servants at GMIST Filadelfia Manado. Researchers see the lack of understanding of church servants to carry out pastoral counseling services properly. Therefore this study aims; a) To explore the understanding of the Pastoral Sensitivity of Counseling for Contemporary Church Servants, b). To explore the implementation of the Pastoral Sensitivity of Counseling for Contemporary Church Ministers and c). To explore the meaning derives from the Pastoral Sensitivity of Counseling for Contemporary Church Ministers. This study uses a qualitative approach with scientific descriptive methods to be a valid way of research and data analysis in connection with finding conclusions from the results of the research conducted.

TEOLOGI PASTORAL DALAM KEUNIKAN KONTEKS INDONESIA

ABSTRACT The notion that pastoral theology is less intellectual than biblical, systematic and historical theology is also considered only as applied theology makes theology often overlooked. Efforts to make pastoral theology a branch of theology parallel to each other, require a long struggle by European and American pastoral theologians. The long struggle that produced positive results also felt its impact in the development of pastoral theology in Indonesia. However, the concept of pastoral theology developed in the Western world and then brought to Indonesia influenced the concept of Indonesian pastoral theology. The style and color of Western pastoral theology is still very thick, because it needs to be contextualized according to the conditions of Indonesian society. Western pastoral theology is thick with its individualism, while the Indonesian context is very diverse. For Indonesia with the context of its plural society with all its unique contexts and problems, pastoral theology is a theological reflection on and in the context of pastoral care. The correlative theology method is seen as a theological method that is relevant to the Indonesian context.

PERAN LAKI-LAKI DAN PEREMPUAN DALAM KEJADIAN 1-3 DAN IMPLIKASI TERHADAP PASTORAL DI GEREJA MASEHI INJILI DI MINAHASA JEMAAT YERUSALEM PAAL DUA MANADO

ABSTRACT The purpose of this study is (1) analyzing the roles of men and women in Genesis 1-3, (2) identifying and analyzing the roles of men and women in the family in the Church (3) analyzing and describing the pastoral church about the role of men and women in the family of the Church. This research is a qualitative study, with a socio-historical analysis to analyze the text of Genesis 1-3, at the Evangelical Christian Church in Minahasa (GMIM) of the Jerusalem Paal Dua Church in Manado in 2018. Data is collected through interpretation, observation, interview and documentation study. From the results of the analysis and interpretation of the data obtained an indication that: (1) the roles of men and women in Genesis 1-3 are not equal, where men are still higher, according to the context in the agrarian society at that time (2) the role of men men and women in the family even though it is in the context of a networked society but still unequal, where men are still higher as in an agrarian society because the congregation still reads the Bible without knowing the context of writing (3) the Church still has not seen the role of men and women who equivalent as something important in pastoral care because it indirectly still preserves patriarchal views as in agrarian societies. From these findings it is recommended that (1) the congregation read the Bible according to the context because even though the message of the Word of God remains the same but the context and readers change (2) the church in pastoral ministry is advised to teach the congregation to read the Bible according to context, not to be constrained by the context at the time of writing The Bible but teaches the liberating Word of God and dynamic faith.

GRIEF PASTORAL DALAM PANDANGAN MAJELIS JEMAAT GMIST MUSAFIR KOTA MANADO

ABSTRACT Pastoral Grief referred to in this study is a pastoral service to those who are grieving especially to the congregation of GMIST in the City of Manado. The pastoral duty must be carried out by Church councils in this case the Pastor, Elder and Deacon. Based on observations and interviews with Church councils, it was found that the pastoral care of grief for them only applies when a person dies and that is only a consolation and funeral service. Even though talking about grief does not only apply to people whose closest relatives die. This prompted researchers to conduct further research on Church councils in the GMIST congregation of Musafir Manado City. This study aims to find out how the understanding and practice of special servants about the task of the Pastoral Grief service and what the impact of the service results and the meaning obtained for the development of the Grief Pastoral service for Church councils in the congregation of GMIST Musafir in Manado. This study uses a qualitative approach with descriptive research methods which will describe in full the purpose of the study so that it is expected to get valid and scientific results about the understanding of special servants regarding Pastoral Grief.

LAYANAN KONSELING PASTORAL KEPADA PEREMPUAN YANG MELAKUKAN ABORSI DI DESA KALINAUN

ABSTRACT This research is purposed to know the society comprehension about abortion, factors that motivate women did the abortion, and how the Pastoral Counseling that will be held to the abortion subjects. This research is a qualitative research by using the case study method that will be held in Kalinaun Village in 2019. From that results above, we recommend to the religious figures to do role as God’s servant in the church especially in the midst of the congregation even in the society, so that will be better behavior from the subjects that make the young women become more valuable, and how the government in Kalinaun Village can work together with the religious figures by making the program such as socialiszation about the abortion actions.

PERAN PASTORAL KONSELING KRISTEN DI TENGAH KRISIS PANDEMI COVID-19

ABSTRACT At present the covid19 virus dominates life on earth, so that many experience problems of the quick and ultimately experience crisis problems and these crises cover various fields of human life. The various problems that cause this crisis make each counselor must be prepared to deal with what is happening around him, because this crisis problem is very extreme to one's personal life and if the counselor is not observant and adept at handling this crisis problem then those who experience this crisis will experience a bad life , so that each counselor must prepare and equip with a variety of existing knowledge. Various methods must be considered by each counselor so he can know with certainty the right way to handle the case at hand, at least the method of phenomenology that accelerates to know the situation that occurs. If everything is known and equipped with all the materials or equipment needed then as a counselor is ready to carry out the pastoral counseling process based on the word of God.