This paper presents several research-based aspects on language-related communication,
message-related communication and action-related communication and the connection
between inner and outer attitude within communication, meaning that mental and physical
conditions of speaking and hearing go hand in hand. The article also describes some
differences between verbal and non-verbal communication, as well as encoding and
decoding procedures in inter-cultural communication. Communication is about acting, with
and without language, about intentions, about the circumstances and relationships between
people, about attitudes behind the words, about physical behavior that expresses inner
attitudes. Feelings are expressed in body language and physical changes also change the
emotional state of communication participants. Summing up, some views of what
communicative language and action are and are not, of what they can and cannot, are also
presented.