Several months after Catie died, Steve asked his sister-in-law to watch his daughters for a few hours so he could spend time with his six-year-old son. David seemed to be doing well but Steve sensed he needed a little one-on-one time with his Dad. They spent the morning together cooking breakfast, playing outside, and building Legos at the kitchen table. David loved having his father’s undivided attention. After they had been playing for a few minutes, Steve asked him how much he thought about his mother. I still feel bad about what I did—about how I made Mommy die.” “Wait, what?” “Because of when I hurt Mommy. Remember? That day she came home from the hospital and I hurt her real bad.” “That day” had occurred nearly two years earlier. Excited to finally have his mother back home, David jumped into her arms and gave her a big hug. Catie winced and immediately grabbed her right shoulder, which was still tender from surgery and radiation. David immediately let go and backed away. His mother, now grimacing, tried to take deep breaths to ease the pain. After a few minutes, she told him that she was okay but that he needed to be gentler with her. Steve had not thought about the incident since the day it happened. Considering all he and his family had been through, it had barely registered in his memory. Sitting at the kitchen table, he asked his son what he remembered. David talked about how he made his mother sick by hugging her too hard. Since he had made her sick, he was the reason she died. “Buddy, no. No, no, no. That’s not it at all.” Realizing that his son had been thinking this way for almost two years made Steve nauseous. He placed his hands on David’s shoulders and looked him in the eyes, making sure he had his full attention. He explained that the hug had absolutely nothing to do with his mother dying. “You and your sisters were the reasons that Mommy lived as long as she did.