scholarly journals Antara Kewajipan Dan Keinginan Nafsu Berpoligami Dalam Membentuk Keluarga Bahagia (Polygamy: Between Obligation and Lust in Forming A Happy Family)

Author(s):  
Nabila Farhana Yahya ◽  
Mek Wok Mahmud

Poligami merupakan salah satu topik hangat yang sering menjadi bualan masyarakat sepanjang zaman di dunia dan sering menimbulkan kontroversi serta mendapat perhatian. Ianya memiliki seribu satu cerita serta pandangan yang masih tidak mencapai muafakat bersama. Islam mengharuskan poligami bagi lelaki yang berhasrat mengamalkannya namun perlu mematuhi dhawabit yakni aturan bagi mencapai maqasid shari’ahbagi sesebuah perkahwinan. Namun begitu, sehingga ke hari ini poligami masih tidak dapat diterima masyarakat dengan sebaiknya. Hal ini kerana terdapat kecacatan dalam pengamalannya oleh individu-individu yang terlibat sehingga membawa dampak negatif  terutamanya pada zaman kini. Artikel ini membincangkan poligami dalam Islam, antara kewajipan dan keinginan nafsu dan peranan individu untuk membentuk keluarga bahagia. Kajian ini berbentuk penyelidikan perpustakaan yang akan mengkaji amalan poligami secara berkesan dengan berpandukan anjuran Islam agar dapat menghasilkan tanggapan baik serta mampu membentuk institusi keluarga bahagia dan harmoni. Hasil kajian mendapati perihal poligami ini seharusnya tidak melibatkan pembawakan emosi, perasaan dan keinginan semata-mata baik dari lelaki mahupun wanita dek kerana ianya sukar dikawal. Namun kita hendaklah berfikir secara waras meskipun bertentangan dengan emosi. Justeru itu, pentingnya memberi kesedaran bahawa poligami adalah perkara yang mulia jika dilaksanakan atas dasar kewajipan dan tanggungjawab di dalam diri setiap insan bagi membentuk keluarga bahagia yang diredhai Allah SWT, bukannya demi memenuhi kerakusan nafsu semata-mata dan sekaligus merenung hikmah yang terselindung disebaliknya. Kata Kunci: Poligami, Dhawabit, Kewajipan, Keinginan Nafsu, Keluarga Bahagia. Abstract Polygamy is one of the debated issues that has often been the discourse of society throughout the world. This issue is frequently controversial and intrigued. It also has thousands of deliberations from different perspectives that are yet to be agreed upon. Islam requires men who intend to practice polygamy to observe dhawabit which is mandatory rule to achieve a maqasid shari’ah of a marriage. However, polygamy is still unappealing to society up until now. This is due to the fact that polygamy has been so wrongly practiced by individuals and therefore, it has been negatively affected especially in recent times. This article discusses polygamy in accordance to Islamic perspectives, between the obligation and desire of lust, and individual roles in order to achieve harmonious accord between family members through polygamy. This study is in the form of a library research that will study effective practices based on the guidance of Islam to generate positive perception and establish a happy and harmonious family institution. The outcome of this study is whereas these polygamies should not involve the expression of emotions, feelings and desires either from men or women as they are difficult to control. However, this issue must be comprehended with reasons and rationality even when countless emotions will repudiate it. Therefore, it is important to promote awareness about the practice of polygamy so that it is performed on the basis of obligations and responsibilities of each person to form a happy family that is pleasing to Allah and to contemplate the wisdom behind it not merely to fulfill lust and desires. Keywords: Polygamy, Dhawabit, Obligation, Lust, Happy Family.  

2018 ◽  
Vol 3 (2) ◽  
pp. 76
Author(s):  
Novi Anggun Pusvitasary

Pneumonia disease is the leading cause of death of babies in the world. The prevalence of pneumonia in infants is 18.5 / mil. Data from Samarinda City Health Office during the last 1 year there are 91 cases of pneumonia in Karang Anyar Village and 63 cases in Teluk Lerong Ulu Village. Factors causing pneumonia are toddler factors, behavioral factors, and environmental factors. The results show there is a relationship between house humidity (p value = 0,013; OR = 0,192), house dwelling density (p value = 0,024; OR = 0,214), and family member smoking behavior (p value = 0,006; OR = 10,450) with incidence of pneumonia in toddlers in the Working Area of Puskesmas Wonorejo Samarinda. There was no correlation between house temperature (p value = 0,214; OR = 0,337), house lighting (p value = 0,095; OR = 3,188) and family disease history (p value = 0,707; OR = 0,753) with Pneumonia occurrence in infant in region Work Puskesmas Wonorejo Samarinda. It was concluded that there was a relationship between house humidity, home dwelling density, and smoking behavior of family members with the incidence of pneumonia in infants. It is recommended to be able to apply housing health requirements that meet health standards to reduce the incidence of pneumonia in infants and change smoking habits.


1982 ◽  
Vol 50 (3) ◽  
pp. 739-744 ◽  
Author(s):  
Frances A. Karnes ◽  
Leta A. Lee

A study of the persons who most impressed gifted youth was conducted with 125 gifted students enrolled in a summer residential program. Students were asked to indicate the person who most impressed them and to include the reason(s) why that person was chosen. The most frequently chosen category of individuals was family members (44.8%), then persons doing a specific job (15.2%), comrades or friends (12.8%), persons in the world of arts and culture (12%), political/historical figures (8.0%), sports figures (4.8%), and moral and religious personalities (2.4%).


2020 ◽  
Vol 2 (2) ◽  
pp. 90-105
Author(s):  
Zubaidi Wahyono ◽  
Mohd Abbas Abdul Razak

Tourism has now become an important source of revenue for many countries in the world. The spillover from this booming and lucrative industry impacts positively the other sectors of the national economy in those countries. This situation is not only true in the advanced countries of the world, but also in the Muslim world. In this present study on Islamic tourism the researchers intend to investigate the definition, destination, purpose and ethical issues related to Islamic tourism. Very particularly, the study will focus on the situation in three of the Muslim countries situated in the region of Southeast Asia; namely Malaysia, Indonesia and Brunei. Driven by the passion to study on Islamic tourism, the researchers are interested to know the guiding principles set in these countries in contrast to others in the region. Apart from the crux of the investigation, on the peripheral, this study will also look into the topic of tourism from the Islamic ethical dimension, mainly referring to the Qur’an and Sunnah. As a qualitative study, the researchers will employ the library research approach in collecting the pertinent data related to the study. By using the textual-analysis method they will scrutinize data collected from online and print materials. It is hoped that this modest research can be a contribution in advancing Islamic tourism in the Malay Archipelago and elsewhere in the world. From this study, it could discovered initially that Islamic tourism is a huge opportunity for the Muslims in the region to develop further to tap the industry as well as to introduce the region with Muslim majority to the world. Enormous efforts have been done to promote and to develop the religious tourism in the region along with the conventional tourism generally and it had achieved significant results by attaining the top place in Islamic tourism industry. However a lot of works should be done such as the lack of standard facilities and promotions as well as the regional coordination in order to bring the religious industry to another level. It is necessary to expand the niche of Islamic tourism which is still below 20 percent out the conventional tourism industry largely.


2015 ◽  
Vol 39 (2) ◽  
Author(s):  
Irwandy Irwandy

<p>Abstrak: Untuk mencapai pembelajaran yang optimal, peran guru masih sangat penting sehingga seorang guru dituntut untuk memiliki berbagai kecerdasan untuk menopang profesionalismenya. Dalam konteks kekinian, kajian-kajian tentang kecerdasan masih tetap didominasi oleh penemuan-penemuan Barat, padahal dalam Islam tidaklah menutup kemungkinan persoalan ini terekam dalam sumber ajaran Islam secara rapi. Untuk mengetahui itu, dalam tulisan ini akan diulas dengan metode library research untuk mengungkap bagaimana kecerdasan guru perspektif Barat dan Islam. Kecerdasan merupakan daya dalam diri manusia yang mempengaruhi kemampuan seseorang di berbagai bidang. Dalam perspektif Barat, teori tentang kecerdasan banyak sekali bentuknya, namun tetap dalam lingkup pengembangan kualitas diri manusia. Dalam perspektif Islam, kecerdasan (al-dzaka) memiliki beberapa aspek, dan setiap aspek yang ada tetap sejalan dalam mewujudkan orientasi kehidupan dunia dan akhirat yang lebih baik.</p><p><br />Abstract: Teachers’ Intelligence in the Perspectives of the West and Islam. To achieveoptimal learning, the teacher’s roleis still very important that a teacheris required to have a variety of intelligence to sustain professionalism. In thepresent context, studies on intelligenceis still dominated by the discoveries of the West, but Islam does not rule out the possibility of this issueis recorded in the source of Islamic teachings neatly. To know that, in this paper we review the methods of library research to reveal how intelligence perspective teachers the West and Islam. Intelligence is a power in man which affectone’s ability invarious fields. In the perspective of the West, theories about intelligence in numerable forms, but still with in the scope of the development of quality human beings. In the perspective of Islam, intellect (al-dzaka) has several aspects, and each aspect that is still consistent in realizing the orientation of the life of the world and the here after better.</p><p><br />Kata Kunci: kecerdasan majemuk, pendidikan, guru, Islam</p>


2021 ◽  
Vol 14 (1) ◽  
pp. 83
Author(s):  
Obay Sobari ◽  
Ulil Amri Syafri ◽  
Budi Handrianto

<p class="15bIsiAbstractBInggris">The moral decadence of this age is very worrying for the world of education. Various problems arise from the inability of students to self-control so that they fall into crime. Surely this needs to be found a solution. This study tried to find a method of learning about adab and its application from Abu Bakr al Jazairi. This study uses the method of literature study (library research). The results of the study found that the application of adab to self begins from repenting (Repentance) to God as a sign of awareness of human weakness and humiliation, then always under the supervision of Allah SWT (muraqabah) in every circumstance, always conduct self-evaluation (Mahasabha) and struggle to control yourself (mujaahadah).</p><p class="16aJudulAbstrak"><strong>Abstrak</strong></p><p class="16bIsiAbstrak">Dekadensi moral di zaman ini sangat mengkhawatirkan dunia pendidikan. Berbagai masalah timbul di mulai dari ketidakmampuan siswa dalam mengendalikan diri sehingga terjatuh ke dalam kejahatan. Tentunya hal ini perlu dicarikan solusinya. Penelitian ini mencoba menemukan metode pembelajaran tentang adab dan penerapannya dalam dari dalam karya Abu Bakar al Jazairi. Penelitian ini menggunakan metode kajian kepustakaan (library reasech). Hasil penelitian menemukan bahwa penerapan adab terhadap diri dimulai dari bertobat (Taubat) kepada Allah sebagai tanda kesadaran akan kelemahan dan kehinaan manusia, lalu selalu dalam pengawasan Allah SWT (muraqabah) dalam setiap keadaan, senantiasa melakukan evaluasi diri (muhaasabah) dan berjuang menguasai diri (mujaahadah).</p>


Author(s):  
Evangeline Bonisiwe Zungu

The recent COVID-19 pandemic took the world by storm. The rate of infection and prevalence of death struck fear in the hearts of many across the globe. The high likelihood of infection required continual testing whilst the trauma of bereavement left many distraught. For traditionalists, a principal concern was whether they would be permitted to exhaustively practise their burial rites in the course of mourning their loved ones. The importance of the custom, as it is believed, is to prevent unsettled feelings in family members. This article is aimed at stimulating consideration, reflection and understanding of the concerns experienced by traditional societies surrounding COVID-19 regulations and the non-performance of important burial rites. Surviving family members experience troubled thoughts as a result of the fear of repercussions, which may include the living-dead withholding their protection of the family which consequently will cause ailments and accidents. This article will utilise inductive thematic analysis to interpret the data collected .


Al-Mizan ◽  
2020 ◽  
Vol 16 (1) ◽  
pp. 1-26
Author(s):  
Ahmad Jazil

Pre-marital marriage cource aims to equip brides-to-be with understanding and knowledge and skills about married life, hoping that in the future they can create a harmonious family while reducing conflict, domestic violence and divorce. This study discusses the existence of pre-marital marriage course in the Ujung Tanah District, Makassar City. This study uses a qualitative approach with data collection methods through interviews. The results of this study indicate that participants of premarital marriage course in the Ujung Tanah District, Makassar city are participants who have registered at the Office of Religious Affairs, but have not yet entered into a marriage contract. The fact that after following pre-marital marriage course, the couples feel each other's self confidence increases and their are better prepared to live a domestic life, so that the existence of pre-marital marriage course can create a happy family. However, in the implementation there were also obstacles faced by the facilitators and the guidance participants.


2021 ◽  
Vol 13 (2021/1) ◽  
Author(s):  
Krisztina Teleki

The 20th century brought different periods in the history of Mongolia including theocracy, socialism and democracy. This article describes what renouncing the world (especially the home and the family), taking ordination, and taking monastic vows meant at the turn of the 20th century and a century later. Extracts from interviews reveal the life of pre-novices, illustrating their family backgrounds, connections with family members after ordination, and support from and towards the family. The master-disciple relationship which was of great significance in Vajrayāna tradition, is also described. As few written sources are available to study monks’ family ties, the research was based on interviews recorded with old monks who lived in monasteries in their childhood (prior to 1937), monks who were ordained in 1990, and pre-novices of the current Tantric monastic school of Gandantegčenlin Monastery. The interviews revealed similarities and differences in monastic life in given periods due to historical reasons. Though Buddhism could not attain its previous, absolutely dominant role in Mongolia after the democratic changes, nowadays tradition and innovation exist in parallel.


2020 ◽  
Vol 12 (2) ◽  
pp. 156-157
Author(s):  
Mohammad Mostafa Ansari Ramandi ◽  
Mohammadreza Baay ◽  
Nasim Naderi

The disaster due to the novel coronavirus disease 2019 (COVID-19) around the world has made investigators enthusiastic about working on different aspects of COVID-19. However, although the pandemic of COVID-19 has not yet ended, it seems that COVID-19 compared to the other coronavirus infections (the Middle East Respiratory Syndrome [MERS] and Severe Acute Respiratory Syndrome [SARS]) is more likely to target the heart. Comparing the previous presentations of the coronavirus family and the recent cardiovascular manifestations of COVID-19 can also help in predicting possible future challenges and taking measures to tackle these issues.


2020 ◽  
Vol 26 (3) ◽  
pp. 143-148
Author(s):  
Gordana Todorović ◽  
Aleksandar Joldžić ◽  
Slađana Anđelić ◽  
Darko Nedeljković

Introduction/Objective Severe acute respiratory distress syndrome caused by coronavirus 2 (SARS-COV-2) is a new respiratory disease -COVID-19. A virus from the Coronaviridae family, highly contagious and virulent took over the world in a very short time causing the 2019/2020 pandemic. We are presenting the case of COVID-19 transmission among family members, patients of various ages, sex, clinical presentation and findings, who have been infected in different ways. Case reports Three patients are described, all with different coronavirus-specific symptomatology. Symptoms ranged from fatigue and loss of appetite with no other, more prominent symptoms in the youngest patient, to fever, high temperature, diarrhoea, muscle ache and chest pain during inspiration in the oldest patient. The third patient's dominant symptoms were dry, non-productive cough, lack of oxygen, shortness of breath and perspiration on exertion, headache and normal temperature, with radiographically confirmed bilateral pneumonia. Laboratory findings (leukopenia, lymphocytopenia with elevated C-reactive protein levels, high erythrocyte sedimentation rate and lactate dehydrogenase levels) were consistent with a viral infection, highly suspicious of SARS-COV-2, which was confirmed with a real-time RT-PCR test in all three patients. After being hospitalized in the Clinical Hospital Center "Zemun" Department of Pulmonology and treated with symptomatic, antiviral and antibiotic therapy, the disease regressed and the RT-PCR tests became negative. Conclusion SARS-COV-2 is a very aggressive and potent cause of the coronavirus disease. The presented cases confirm the possibility of quick transmission within a family through direct and indirect contact, as well as the diversity of symptoms, laboratory and clinical findings. Our clinical examples are similar in symptomatology and available results to cases from other parts of the world hit with the pandemic.


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