Peran Kiai Dalam Menyelesaikan Konflik Keluarga

2021 ◽  
Vol 1 (2) ◽  
pp. 184-193
Author(s):  
Muhammad Habib ◽  
Muhammad Shaleh ◽  
 Muhammad Hasbi

An interesting phenomenon that occurs in the people of the Tanjung Pura Subdistrict, Langkat Regency, who still consider the kiai to be a highly respected and respected figure. In terms of problems that occur between husband and wife such as nusyuz and syiqaq, people still believe that by telling the kiai, they will get the best solution as an effort to resolve conflicts that occur in their families. This type of research is juridical-empirical law research (Socio-Legal Research). This research was conducted by looking for field data (field research) and library research, namely analyzing data sources on books. Data collection techniques were carried out by conducting interviews with kiai and communities in several villages in the Tanjung Pura District, Langkat Regency. The purpose of this study was to determine the role played by the kiai in resolving family conflicts in Tanjung Pura District, Langkat Regency and to find out the review of Islamic law and its legislation related to the resolution of family conflicts involving a kiai. The results of the research that have been carried out conclude that the kiai has a role in reducing family conflicts in the community in the Tanjung Pura District, Langkat Regency, including the first role of the kiai in providing good solutions to problems faced by married couples, secondly the role of the kiai in trying to reconcile husband and wife. -wife who is in disagreement, the three roles of the kiai are good protectors in an effort to resolve family conflicts. Islam gives up the freedom of settlement to reach an agreement to make peace for those who are in dispute. This is done because Islah-shulh is part of Islamic teachings to resolve a dispute or conflict peacefully. However, it is different from the laws and regulations which have their own rules in the implementation of mediation in court. In accordance with Perma No. 1 of 2016 Article 13 that to be a mediator in the mediation process must have a certificate. With regard to efforts to resolve family conflicts by involving the kiai as hakam, this is permissible. However, the role of the kiai as a mediator or hakam can only be carried out in an effort to resolve disputes that have not been submitted to court with the consent of the conflicting parties. Unless, the kiai already has a certificate as a mediator. Keywords: kiai; mediator; Family

2019 ◽  
Vol 19 (2) ◽  
pp. 185-203
Author(s):  
Ilham Thohari ◽  
Moh. Makmun

This research was motivated by the reveal of the phenomenon in Jeblok, Brudu Village, Sumobito District, Jombang Regency. In this village, the people object to the level of agricultural zakah that has to pay regarding the high costs of cultivating rice fields. It is interesting phenomenon whereas this village has a wide agriculture land for about 47, 48 acres. This was field research by using descriptive-analytic methods. This type of research was qualitative by applying a comparative approach between the case approach and the conceptual approach and the Maqashid Shari'ah approach. The results showed that the potential of agricultural zakat in Jeblok, Brudu Village, Sumobito District, Jombang Regency is very large. However, farmers argue about levels of agricultural zakah that must be paid. They feel that 5% and 10% are too burdensome because of the high cost of processing rice fields. Therefore, the people demand equal tariff between agriculture zakah level and trade zakah because both require capital to manage. In this case Islamic law is sociological-anthropocentric which is very concerned with aspects of the application of law within the scope of society. In general, the nature of Islamic law is elastic and not rigid, so that tariffs or levels of agricultural zakat which are very expensive (5% or 10%) can be changed to be more affordable for the community. Therefore, through the maqashid shari'ah approach, the level of agriculture zakah can be set into 2.5% following the level of zakah trade after deducting the cost of cultivating rice fields.


2020 ◽  
Vol 1 (3) ◽  
pp. 272-293
Author(s):  
Syandri ◽  
Iskandar ◽  
Sulaiman Kadir

This study aimed to identify the process and purpose of the grave pilgrimage tradition after marriage in Manisa village, Baranti subdisctrict, Sidrap district, South Sulawesi, and also to examine the law of the custom in the view of Islamic law. This research employed a qualitative approach with the field study method (Field Research) and library research. The study shows that: 1. People ini Manisa village after celebrating their wedding they make grave pilgrimage in forms of such as: Determining a certain time according to the agreement of the bride and groom, preparing the necessary preparations such as water, kettles, and pandanus leaves, making ablution before going to the graveyard, praying before entering the cemetery, watering the grave with water mixed with pandanus leaves, holding the gravestone, praying for the late by reciting certain chapters finalized by surah Al-Fatihah. 2. Grave pilgrimage is one of the prescribed acts of worship but it should be in accordance with the guidance of the Prophet. As for what is found in the people of Manisa Urban Village, there are still a number of differences between what they do and what had been exemplified by the Messenger of Allah such as the determination of a special time for the grave pilgrimage, watering the grave, and seeking for blessing from the graves visited.


2021 ◽  
Vol 14 (1) ◽  
pp. 47
Author(s):  
Hazi Kurniva Sari

Muslims believe that marriage is the best way to have children and maintain self-respect. In the Compilation of Islamic Law Article 3 paragraph (1) it is explained: the purpose of marriage is to realize a sakinah, mawaddah, warohmah household life. There are many ways to form a family, but the people of Ngabar Village, Siman District, Ponorogo Regency, and also other people do not know how to form a harmonious family. This study aims to (1) determine the understanding of the Ngabar Village community towards Law Number 11 of 2009 concerning Social Welfare, (2) to determine the role of KUA Siman District in the formation of a sakinah family in Ngabar Village, Siman District, Ponorogo Regency. This type of research is Field Research. A descriptive approach is used in this study. The results of this study indicate: The people of Ngabar Village do not understand the meaning of social welfare even though the employees of the Siman District Religious Affairs Office have socialized Law Number 11 of 2009 concerning social welfare. As a result, the formation of a sakinah family in Ngabar Village has not been carried out as much as expected.


Author(s):  
Bastiar Bastiar

In Islamic law, a marriage contract is not only a civil matter but also a very strong sacred bond that is worth of worship. Therefore, marriage must be maintained properly to realize the sakinah mawaddah wa rahmah family, but when it is in a sacred bond, there are some couples who are reluctant to fulfill their responsibilities and demand right that are not theirs so that the sakinah family will be difficult to be actualized. This study aimed to determine the understanding of husband and wife about rights and responbilities, and a significant relationship between the rights and obligations acomplishment of husband and wife in realizing a harmonious marriage or sakinah family. This research was normative-empirical legal research in the form of analytical prescriptive which was supported by primary and secondary data. Data collection was obtained through library research, documentation, interviews, and observation. Based on the research was conducted, it found the results: First, husband and wife understand that the position of wife and husband in the household are the same, but they have different rights and obligations, although on the other hand the community understands that the position of the wife in the family is under the husband, they understand it from fiqh salf which states that the wife must uphold her husband with an honor and glory. Second, the concept of Islamic marriage teaches that the rights possessed by husband and wife are balanced with the obligations burdened on them, a husband or wife has balanced obligations. Third, to build a harmonious, peace and peaceful family, they can be performed with developing the Islamic teachings, fostering the mutual respect, coaching the efficient living attitudes, and training a self-awareness from each married couples. Key Words: Fulfillment, Rights and Responbilities, Husband and Wife, Sakinah Household. Abstrak: Dalam hukum Islam akad perkawinan bukan hanya perkara perdata semata, melainkan juga ikatan suci yang sangat kokoh yang bernilai ibadah. Untuk itu perkawinan harus dipelihara dengan baik sehingga akan terwujudnya keluarga sakinah mawaddah wa rahmah, namun ketika telah berada dalam ikatan suci, ada pasangan yang enggan memenuhi kewajiban dan penuntutan hak yang diluar haknya maka keluarga sakinah sebagaimana harapan akan sulit terealisasi. Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk mengetahui pemahaman pasangan suami istri tentang hak dan kewajiban suami istri, dan hubungan yang signifikan antara pemenuhan hak dan kewajiban suami isteri dalam mewujudkan perkawinan yang harmonis atau perwujudan keluarga sakinah. Penelitian ini adalah penelitian hukum normatif-empiris dalam bentuk preskriptif analitis yang didukung oleh data primer dan sekunder. Pengumpulan data melalui studi pustaka, dokumentasi, wawancara, dan observasi. Berdasarkan penelitian yang dilakukan ditemukan hasil: Pertama, Suami istri memahami bahwa kedudukan istri dan suami dalam rumah tangga sama, namun memiliki hak dan kewajiban yang berbeda, meskipun disisi lain masyarakat memahami bahwa kedudukan istri dalam keluarga berada di bawah suami, hal ini mereka pahami dari pemahaman fikih salaf yang menyebutkan bahwa istri harus menjunjung tinggi suaminya dengan kehormatan dan kemuliaan. Kedua, Konsep pekawinan Islam mengajarkan bahwa hak-hak yang dimiliki oleh suami maupun isteri adalah seimbang dengan kewajiban yang dibebankan kepada mereka,seorang suami atau isteri memiliki kewajiban-kewajiban yang seimbang. Ketiga, untuk mewujufkan keluarga yang harmonis, sakinah dan penuh kedamaian dapat di lakukan dengan cara Pembinaan penghayatan ajaran agama Islam, Pembinaan sikap saling menghormati, Pembinaan sikap Hidup Efisien, dan Pembinaan sikap suka mawas diri dari masing-masing pasangan suami isteri. Kata Kunci: Pemenuhan, Hak dan Kewajiban, Suami Istri, Rumah Tangga


Nuansa ◽  
2018 ◽  
Vol 11 (2) ◽  
Author(s):  
Eli Rahmidiani

The purpose of this study is to find out how the role of women’s women’s crisis center Bengkulu in handling cases of domestic violence in the perspective of Islamic Law and  Law Number twenty  three Year two four About Aboli- tion of Domestic Violence. This type of research is field research (field research) supported by library  research (library research). From  the  result  of this research, it is concluded that  the  role of women’s crisis center Bengkulu women in handling cases  of domestic violence in collaboration with legal aid institutions, medical, police,  and  courts, this  co- operation is called  case-handling network in an effort to reach cases  of domestic violence and  sexual  violence can be handled and  facilitated by victims  such  as safe houses, counseling rooms, to share stories and  facilities  in the form of legal assistance and handling in a familial manner while reducing the number of sexual violence handled by prevention programs. Analysis of Islamic law against domestic violence that in Al-Qur’an Surah  An-Nisa ‘verse thirty-four explains that a husband should not immediately hurt  his wife with a painful blow. Since Islam does not teach such a thing, there have been good and  right rules when the husband is facing such  problems. Although beating the wife is justified in Is- lam, it is hitting that does not hurt the wife and with educational intentions. Analysis of Law Number Twenty-three Years Two Thousand Four  About Abolition of Domestic Violence  is able  to avoid  family violence, when disharmony occurs between husband and wife. More broadly, it is necessary to have fundamental changes in women’s status and attitudes toward both women and men  in society,  the need for continuous and strategic efforts to deconstruct traditional power structures that have been considered legitimate and deconstruct cultural assumptions and religions that strengthen and legitimize violence


2021 ◽  
Vol 6 (01) ◽  
pp. 47-54
Author(s):  
Sarwo Edy Sarwo ◽  
Rayuningsih

This research is motivated by the presence of Islamic Microfinance Institutions in the form of BMT, namely BMT Fajar in the community, especially the people of Cileungsi-Bogor, is expected to bring changes in various aspects of people's lives. In the case of the people of Cileungsi Village, Bogor Regency, where the community is not familiar with Sharia Microfinance Institutions such as BMTs well. Until finally people prefer to make loans to Mobile Banks or so-called loan sharks with interest that are not small as business financing capital, it is the habit of borrowing capital to loan sharks that is the problem and attracts the author's interest to do research. This study aims to determine the background of BMT Fajar in providing mudharabah financing, to know the mudharabah financing procedure, and to determine the role of mudharabah financing in BMT Fajar. The methodology used in this study used a qualitative approach, namely field research and library research. Field research is data collection techniques using observation, interview and documentation methods with Branch Heads, BMT Fajar Cileungsi-Bogor UMKM entrepreneurs, and their business customers. So as to get accurate data on the research process, and library research data, namely by means of data analysis using inductive, deductive and comparative. Through interviews and observations, it can be seen that based on the results of the research it can be concluded that the role of BMT Fajar's Cileungsi branch in improving micro-businesses is by BMT Fajar to provide financing products that are not difficult in terms of capital, which do not apply the usury system in the operational system, but are replaced with a profit sharing system. between BMT and members in accordance with Islamic Sharia. One of them is through Mudharabah financing. Because they saw many Little Pengusa who had gone out of business. Whereas Small and Medium Enterprises have the potential for development in facing the Economic Crisis.


2019 ◽  
Vol 1 (2) ◽  
pp. 131-144
Author(s):  
Dini Maulana Lestari ◽  
M Roif Muntaha ◽  
Immawan Azhar BA

Islamic banks are present in the community as financial institutions whose activities are based on the principles of Islamic law for the benefit of the people. This study aims to determine the strategic role of Islamic Banks as financial service institutions, the importance of the existence of Islamic Banks and Islamic-based markets and financial instruments in them. In its development, Islamic banks have a role as institutions that turn on public funds, channel funds to the public, transfer assets, liquidity, reallocation of income and transactions. In the Indonesian economic system, the existence of Islamic Banks is important as an alternative solution to the problem of conflict between bank interest and usury. Islamic financial markets and instruments provide a free society of interest and follow a different set of principles. Distribution of profit/ loss according to evidence of participation in the management fund. The division of rental income in the form of musharaka.


2018 ◽  
Vol 11 (1) ◽  
pp. 35-48
Author(s):  
Siah Khosyi’ah

The division of marital joint property after the breakup of marriage, whether dropping out of marriage due to divorce or due to death, is a new thing in Islamic jurisprudence (fiqh). This is because the concept of mutual treasure is not known in the books of classical Islamic jurisprudence of Muslim scholars of the schools at their times, in which their work are always made as referral in the legal cases up to the present days. In Indonesia, the distribution of common property is regulated in the Compilation of Islamic Laws Articles 96 and 97, which stipulate the rules of distribution of joint property for married couples whose married are off as a result of divorce or death. Article 97 of the Compilation of Islamic Law actually provides an overview of the flexibility of the distribution of common marital property, including in certain cases because the article is regulating (regelen) rather than forcing (dwigen), so that the division is not absolutely divided equally between husband and wife, and casuistically the provisions of that article may be disregarded.


ISLAMIKA ◽  
2020 ◽  
Vol 14 (1) ◽  
pp. 1-11
Author(s):  
Ade Jamarudin ◽  
Ofa Ch Pudin

Ijarah is a contract on the transfer of goods or services with rewards instead. Ijarah based transactions with the displacement benefit (rights to), not transfer of ownership (property rights), there ijara financing translates as buying and selling services (wages hired), that take advantage of human power, there is also a translate lease, which take advantage of goods. Application ijarah growing financial institutions in the current Shari'ah is happening on the leasing company (financial institution based on Islamic teachings, as well as Islamic banking is one of the products in Islamic finance. Application ijarah emerging financial institutions shari'ah 'ah at the moment that is happening on the leasing company (financial institution based on Islamic teachings, as well as Islamic banking is one of the Islamic financing products). This research is a library research (library research) and field research (field research), and is descriptive, analytic and comparative. Data sources used in this study are sourced from primary and secondary data. Ijarah transactions are based on the transfer of benefits (use rights), not the transfer of ownership (ownership rights), some translate ijarah financing as the sale and purchase of services (wage wages), i.e., taking the benefits of human labor


Author(s):  
Aulil Amri

In Islamic law, pre-wedding photos have not been regulated in detail. However, pre-wedding photo activities have become commonplace by the community. It becomes a problem when pre-wedding is currently done with an intimate scene, usually the prospective bride uses sexy clothes and is also not accompanied by her mahram when doing pre-wedding photos. Even though there have been many fatwas and studies on the limits of permissibility and prohibition in the pre-wedding procession.The results show that the pre-wedding procession that is carried out by the community in terms of poses, clothes, and also assistance in accordance with Islamic law, the law is permissible. However, it often happens in the community to take photos before the marriage contract with scenes as if they are legally husband and wife and the bride's family knows without prohibiting, directing, and guiding them according to Islamic teachings. In this case the role of the family is very important, we as parents must understand the basis of religious knowledge and how to instill religious values in our children since childhood is the key to this problem dilemma.


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