Konsep Orang Tua Yang Durhaka Dalam Perspektif Islam

AKADEMIKA ◽  
2017 ◽  
Vol 11 (1) ◽  
pp. 116-124
Author(s):  
Siti Suwaibatul Aslamiyah

Many are peeling many of wich explore the child’s ungodly behavior to parents, but few who explore the opposite phenomenon of the ungodly behavior of parents against their children. Children is a grace from God of Allah swt to his parents to be grateful, educated and fostered to be a good person, strong personality and ethical Islamic. While, the development of religion in children is largely determined by the education and their experience, especially during the pre-election period of expectant mothers and fathers and the first growth period from 0 to 12 years. For that, the author is moved to explore and examine (about) the concept of elderly parents in the perspective of Islam. This is the author thoroughly to know who exactly the child in his existence according to Islam? What is the rule and rule of education in family and family roles in children’s education? What are the preparations (actions) that are classified as the ungodly behavior of parens against the child? In this study shows there is an effect (impact) between the family environment (parents) on the formation of islamic character and ethics in children from an early age mainly from the factors of prospective fathers and prospective mothers so the authors get the correlation that the failure of good personality planting in early childhood will turn out to form a problematic person in his adulthood (his grow up). While the success of parents guiding their children will determine the formation of character and their morals so that the family environment conditions are crucial for the success of children in social life in their adult life later (after grow up).  In this study resulted in the conclusion that there are some things that make the parents become ungodly against their children and it has been conceptualized in the holy book of the Qur’an which at least in this study collected there are 14 components of eldery behavior of the lawless to their children.

2019 ◽  
Vol 2 (3) ◽  
pp. 81-90
Author(s):  
Daviq Chairilsyah

This paper aimed to provide logical reasons for parents and teachers about the importance of teaching tolerance from early age. This paper explained the types of tolerance that should be trained such as religious tolerance, tolerance of multi-ethnicity, multiracial, cultural and gender differences. Literature review was used in explaining theoretical studies, and discussion. Teaching an attitude of tolerance from an early age will be the root for children in their social life. Teaching it from an early age can create children who are able to respect others and do not distinguish based on what they see in the family or community environment. Parents and family members are the main facilitators for children to cultivate an attitude of tolerance. They are required to teach children the importance of tolerance by providing positive examples. Parents are required to teach tolerance starting from the family environment to the wider community. Meanwhile, the teacher can teach from the social environment to fellow students at school. It can be concluded that the role of parents and teachers here is very important in the inculcation of attitude and tolerance in early childhood.


Author(s):  
Rosalia Windu Asih

<p><em>Parents are the firs environment a child experiences when he is born into the world.Furthermore,parents are also the main environment in shaping a child’s personality.At the beginning of their growth, they tend to spend more with the family environment,especially parents.Then in the family a child experiences the first and foremost educational process of the parents.All forms of parental behaviour,both oral and good deeds that are exemplary and habits applied in social life wiil affect the pattern of child development.Therefore,my parents should  able to instill a good education and of course this is true in children from an early age,so that the subsequent development of children can reflect a good and noble personality as well as be beneficial for themselves ,parentsriligion,society and nation and country.</em></p>


Author(s):  
St Zakiah

This study examines the leadership of women in Madrasah Aliyah in Bone District. The purpose of this study was to determine the profile of women's leadership, the views of religious leaders and community leaders on women's leadership and the contribution of women's leadership as the head of Madrasah Aliyah. Women's leadership styles tend to be democratic. The obstacles faced by the female Madrasah Aliyah head in Bone Regency are two, namely internal barriers and external barriers. Internal obstacles come from within the madrasa itself. With capitalization and tenacity internal obstacles can be overcome. Whereas external barriers originating outside the madrasah, namely obstacles that come from the family environment of the head of the madrasah itself. The leadership of the female head of the Madrasah Aliyah received support from religious leaders and community leaders in Bone Regency. The female head of the Madrasah Aliyah contributes in the fields of education, religion and social life.


2019 ◽  
Vol 19 (2) ◽  
pp. 143
Author(s):  
Novan Ardy Wiyani

<p>The purpose of this community service is to provide knowledge both theoretically and practically related to child education methodology (pedagogy). Community service activities using andragogy approach and counseling methods. There are four results achieved from this activity. First, participants gain knowledge about the position of parents in educating children based on the characteristics of children and gain knowledge about positive relationships between fathers and mothers in the process of educating children in the family environment. Second, parents already have strong reasons that make them have to prioritize children's education from an early age. Third, parents have the assumption that habituation activities undertaken to shape the character of children in PAUD institutions must be accompanied by habituation activities carried out in the family environment. Fourth, parents are able to identify the level of addiction to the use of gadgets on themselves and get knowledge about 10 ways to discipline the use of gadgets in children.</p><p> </p><p>Tujuan dari pengabdian masyarakat ini adalah untuk memberikan pengetahuan baik secara teoritis maupun praktis terkait dengan metodologi pendidikan anak (pedagogi). Kegiatan layanan masyarakat menggunakan pendekatan andragogi dan metode konseling. Ada empat hasil yang dicapai dari kegiatan ini. Pertama, peserta mendapatkan pengetahuan tentang posisi orang tua dalam mendidik anak berdasarkan karakteristik anak dan mendapatkan pengetahuan tentang hubungan positif antara ayah dan ibu dalam proses mendidik anak di lingkungan keluarga. Kedua, orang tua sudah memiliki alasan kuat yang membuat mereka harus memprioritaskan pendidikan anak sejak usia dini. Ketiga, orang tua memiliki asumsi bahwa kegiatan pembiasaan yang dilakukan untuk membentuk karakter anak-anak di lembaga PAUD harus disertai dengan kegiatan pembiasaan yang dilakukan di lingkungan keluarga. Keempat, orang tua dapat mengidentifikasi tingkat kecanduan penggunaan gadget pada diri mereka sendiri dan mendapatkan pengetahuan tentang 10 cara untuk mendisiplinkan penggunaan gadget pada anak-anak.</p>


2017 ◽  
Vol 11 (1) ◽  
pp. 15
Author(s):  
Rena Feri Wijayanti ◽  
Tri Yulistyawati Evelina ◽  
Joni Dwi Pribadi

Consumer behavior is formed through various processes that have been passed since the early age. The initial process that contributes greatly in the formation of consumer behavior is at the stage of socialization conducted by an individual in the family environment. The family becomes the starting place of learning is done in addition to the influence of the surrounding environment or peers. Adolescence is one category of consumer age that has the potential to be the target consumers. Based on the socialization process experienced by adolescents it will be seen how their behavior becomes a consumer who can make decisions in making purchases.


Author(s):  
Mutmainnah Mutmainnah

Early childhood education is part of the application of lifelong education (life long education) which is the main portal towards the next level of education. There are 3 different environment that is very influential for the psychology and development of children. That is; first, the family environment is the main pillar to form the good and bad of the human person to develop well in ethics, morals, and morals, if not guarded properly, the effect can be prolonged. the family environment is also the initial formation of the person and character. Children's education requires an environment where he can develop the strengths he has brought from birth. Second, PAUD environment which is a place of education for children, PAUD environment should be fun for children and also provide opportunities for the development of the potential of each individual. Third, the environment of the wider community has a major influence on the successful planting of aesthetic values and ethics for character building. In the psychology of physical growth, cognitive development and psychosocial development of children from an early age are very important to be stimulated, so that children can develop according to their capacity.


2020 ◽  
Vol 1 (1) ◽  
pp. 6-9
Author(s):  
Mordalgo Gueirra

This article discusses social behavior deviating from the perspective of culture, social structure, and society. Factors Shaping Social Behavior The shape of adolescent social behavior is very much influenced by how he interacts and how the conditions of the environment support and facilitate him well such as the condition of the family environment, school, and the community around him that is conducive or good, it will greatly affect the behavior. can be formed due to internal factors and individual external factors that play a role. The occurrence of cultural tension and social structures can lead to deviant behavior. This happens if, in an effort to achieve a goal a person does not get an opportunity so that he seeks the opportunity himself, deviant behavior occurs. The development of an adolescent's behavior in social life in the community. Sociologically, society, especially adolescents in general, is very vulnerable to external influences. Because of the process of finding their identity, they are easily swayed, still, find it difficult to determine their role model. They are also easily influenced by the lifestyle of the surrounding community. Because their mental condition is still unstable, adolescents are easily affected by environmental conditions so that they have an impact on their personality.


2018 ◽  
Vol 12 (3) ◽  
pp. 658
Author(s):  
Hayzza Juliana Lopes Velasco ◽  
Rafaely De Cassia Nogueira Sanches ◽  
Cremilde Aparecida Trindade Radovanovic ◽  
Ligia Carreira ◽  
Maria Aparecida Salci

RESUMOObjetivo: investigar as influências da sobrecarga no cônjuge do cuidador do idoso fragilizado. Método: estudo qualitativo, realizado com dez cônjuges de cuidadores de idosos fragilizados, por meio de entrevistas abertas e individuais no domicílio. A análise dos dados foi subsidiada pela técnica de Análise de Conteúdo, na modalidade Análise Temática. Resultados: identificaram-se diversas alterações no cotidiano familiar, com destaque para a perda da liberdade, que provocou alterações na vida social, com interrupções das atividades de lazer; alterações nos relacionamentos conjugal e com os filhos compreendidas pela falta de atenção que o cuidador do idoso consegue dispensar a essas pessoas no dia a dia da vida em família e apontamentos a aspectos negativos e positivos dessa relação. Conclusão: mesmo com todas as mudanças ocorridas na organização familiar, os cônjuges conseguiram promover um realinhamento dos papéis familiares para o bem-estar de todos os integrantes da família. Descritores: Saúde do Idoso; Envelhecimento; Família; Relações Familiares; Cuidadores; Cônjuges. ABSTRACT Objective: to investigate the influence of overload on the caregiver's spouse of the frail elderly. Method: a qualitative study, carried out with ten spouses of caregivers of frail elderly, through open and individual interviews at home. The analysis of the data was subsidized by the technique of Content Analysis, in the modality Thematic Analysis. Results: several changes were identified in family daily life, especially the loss of freedom, which caused alterations in social life, with interruptions of leisure activities; changes in marital and child relationships understood by the lack of attention that the elderly caregiver can give to these people in the daily life of the family and notes to the negative and positive aspects of this relationship. Conclusion: even with all the changes that occurred in the family organization, the spouses were able to promote a realignment of family roles for the well-being of all family members. Descriptors: Health for the Elderly; Aging; Family; Family Relations; Caregivers; Spouses.RESUMEN Objetivo: investigar las influencias de la sobrecarga en el cónyuge del cuidador del anciano fragilizado. Método: estudio cualitativo, realizado con diez cónyuges de cuidadores de ancianos fragilizados, por medio de entrevistas abiertas e individuales en el domicilio. El análisis de los datos fue subsidiada por la técnica de Análisis de Contenido en la modalidad Análisis Temático. Resultados: se identificaron diversas alteraciones en el cotidiano familiar, con destaque para la pérdida de la libertad, que provocó alteraciones en la vida social, con interrupciones de las actividades de ocio; cambios en las relaciones conyugales y con los hijos, comprendidas por la falta de atención que el cuidador del anciano logra dispensar a esas personas en el día a día de la vida en familia; y, apuntes a aspectos negativos y positivos de esa relación. Conclusión: incluso con todos los cambios ocurridos en la organización familiar, los cónyuges lograron promover un realineamiento de los papeles familiares, para el bienestar de todos los integrantes de la familia. Descriptores: Salud del Anciano; Envejecimiento; Familia; Relaciones Familiares; Cuidadores; Esposo.


2016 ◽  
pp. 173-202
Author(s):  
Dorota Jawor-Przybyszewska

The text presented here is a fragment of a larger study on a private and social life of a group of women, actresses. It concerns attempts to create and show their own identity according to their fight for recognition (self-trust, self-estimation in the society, in the family environment, in public space as well as in their own opinions). The strategy of this study was qualitative research, based on a grounded theory methodology. The study was performed on 27 actresses, divided into three age groups. All the studied subjects had a very good economic status and all were successful professionals. The article presents an analysis carried out on the basis of a free flowing but planned interview. The struggle for recognition is treated as a way of restoring a constantly threatened personality and describes the contemporary woman, her situation and her actions. This research shows the problem that professional women come across, namely the women are successful actresses but at the same time wish to be fulfilled in their family lives. Amongst the 18 actresses over the age of 40, 14 talked about taking anti-depressants or about alcohol dependence. Further detailed analysis of the empirical material can help to find the source of the processes, which are a sign of a lack of recognition and which pose a threat to the integrity of the human identity and destroy the social bond which constitutes identity.


2019 ◽  
Author(s):  
Dheang Alfaredo

The importance of the first guidance from the family from an early age is to help children to have an understanding of themselves (their potential) and their environment (their education) and can foster good behavior / ethics in social life. The aim of this research is to know the importance of family guidance to children from an early age. The method in writing is a qualitative method, which contains data collection through interviews from several parents in the housing complex. The results of this study include guidance from the family from an early age should be done because it helps children to have an understanding of themselves and can foster good behavior / ethics for children from an early age, therefore the role of parents to always supervise and guide their children from an early age so that later it would be useful for the nation and state. the usefulness of this article is to find out that parents can provide guidance from their families so that their children grow up under the supervision of their parents.


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