scholarly journals MEMBANGUN KOMUNIKASI INTERPERSONAL ORANG TUA DENGAN ANAK DALAM KELUARGA

2018 ◽  
Vol 1 (1) ◽  
Author(s):  
Fabianus Fensi
Keyword(s):  
Interpersonal Communication ◽  
Social Life ◽  
Psychological Needs ◽  
Communication Model ◽  
Message Delivery ◽  
Open Communication ◽  
Parent Communication ◽  
The Family ◽  
Role Of Parents

The communication model in the family is part of the interpersonal communication. Here the role of parents can be called as the main communicator in the delivery of communication messages. To achieve the effectiveness of a parent communication certainly has its own way of delivering messages to their children, especially when children face certain problems in their social life. As an effective message delivery standard, this activity suggests three possible patterns of communication skills, including: listening communication; Open communication; and honest communication. Listening communication is a parent-to-child interpersonal communication model, or a form of communication involved, especially in responding to the psychological needs of the child. Open communication is a communication that enables messengers and message recipients to understand what they want to achieve in an ongoing communication. Parents as messengers and children as recipients of the message occupy the same position in the exchange of communication messages they are building. While honest communication is a communication model that is delivered with the aim of fostering self-esteem of children. These three models of communication, apart from being the most important way to find solutions to problems faced by children, as well as a way to counter the tendency of self-egoism of parents. With these communication patterns parents are able to absorb what children expect. And, in this way, children feel understood and appreciated by their parents.<br />Keywords: Interpersonal Communication, Listening, Open, Honest.

scholarly journals Peran Keluarga Orang Tua Kepada Anak Balita Dalam Membentuk Karakter (Studi Pada Orang Tua Pemula)

Wardah ◽  
2020 ◽  
Vol 21 (1) ◽  
pp. 18-34
Author(s):  
Habib Al Muzny
Keyword(s):  
Interpersonal Communication ◽  
Nonverbal Communication ◽  
Family Communication ◽  
Communication Model ◽  
Character Study ◽  
The Family ◽  
Qualitative Descriptive ◽  
Role Of Parents ◽  
Depth Interviews

Abstract: The article with the title 'The Role of Parents' Families To Toddlers in Forming Character (Study of Beginner Parents),' aims to 1) Analyze the patterns of communication that parents make to their children, 2) Analyze the use of verbal and nonverbal communication by parents to toddlers. 3) looking for communication models carried out by parents to toddlers. The method used in this study is a qualitative descriptive approach to in-depth interviews with toddler parents. Conclusion Parent to child communication patterns are influenced by protective patterns with pluralistic patterns as well as the combination of protective patterns with consensual patterns. Parental verbal communication to children in parenting uses words that are easily understood by children, gentle, firm. nonverbal communication of parents to children hugging children when invited to other family homes, invited to go to a place of recreation. Model of family communication from parents between father and mother there are differences in the family communication model of family communication conducted by fathers using protective and laizzer-fair patterns, while the family communication model conducted by mothers uses modification or combination. Keywords: Family role; interpersonal communication.   Abstrak: Artikel dengan judul ‘Peran Keluarga Orang Tua Kepada Anak Balita Dalam Membentuk Karakter (Studi Pada Orang Tua Pemula),’ ini bertujuan untuk 1) Menganalisis Pola komunikasi yang dilakukan orang tua kepada anak, 2) Menganalisis penggunaan komunikasi verbal dan nonverbal yang dilakukan orang tua kepada anaka balita. 3) mencari model komunikasi yang dilakukan oleh orang tua kepada balita. Metode yang digunakan pada penelitian ini adalah deskriptif kualitatif dengan pendekatan wawancara mendalam kepada orang tua balita. Kesimpulan Pola komunikasi orangtua kepada anak a dipengaruhi oleh pola protektif dengan pola pluralistik juga  gabungan  pola  protektif  dengan pola konsensual, Komunikasi verbal orangtua kepada anak pada pola pengasuhan menggunakan kata yang mudah difahami anak, lemah lembut, tegas. komunikasi nonverbal orangtua  kepada  anak memeluk anak saat diajak kerumah keluarga lain, diajak jalan ketempat rekreasi. Model komunikasi keluarga dari orangtua antara ayah dan ibu terdapat perbedaan dalam model komunikasi keluarga komunikasi keluarga yang dilakukan oleh ayah lebih mengunakan pola protektif dan laizzer-fair, sedangkan model komunikasi keluarga yang dilakukan oleh ibu lebih mengunakan modifikasi atau gabungan. Kata kunci: Peran keluarga; komunikasi interpersonal.    

scholarly journals TANTANGAN PARENTING DALAM MEWUJUDKAN MODERASI ISLAM ANAK

2018 ◽  
Vol 11 (2) ◽  
pp. 301-320
Author(s):  
An Ras Try Astuti ◽  
Hardiyani Herman ◽  
Rabiatul Hadawiah ◽  
Nurul Ardiyanti
Keyword(s):  
Old Age ◽  
Social Life ◽  
Rapid Development ◽  
Parenting Education ◽  
Technological Education ◽  
Use Of Technology ◽  
The Family ◽  
Role Of Parents ◽  
Islamic Values

The birth of X, Y, Z and Alpha generations cannot be denied, given the rapid development of technology. The formation of the character of Alpha Generation or Gen-A which was born in 2010 is a concern and a challenge for parents in shaping the personality of a civilized and humanitarian child. This article is motivated by a critical review of the conditions of intolerance among religious people. Where the soul of intolerance that arises in a person is due to the absence of a sense of humanity and civilized human elements in themselves. One of the main causes is the influence of misuse of technology which has led to the birth of the Alpha Generation that is enslaved by technology. A person's social life deteriorates so that he does not respect differences. The use of technology well can avoid the anti-tolerant nature and be able to form prospective generations who are civilized and humane in accordance with Islamic values. The provision of technological education for children of old age can not be separated from the role of parents as the first madrasa for children. The habit of children will be difficult to change when from the beginning parents do not do education in the family through parenting education. Parenting education is one of the efforts made by parents in educating, nurturing and teaching children.

scholarly journals TANTANGAN PARENTING DALAM MEWUJUDKAN MODERASI ISLAM ANAK

2018 ◽  
Vol 11 (2) ◽  
pp. 301-320
Author(s):  
An Ras Try Astuti ◽  
Hardiyani Herman ◽  
Rabiatul Hadawiah ◽  
Nurul Ardiyanti
Keyword(s):  
Old Age ◽  
Social Life ◽  
Rapid Development ◽  
Parenting Education ◽  
Technological Education ◽  
Use Of Technology ◽  
The Family ◽  
Role Of Parents ◽  
Islamic Values

The birth of X, Y, Z and Alpha generations cannot be denied, given the rapid development of technology. The formation of the character of Alpha Generation or Gen-A which was born in 2010 is a concern and a challenge for parents in shaping the personality of a civilized and humanitarian child. This article is motivated by a critical review of the conditions of intolerance among religious people. Where the soul of intolerance that arises in a person is due to the absence of a sense of humanity and civilized human elements in themselves. One of the main causes is the influence of misuse of technology which has led to the birth of the Alpha Generation that is enslaved by technology. A person's social life deteriorates so that he does not respect differences. The use of technology well can avoid the anti-tolerant nature and be able to form prospective generations who are civilized and humane in accordance with Islamic values. The provision of technological education for children of old age can not be separated from the role of parents as the first madrasa for children. The habit of children will be difficult to change when from the beginning parents do not do education in the family through parenting education. Parenting education is one of the efforts made by parents in educating, nurturing and teaching children.

scholarly journals Pentingnya Bimbingan Primer Dari keluarga Sejak Usia Dini

2019 ◽  
Author(s):  
Dheang Alfaredo
Keyword(s):  
Data Collection ◽  
Social Life ◽  
Qualitative Method ◽  
Early Age ◽  
The Family ◽  
Housing Complex ◽  
Role Of Parents

The importance of the first guidance from the family from an early age is to help children to have an understanding of themselves (their potential) and their environment (their education) and can foster good behavior / ethics in social life. The aim of this research is to know the importance of family guidance to children from an early age. The method in writing is a qualitative method, which contains data collection through interviews from several parents in the housing complex. The results of this study include guidance from the family from an early age should be done because it helps children to have an understanding of themselves and can foster good behavior / ethics for children from an early age, therefore the role of parents to always supervise and guide their children from an early age so that later it would be useful for the nation and state. the usefulness of this article is to find out that parents can provide guidance from their families so that their children grow up under the supervision of their parents.

scholarly journals PERAN INTERAKSI SOSIAL TERHADAP POLA ASUH PERKEMBANGAN ANAK DI KELUARGA DALAM PANDANGAN ISLAM

2020 ◽  
Vol 3 (2) ◽  
pp. 201-213
Author(s):  
Khoirun Nisa ◽  
Abdul Muhid
Keyword(s):  
Child Development ◽  
Family Involvement ◽  
Social Life ◽  
Growth And Development ◽  
True Nature ◽  
Parents And Children ◽  
The Family ◽  
Role Of Parents ◽  
Islamic View

Family involvement in developing children's abilities and social behavior is very much needed through interaction as a medium of actualization. The role of parents and children will be the basis of influence on child development parenting. in social life a person needs to interact with other people and when interacting one finds the true nature of himself as a social creature who needs each other. The task of parents must continue to hone and educate their children so that they can always socialize and interact well This article aims to discuss how the role of social interaction on parenting child development in the family in Islamic view. because more or less parents ignore it busy with what is being done so there is no word of attention and indifference to children. And in essence, parents are the most important part as a benchmark for children's growth and development.

scholarly journals PERAN KOMUNIKASI ANTARPRIBADI DALAM KELUARGA UNTUK MENUMBUHKAN KARAKTER ANAK USIA DINI

2016 ◽  
Vol 11 (1) ◽  
pp. 57-64
Author(s):  
Meni Handayani
Keyword(s):  
Social Behavior ◽  
Interpersonal Communication ◽  
Cultural Background ◽  
Moral Value ◽  
Universal Education ◽  
Good Communication ◽  
Cultural Roots ◽  
The Family ◽  
Role Of Parents

The involvement of family in developing academic competence and social behavior is badly needed. The role of parents particularly mother on the child of under 5 years old is very influential. The parents should keep parenting and educating their child to enable him/her socialize and communicate well. Interpersonal communication between the parents and the child is important to build the child’s character suitable to the parents’ style. The child’s character is established from the family, particularly how the parents transfer moral value, honesty, and religion to the child through good communication. The parents do not do it just by words but by behavioral modelling. The strategy of seeking information from the parents is achieved by observation and expression of the child. It is important to listen to the child’s expression. Inner character resulted from the child’s cultural background is developed from the family and community. Thus, the child can develop based on the character of his/her cultural roots. Universal education can be conducted in uniform but the culture based on local wisdom should be maintained, such as togetherness in the family, being ashamed of breaking the existing values, and being afraid of doing the wrong things.

scholarly journals Komunikasi Interpersonal Keluarga sebagai Penunjang Kesehatan Mental Mahasiswa Rantau Asal Papua-Papua Barat

PERSPEKTIF ◽  
2021 ◽  
Vol 11 (1) ◽  
pp. 205-213
Author(s):  
Hana Aviela Fedria Wowor ◽  
K. Y.S. Putri
Keyword(s):  
Mental Health ◽  
Interpersonal Communication ◽  
Qualitative Method ◽  
Phenomenological Approach ◽  
Open Communication ◽  
Overseas Students ◽  
The Family ◽  
Papua Barat ◽  
Parental Responses

In this study, the researcher aims to find out how interpersonal communication in the family can support a person's mental health, especially overseas students. This study uses a qualitative method with a phenomenological approach, which focuses on telling the phenomenon of the role of family communication on student mentality, which is experienced directly by overseas students from Papua-West Papua. The results of this study show that communication plays a very important role in supporting one's mental health, especially overseas students who now have to study in a pandemic situation. Communication that supports this in the form of open communication and willing to listen. During this pandemic, some students chose to return to their hometowns, but some had to stay overseas due to certain conditions. Each student told a different experience, but more or less had something in common, namely feeling pressured or stressed with lectures. Through communication, students tend to feel their burden is reduced. Parental responses also build enthusiasm in students and provide strength, which reduces stress and helps students' mental health. The willingness of parents to hear stories and give positive words turned out to give students a feeling of comfort and relief.

scholarly journals PENDIDIKAN KARAKTER DI KELUARGA

1970 ◽  
Vol 4 (2) ◽  
pp. 260-279
Author(s):  
Ahmad Zainuri
Keyword(s):  
Character Education ◽  
Social Life ◽  
Family Education ◽  
Human Potential ◽  
Maternal Bonding ◽  
The Social ◽  
The Family ◽  
Mental Stimulation ◽  
Role Of Parents

Family is the first and foremost environment for a human child. In the family a child is raised, learns the ways of association that he will develop later in the social life environment that is outside the family. In simple terms it can be argued that the function of the family is to stabilize the family situation in the sense of stabilizing the family's economic situation. Then the family functions also educate and maintain the physical and psychological family, including religious life. Here the role of parents, especially mothers, is very influential on the development of the child. Family education is called primary education because in this environment all human potential is formed and partially developed. There are even some potentials that have developed in family education. Children will grow up to be characterless individuals if they can grow in a characteristic environment, so that the nature of every child born holy can develop optimally. Character education must start from the family to build a noble national personality. To achieve the child's character expected by parents, parenting given by the family to children is closely related to the character of the child in his growth and development. These characters will be carried to adulthood even if they form their own family. On the contrary, family failure in shaping children's character will result in the growth of a society that has no character. Therefore, every family must have an awareness that the formation of children's character is very dependent on character education at home. Furthermore, Megawangi (2003) mentions that there are at least three basic children's needs that must be met, namely maternal bonding, security, and physical and mental stimulation

scholarly journals Peran Single Mother Terhadap Penanganan Kebohongan Anak Melalui Komunikasi Interpersonal Perspektif Hukum Islam

AL-HUKAMA ◽  
2020 ◽  
Vol 10 (1) ◽  
pp. 99-122
Author(s):  
Khasib Batunnikmah
Keyword(s):  
Interpersonal Communication ◽  
Single Mother ◽  
Communication Process ◽  
Observation Methods ◽  
Parents And Children ◽  
The Family ◽  
Mother And Child ◽  
Role Of Parents ◽  
The Relationship

  The role of parents is very important in building a child's personality. It becomes not easy when the role is only carried out by a single mother. This article aims to examine how the effects of interpersonal communication is done by singgle mother to change the attitudes of children. The importance of doing interpersonal communication is then seen also using nass. The study was conducted on two single mother informants and their children using interview and observation methods. One of the single mother informants became the single mother because of a divorce and the other because her husband passed away. They both chose to raise their children themselves so they had to play a dual role in the family. They become mothers as well as the breadwinners of the family. This fact raises deception, which is the act of avoiding hurting others by lying, between mother and child. The existence of interpersonal communication can then minimize the existence of deceptions in the communication process which can affect the relationship between parents and children.

scholarly journals Raising Tolerant Attitude to Children

2019 ◽  
Vol 2 (3) ◽  
pp. 81-90
Author(s):  
Daviq Chairilsyah
Keyword(s):  
Family Environment ◽  
Social Life ◽  
Early Age ◽  
Community Environment ◽  
The Social ◽  
The Family ◽  
Teaching Tolerance ◽  
Role Of Parents ◽  
And Gender

This paper aimed to provide logical reasons for parents and teachers about the importance of teaching tolerance from early age. This paper explained the types of tolerance that should be trained such as religious tolerance, tolerance of multi-ethnicity, multiracial, cultural and gender differences. Literature review was used in explaining theoretical studies, and discussion. Teaching an attitude of tolerance from an early age will be the root for children in their social life. Teaching it from an early age can create children who are able to respect others and do not distinguish based on what they see in the family or community environment. Parents and family members are the main facilitators for children to cultivate an attitude of tolerance. They are required to teach children the importance of tolerance by providing positive examples. Parents are required to teach tolerance starting from the family environment to the wider community. Meanwhile, the teacher can teach from the social environment to fellow students at school. It can be concluded that the role of parents and teachers here is very important in the inculcation of attitude and tolerance in early childhood.

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