scholarly journals Hospitalitas Dalam Hubungan Suami Istri Yang Berbeda Agama Di Lembang Pa'Tengko

2021 ◽  
Author(s):  
Yuyun Agnes Kristianty Kiding Allo

In Toraja there are many family members of different religions, even under one roof of the house there are family members of different religions. In general, Islam and Christianity. There are even married couples who have different beliefs or religions. This was especially the case in lembang Pa'tengko where there were families between husbands and wives adhering to different religions and living in one and having descent. This study uses a qualitative approach, which examines empirical truth in one family in Lembang Pa'tengko. The purpose of the study was to find the factors they apply to their families so that their families remain harmonious despite religious differences. In essence, religion has an important role in creating peace. Between husband and wife can not be separated from the relationship and work together every day. But sometimes they also get teachings from their respective religious doctrines, but this is responded to with a healthy and wise ratio. None of them is selfish and accentuates an attitude of wanting to dominate because they build relationships of mutual respect or hospitality for the sake of creating harmony in their family

2019 ◽  
Vol 4 (1) ◽  
pp. 34-41
Author(s):  
Riana Udurman Sihombing ◽  
Rahel Rati Sarungallo

God wants to involve Himself in every family, because family is a small institution but important. Family is a symbol of the relationship between Christ and the church. Family is the God's place to express His love through relationships in love each other, mutual respect and care among all family members. God in His wisdom has given humans the best model and way of maturing in faith, through the role of parents as God's representatives to guide children. Likewise in modern times almost all parents (husband and wife) work outside automatically when gathering with children only at night. Sometimes children are asleep or studying, and parents feel tired and need rest. Such conditions and situations cause no opportunity for parents to communicate, guide and pay attention to the development of children.


Author(s):  
Yuli Septiningsih ◽  
Dian Nur Adkhana Sari ◽  
Endar Timiyatun

Backround: Family afective function is very importand to be fulfilled in a family to minimize the stress on family members, especially in woman family members who married early age. Objective: the aim of this research is to determine the relationship between family function with stress level in married couples early age in Pedukuhan Jaranan Banguntapan Bantul Yogyakarta Method: In this study using cross sectional method that is approach at one time coinciding with chi square corelation test, sampling technique use total sampling with the amount of respondents 37 woman early married. Results: There is a relationship of family afective function with stres level in woman early married age with result p value < 0,050. Conclusion: there is a relationship of family afective function with stress level in woman married of early age in Pedukuhan Jaranan Banguntapan Bantul Yogyakarta.


2021 ◽  
Vol 1 (5) ◽  
pp. 582-590
Author(s):  
Grenada Tri Kardiana ◽  
Ahmad Arif Widianto

The topic of the problem in this research is that there are not a few couples whose relationships are in different schools even though they are in the same Islamic religion. This study aims to analyze what conflicts will occur in a marriage relationship with different streams. So, in this study, the researcher wants to use the conflict theory according to Lewis A. Coser as a knife of analysis. The method used in this research is a qualitative approach, namely the process of exploring and understanding the meaning of individual and group behavior, describing social problems or humanitarian problems. Meanwhile, the type of research used is descriptive qualitative. The sample used was 3 married couples with different sects and 2 unmarried couples, but dating people from different sects. The result of this research is that conflicts can occur between partners, such as forcing them to enter into one of the pairs of streams and it can also occur between families such as damage to the relationship between parents and children. Topik Permasalahan dalam penelitian ini adalah tak sedikit jumlah pasangan yang menjalin hubungannya berada dalam perbedaan aliran meskipun dalam agama islam yang sama. Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk menganalisis konflik-konflik apa sajakah yang akan terjadi pada hubungan pernikahan berbeda aliran. Sehingga, dalam penelitian ini peneliti ingin menggunakan teori Konflik menurut Lewis A. Coser sebagai pisau analisisnya. Metode yang digunakan dalam penelitian ini adalah Pendekatan Kualitatif yaitu proses eksplorasi dan memahami makna perilaku individu dan kelompok, menggambarkan masalah sosial atau masalah kemanusiaan. Sedangkan, jenis penelitian yang digunakan adalah kualitatif deskriptif. Sampel yang digunakan adalah 3 orang pasangan yang sudah menikah dengan berbeda aliran dan 2 orang yang belum menikah, namun berpacaran dengan orang yang berbeda aliran. Hasil dari penelitian ini adalah konflik bisa terjadi antar pasangan seperti pemaksaan untuk masuk kedalam salah satu aliran pasangan dan juga bisa terjadi antar keluarga seperti rusaknya hubungan antara orang tua dengan anak.


2020 ◽  
Vol 4 (1) ◽  
pp. 76-92
Author(s):  
Herrio Tekdi Nainggolan

AbstractThe space for interaction in society is always influenced by religion and culture as binding aspects, both individually and in groups. This study aims to reveal how the relationship between culture and religion in the development of Toba Islam in Huta Sijungkang, Parlilitan sub-district, Humbang Hasundutan district. The study was conducted with a qualitative approach through interviews and literature studies. Based on research conducted in the development of Islamic religion in Huta Sijungkang, culture and religion are not two contradictory entities, but an inherent unity to regulate relations in society. This has made the people not patterned based on religion, so that cultural and religious dualism is not a conflict, but rather a cultural identity and values that continue to be lived by the Huta Sijungkang community. For society, religious differences are not a barrier in family ties, so there is an awareness to maintain the principles of togetherness and unity.Keyword: Relation; Culture; Religion; Huta Sijungkang.


2021 ◽  
Vol 9 (2) ◽  
pp. 61-82
Author(s):  
Akhmad Sofyan ◽  
Risma Monirah

Early marriage is a marriage that is carried out under the age specified by law. Usually, couples who do early marriages are very susceptible to disputes that result in divorce. The researcher wants to reveal, about the relationship pattern of married couples who carry out early marriages in Tangga Ulin Village, Hulu Sungai Utara Regency, where in that village there are many scholars and religious leaders who of course teach the book ‘Uqūd al-Lujain fi Bayān Huqūq al-Zaujain. In addition, the researcher wants to know the review of the book ‘Uqūd al-Lujain fi Bayān Huqūq al-Zaujain on the relationship patterns of husband and wife who carry out these early marriages. This research uses qualitative research with a normative empirical approach. The result of this research is The husband and wife relationship of the perpetrators of early marriage in Tangga Ulin Village applies a husband and wife relationship pattern that is not bound (flexible), in carrying out their respective rights and obligations to help and derstand each other between partners, so that they can ease the work and responsibilities that exist in their household. Then, according to the book ‘Uqūd al-Lujain fi Bayān Huqūq al-Zaujain especially the section "wives are encouraged to realize that they are like slaves to their husbands." However, in its application, it applies a pattern of mutual help and understanding (flexible) relationships. Thus, it is hoped that divorce will not occur again due to early marriage.


This article presents the case of Chatterley and Clifford, the two main characters in Lady Chatterley’s Lover, to consider tenderness a basic working emotion to shape human relationships. The lack of tenderness causes emotional as well as physical distance in relation, especially that of male-female’s relation. The first part of the article reviews tenderness. The second part reviews how tenderness and lack of tenderness affect a male-female relationship in the selected novel, Lady Chatterley’s Lover. On the basis of a careful analysis of Lady Chatterley’s Lover, the present writer tries to prove that the lack of tenderness is the main culprit for the broken relationship between husband and wife: a major one of the relations between man and woman in human society and mutual tenderness elicits people awakening to a new way of living in an exterior world that is uncracking after the long winter hibernation. Lawrence, through a revelation of Connie’s gradual awakening from tenderness, has made his utmost effort to explore possible solutions to harmonious androgyny between men and women so as to revitalize the distorted human nature caused by the industrial civilization. Key words: relationship, husband and wife, tenderness, main culprit, Connie


2018 ◽  
Vol 11 (1) ◽  
pp. 35-48
Author(s):  
Siah Khosyi’ah

The division of marital joint property after the breakup of marriage, whether dropping out of marriage due to divorce or due to death, is a new thing in Islamic jurisprudence (fiqh). This is because the concept of mutual treasure is not known in the books of classical Islamic jurisprudence of Muslim scholars of the schools at their times, in which their work are always made as referral in the legal cases up to the present days. In Indonesia, the distribution of common property is regulated in the Compilation of Islamic Laws Articles 96 and 97, which stipulate the rules of distribution of joint property for married couples whose married are off as a result of divorce or death. Article 97 of the Compilation of Islamic Law actually provides an overview of the flexibility of the distribution of common marital property, including in certain cases because the article is regulating (regelen) rather than forcing (dwigen), so that the division is not absolutely divided equally between husband and wife, and casuistically the provisions of that article may be disregarded.


2015 ◽  
Vol 3 (1) ◽  
Author(s):  
Sunita ◽  
Urvashi Singh ◽  
Shalini Singh ◽  
Rajnee Sharma

The present study was conducted to examine the relationship between organisational stress and organisational citizenship behaviours (OCBs) in employees of call centers. The study also further explored as how stress at work set-up has negative impact on OCBs. A sample of 250 employees working in call centre of Gurgaon belonging to an age group of 25-30 years were selected on availability basis. All were working married couples living in nuclear families. Job stress survey (Spielberger & Vagg, 1999) and Organisational Citizenship Behaviour (Bateman & Organ, 1983) were administered. Data was analysed by using simple correlation and multiple regression. Results showed the negative relationship between organisational stress and OCBs. Results of regression analysis also exhibited the negative impact of stress on OCBs. The implications for the employees are discussed.


EMPIRISMA ◽  
2017 ◽  
Vol 26 (1) ◽  
Author(s):  
Limas Dodi

According to Abdulaziz Sachedina, the main argument of religious pluralism in the Qur’an based on the relationship between private belief (personal) and public projection of Islam in society. By regarding to private faith, the Qur’an being noninterventionist (for example, all forms of human authority should not be disturb the inner beliefs of individuals). While the public projection of faith, the Qur’an attitude based on the principle of coexistence. There is the willingness of the dominant race provide the freedom for people of other faiths with their own rules. Rules could shape how to run their affairs and to live side by side with the Muslims. Thus, based on the principle that the people of Indonesia are Muslim majority, it should be a mirror of a societie’s recognizion, respects and execution of religious pluralism. Abdul Aziz Sachedina called for Muslims to rediscover the moral concerns of public Islam in peace. The call for peace seemed to indicate that the existence of increasingly weakened in the religious sense of the Muslims and hence need to be reaffi rmed. Sachedina also like to emphasize that the position of peace in Islam is parallel with a variety of other doctrines, such as: prayer, fasting, pilgrimage and so on. Sachedina also tried to show the argument that the common view among religious groups is only one religion and traditions of other false and worthless. “Antipluralist” argument comes amid the reality of human religious differences. Keywords: Theology, Pluralism, Abdulaziz Sachedina


Author(s):  
Paul J. Bolt ◽  
Sharyl N. Cross

The Conclusion reviews the volume’s major themes. Russia and China have common interests that cement their partnership, and are key players in shaping the international order. Both seek better relations with the West, but on the basis of “mutual respect” and “equality.” While the relationship has grown deeper, particularly since 2014, China and Russia are partners but not allies. Thus, their relationship is marked by burgeoning cooperation, but still areas of potential competition and friction. Russia in particular must deal with China’s growing relative power at the same time that it is isolated from the West. While the Russian–Chinese relationship creates challenges for the United States and Europe and a return of major power rivalry, there is also room for cooperation in the strategic triangle comprising China, Russia, and the West. Looking ahead, the world is in a period of dramatic transition.


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