scholarly journals KONTEKSTUALISASI KONSEP JODOH, SAKINAH, MAWADAH, WARAHMAH DALAM AL-QUR’AN

2020 ◽  
Vol 8 (2) ◽  
pp. 197-214
Author(s):  
Fawait Syaiful Rahman
Keyword(s):  
Research Method ◽  
Married Couple ◽  
Human Intervention ◽  
Men And Women ◽  
Reward Value ◽  
Qualitative Literature ◽  
Husband And Wife

Abstract Islam limits the pattern of interaction between men and women outside of marriage so that their respective honor can be maintained. In humans, there is a tendency of animal tendencies that have the potential to lead to prohibited cases (mungkarat or muharramat). Islam also regulates the provisions if a man and woman want a halal relationship as well as a reward value in the framework of marriage. An ideal marriage is generally defined as a marriage that is the result of one's own choice without any outside intervention, the two partners are never heard of fighting and arguing, and a married couple is supported by an established economy, such family conditions are considered ideal families. After several weeks or more, the news was heard that the husband and wife were divorced, even though at the beginning of the marriage they had received a prayer "hopefully they will become a sakinah family, mawadah, wa-rahmah and mate in the hereafter" could not prevent the intention to separate. The research method in this article uses a qualitative literature approach. The conclusion from the study and analysis of the text of the verses of the Qur'an regarding the concept of mate and the concepts of sakinah, mawadah, warahmah in the Koran is mentioned differently by Allah SWT. The concept of mate is said to use Arabic khalaqah, and the concepts of sakinah, mawadah, warahmah are spoken in Arabic ja'ala. The consequence of disclosing the concept of a mate using lafadz khlaqah means that something is the personal right of Allah SWT and humans do not have the effort to intervene, while the disclosure of the concepts of sakinah, mawadah, warahmah uses lafadz ja'ala, this means that human intervention is needed in building a family that is ideal. 

scholarly journals Pola Komunikasi Suami Istri Berbeda Agama dalam Membangun Keharmonisan

Koneksi ◽  
2021 ◽  
Vol 5 (1) ◽  
pp. 23
Author(s):  
Herlita Tan ◽  
Daniel Tamburian
Keyword(s):  
Research Method ◽  
Human Life ◽  
Married Couple ◽  
Communication Pattern ◽  
Couple Communication ◽  
Descriptive Research ◽  
Qualitative Approaches ◽  
Happy Family ◽  
Husband And Wife

Communication is one of crutial aspect in human life. When done right, communication certainly make relationship grows better and in harmony. In many occation, miscommunication happen when there is a failure in delivering messages to the interlocutor. Hence, the miscommunication could cause problem to married couple. Successful marriage is created when husband and wife could communicate well while holding on their religius value. Nonetheless, there always families which is not living in harmony. Therefore, the purpose of this thesis is to analyse marriage couple communication pattern, especially in different religion to create a happy family. This study uses qualitative approaches with descriptive research method. Researches interviewed 6 resource which consist of a married husband and have a different religious but still harmonized. The result of this study showed that husband and wife who had lived up many years and there is an attitude that relented and understanding of each other, as well as a variety way to maintain it.Komunikasi merupakan salah satu aspek penting dalam kehidupan manusia. Komunikasi yang benar tentunya dapat membuat hubungan menjadi lebih baik dan harmonis. Sebaliknya kesalahpahaman dalam komunikasi bisa menimbulkan masalah yang serius. Seringkali dalam proses komunikasi terdapat kegagalan dalam penyampaian pesan kepada lawan bicaranya. Hal ini dapat menimbulkan permasalahan khususnya bagi pasangan suami istri yang sudah menikah. Keharmonisan suami istri terjadi hanya jika mereka dapat berkomunikasi dengan baik dan tetap berpegang teguh kepada nilai-nilai agama yang dianut. Namun tidak dapat dipungkiri bahwa di dalam tatanan rumah tangga menjadi tidak harmonis yaitu salah satunya adalah perbedaan agama pada suami istri. Maka dari itu penelitian ini ingin mengetahui pola komunikasi suami istri berbeda agama dalam membangun keharmonisan. Penelitian ini menggunakan pendekatan penelitian kualitatif dengan metode deskriptif. Pada penelitian ini peneliti mewawancarai enam narasumber yang terdiri dari pasangan suami istri yang sudah menikah dan memiliki perbedaan agama namun masih tetap harmonis. Hasil penelitian lewat kajian pola komunikasi suami istri ini memperlihatkan bahwa pasangan suami istri yang telah menjalani kehidupan rumah tangganya bertahun- tahun terdapat sikap saling mengalah dan pengertian antara satu sama lain, serta memiliki cara-cara yang beragam untuk tetap mempertahankannya.

scholarly journals SEKSUAL DALAM AL-QUR’AN

2019 ◽  
Vol 20 (1) ◽  
pp. 105
Author(s):  
Abdur Rohman
Keyword(s):  
Male Genitalia ◽  
Research Method ◽  
Female Genitalia ◽  
Men And Women ◽  
Library Research ◽  
Technical Library ◽  
Holy Book ◽  
Husband And Wife

Sexual has the meaning of the case relating to intercourse between men and women. Talking about sex is a taboo subject, but the Quran as a holy book talks about it. For this reason, this research will focus on discussing sexual issues discussed in the Quran. This research method uses qualitative technical-library research with a thematic interpretation approach (mawdu‘i). The results of this study conclude that: First, Halal sex can be mapped into six redaction: Rafath means sex because it is identical with dirty things; Mubasharah means sex because of meeting the skin; Qaraba means sex because it is so close; Taghaththa> means coming to have sex; Nikah means sex permisible with Sha>ri’; Dukhul means sex because it includes the male genitalia in the female genitalia for husband and wife. Secondly forbidden sex, al-Qur’an uses the bigha redaction, it is meaning coercion to women to become Prostitute; al-musafihat prostitute women in the context of accusations; Muttakhidat akhdan means mistress; Fahishah means immorality (sex); Zina means unlawful sexual (free sex). Keyword: Sex, Tafsir, Thematics

scholarly journals RECITATION OF WEDDING AGREEMENTS IN ISLAM: STUDY ON SAMBAS MALAY SOCIETY OF WEST KALIMANTAN

2020 ◽  
Vol 8 (2) ◽  
pp. 41-53
Author(s):  
Asman Asman
Keyword(s):  
Research Method ◽  
Islamic Law ◽  
Married Couple ◽  
Phenomenological Approach ◽  
The Other ◽  
Religious Leaders ◽  
West Kalimantan ◽  
Pros And Cons ◽  
The Right ◽  
Husband And Wife

After the consent is granted in the marriage of a husband and wife, the recitation of taklik talak takes place as part of a marriage agreement in Islam. This research is based on the consideration of the pros and cons of the Sambas Malay community, especially religious leaders regarding the marriage agreement called taklik talak in Islam. With a qualitative research method that is a phenomenological approach in the field, the author described how taklik talak exists as a marriage agreement in Islam and its application to the Sambas Malay community. The fact is that almost every married couple in the Malay community of Sambas does not say taklik talak by the husband to his wife after the consent is granted, only knowing it has been written or included in the marriage book without notification to the husband and wife. Although it is not obligatory to verbally express the taklik talak which is already written on the marriage certificate, once the taklik talak has been read out, it cannot be challenged again. If an agreement that has been agreed with a husband and wife is not fulfilled by one of the parties, then the other party has the right to submit the matter to the Religious Court to resolve it. The results in the study concluded that the pros and cons of implementing taklik talak as a marriage agreement in Islam were caused by a lack of knowledge of the Marriage Law Number 1 of 1974 Article 29 concerning Marriage Agreement and Islamic Law Compilation (KHI) Article 46 concerning taklik talak as well as the lack of exposure from the KUA through religious counselors and BP4 to premarital couples  in Sambas.

MOTIF DAN DAMPAK PERNIKAHAN DINI DI INDARUNG NGALAU BATU GADANG

2018 ◽  
Vol 1 (1) ◽  
pp. 1
Author(s):  
Murisal Murisal
Keyword(s):  
Young Men ◽  
Early Marriage ◽  
Marriage Law ◽  
Men And Women ◽  
Home Life ◽  
Family Household ◽  
Set Up ◽  
The Impact ◽  
Husband And Wife

Motif and Impact of Early Marriage in Indarung Ngalau Batu Gadang.Penelitian is motivated by teenagers who married early on. Today, young men and women have a tendency to be less prepared to enter the home life, they are only ready to marry (ready here can be interpreted, maturity in terms of financial, understand what the meaning of marriage according to marriage law) is the bond of inner birth between a man and a woman as husband and wife for the purpose of forming a happy and eternal family (household) based on the Supreme Godhead while they are not ready to set up a home, whereas to build a household requires preparation both physically and spiritually . The purpose of this study to determine the motives underlying adolescents to make early marriage and the impact caused in the household as a result of the marriage.

scholarly journals Märta Tikkanen’s gender and alcohol saga

2017 ◽  
Vol 34 (4) ◽  
pp. 289-298
Author(s):  
Anne-Marie Mai
Keyword(s):  
Alcohol Abuse ◽  
Married Couple ◽  
Men And Women ◽  
The Public ◽  
Love Story ◽  
Public Recognition ◽  
Alcohol Abuser ◽  
And Gender ◽  
The Relationship ◽  
Poetry Collection

Märta Tikkanen’s poetry collection Århundradets kärlekssaga ( The love story of the century, 1978) is a confessional book on life in a family where the husband and father is an alcohol abuser. It is also a love story about a married couple who love one another despite the terrible challenges posed to the relationship by alcoholism. The poetry collection became one of the most influential books in contemporary Nordic fiction, its themes on gender roles and alcohol abuse setting the trend in the Nordic discussion of women’s liberation. Märta Tikkanen’s courage to tell her own private story inspired other women to confess their gender equality problems to the public. The alcohol abuse of Märta Tikkanen’s husband Henrik Tikkanen was seen as an allegory for the more general problems in the relation between men and women. My essay introduces Märta Tikkanen’s poetry collection and discusses how the poems develop the theme of gender and alcohol. I will also compare her description of their marriage with Henrik Tikkanen’s self-portrait in his autobiographical novella Mariegatan 26, Kronohagen (1977). The analysis refers to contemporary research on gender and alcohol abuse and discusses how the poems contribute to a public recognition of the relationship between gender and alcohol abuse. The essay discusses the reception of Märta Tikkanen’s influential poems and explores her treatment of alcohol and gender in relation to other Nordic confessional or fictional books on alcohol abuse.

POLA PEMENUHAN HAK DAN KEWAJIBAN SUAMI ISTRI LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP (LDR) DI DESA BATUJAYA, KARAWANG

2020 ◽  
Vol 1 (2) ◽  
pp. 165-178
Author(s):  
Reza Umami Zakiyah ◽  
Eneng Nuraeni
Keyword(s):  
Married Couple ◽  
Descriptive Analysis ◽  
Mutual Trust ◽  
Analysis Method ◽  
Communication Tool ◽  
Biological Aspect ◽  
Long Distance ◽  
Distance Relationship ◽  
Husband And Wife ◽  
The Way

Ideally, a married couple lives together to carry out their respective duties and obligations. However, because the demands of work cause some of them must be far apart and live the life of Long Distance Relationship (LDR) as happened in Batujaya Village, Kec. Batujaya, Kab. Karawang. The problem that arises is how the pattern of fulfilling the rights and obligations of husband and wife in Batujaya Village, Kec. Batujaya, Kab. Karawang. How to communicate on LDR and how to overcome the difficulties that arise between the two. Through research using descriptive analysis method, the results of the study show that: (1) The pattern of fulfilling the rights and obligations of a husband and wife who are on a LDR at Batujaya Village, Kec. Batujaya, Kab. Karawang can be understood in three aspects, namely the Financial/material aspect is done by meeting in person/transferring money through Alfamart/ATM/POS. The biological aspect when far apart is by interacting by telephone, occupying with homework. Psychological aspects, namely by giving attention over the phone or when meeting by serving all their needs. (2) The way of LDR husband and wife communication via telephone, massage, whatsapp, and video call, but for those who do not use the telephone as a communication tool, the communication is carried out directly when meeting. (3) The way to overcome the difficulties that arise between the two is to maintain mutual trust, understanding, commitment, intensive communication, mutual attitude. The difficulties faced are financial, trust, communication, cooperation and sexual needs.Idealnya pasangan  suami istri hidup bersama dalam satu  rumah untuk melaksanakan tugas dan kewajiban masing-masing. Namun, karena tuntutan pekerjaan menyebabkan sebagian dari mereka harus berjauhan dan menjalani kehidupan Long Distance Relationship (LDR) seperti yang terjadi di Desa Batujaya, Kec. Batujaya, Kab. Karawang. Masalah  yang timbul yaitu bagaimana pola pemenuhan hak dan kewajiban suami istri di Desa Batujaya, Kec. Batujaya, Kab. Karawang. Bagaimana cara komunkasi suami istri LDR dan bagaimana cara mengatasi kesulitan yang timbul diantara keduanya. Melalui penelitian yang menggunakan metode deskriptif analisis ini, hasil penelitian menunjukan bahwa: (1) Pola pemenuhan hak dan kewajiban suami istri Long Distance Relationship (LDR) di Desa Batujaya, Kec. Batujaya. Kab. Karawang dipahami dalam tiga aspek yaitu Aspek Finansial/materi dilakukan dengan pola bertemu langsung/mentransfer uang melalui Alfamart/ATM/POS. Aspek biologis ketika berjauhan yaitu dengan berinteraksi melalui telepon, menyibukan diri dengan pekerjaan rumah. Aspek psikologis yaitu dengan memberikan perhatian lewat telepon ataupun saat bertemu secara langsung dengan melayani segala kebutuhan masing-masing. (2) Cara komunikasi suami istri LDR melalui telephone, sms, whatshap, dan Video call, tetapi untuk mereka yang tidak menggunakan telepon sebagai alat komunikasi, maka komunikasinya dilakukan secara langsung pada saat bertemu. (3) Cara mengatasi kesulitan yang timbul diantara keduanya yaitu saling menjaga kepercayaan, pengertian, komitmen, komunikasi intensif, sikap saling terbuka. Adapun kesulitan yang dihadapi yaitu masalah keuangan, kepercayaan, komunikasi, kerjasama dan kebutuhan seksual.

scholarly journals Ezer Kenegdo: Eksistensi Perempuan dan Perannya dalam Keluarga

2020 ◽  
Vol 4 (1) ◽  
pp. 44-55
Author(s):  
Grecetinovitria Merliana Butar-butar
Keyword(s):  
Qualitative Research ◽  
Research Methods ◽  
Research Method ◽  
Qualitative Research Methods ◽  
Men And Women ◽  
Library Research ◽  
The Family ◽  
Role Of Women

AbstractPurpose of this study was to describe the meaning of ezer kenegdo and to know position and role of women in the family. The research method used is qualitative research methods (library research). The term of “ ezer kenegdo” refer to a helper but her position withoutsuperiority and inferiority. “The patner model” between men and women is uderstood in relation to one another as the same function, where differences are complementary and mutually beneficial in all walks of life and human endeavors.Keywords: Ezer Kenegdo; Women; Family.AbstrakTujuan penulisan artikel ini adalah untuk mendeskripsikan pengertian ezer kenegdo dan mengetahui kedudukan dan peran perempuan dalam keluarga. Metode yang digunakan adalah metode kualitatif library research. Ungkapan “ezer kenegdo” menunjuk pada seorang penolong namun kedudukannya adalah setara tanpa ada superioritas dan inferioritas. “Model kepatneran” antara laki-laki dan perempuan dipahami dengan hubungan satu dengan yang lain sebagai fungsi yang sama, yang mana perbedaan adalah saling melengkapi dan saling menguntungkan dalam semua lapisan kehidupan dan usaha manusia.Kata Kunci: Ezer Kenegdo, Prerempuan, Keluarga.

scholarly journals Family Planning Radio Messages Directed at Men and Women in a Developing Society: A Case Study

2020 ◽  
pp. 31-40
Author(s):  
Alex Eloho Umuerri ◽  
Ngozi Bibian Okeibunor
Keyword(s):  
Content Analysis ◽  
Family Planning ◽  
Side Effects ◽  
Research Method ◽  
Sampling Technique ◽  
Men And Women ◽  
Contraceptive Pill ◽  
Family Planning Programs ◽  
Developing Society

The study examined radio family planning messages with particular reference to the nature of the audience influence on communication content by using a chat program on radio in a developing society. The study adopted content analysis research method with a purposive sampling technique and used a radio script having six items for analyses. Results showed that there were more family planning segments for women than for men and, there were more family planning for drugs/pills and materials/implantation than for injection. In addition, there were side effects in the use of family planning just as there were quite a number of frequently asked questions except for condoms-fiesta/kiss. This paper concludes that radio scripts/messages for family planning programs should accommodate more topics/segments of family planning for men and women, specifically, natural methods should be included. Furthermore, radio family planning messages should focus more on the benefits of family planning and specifically the benefits of contraceptive pill and post pill emergency should be examined. Other formats of programs should be employed in the campaign for family planning messages on radio, and development communicators and content developers of radio family planning scripts should explore more areas to make radio messages more robust.

scholarly journals Peralihan Harta Bersama Melalui Hibah Tanpa Izin Salah Satu Pihak Berdasarkan Undang-Undang Nomor 1 Tahun 1974 dan Kompilasi Hukum Islam

2019 ◽  
Vol 3 (1) ◽  
pp. 81-94
Author(s):  
Agustina Dewi Putri ◽  
Darmawan Darmawan ◽  
Teuku Muttaqin Mansur
Keyword(s):  
Research Method ◽  
Islamic Law ◽  
The Other ◽  
Legal Action ◽  
Legal Research ◽  
Shared Property ◽  
Legal Consequences ◽  
Husband And Wife

Menurut Pasal 36 ayat (1) Undang-Undang Nomor 1 tahun 1974, mengenai harta bersama, suami atau isteri dapat bertindak atas persetujuan kedua belah pihak. Adanya ketentuan Pasal tersebut di atas, menunjukkan bahwa jika seorang suami atau isteri, bermaksud melakukan perbuatan hukum yang objeknya terkait dengan harta bersama (misalnya menjual, menghibahkan dan lain-lain), baik itu berupa barang bergerak atau barang tidak bergerak, maka perbuatan hukum tersebut harus didasarkan pada persetujuan kedua belah pihak (suami dan isteri). Untuk mengetahui dan menjelaskan akibat hukum dari peralihan harta bersama melalui hibah tanpa izin dari salah satu pihak. Metode Penelitian yang digunakan adalah penelitian hukum yuridis normatif dan Ketiadaan persetujuan baik suami atau isteri memberi akibat hukum bahwa peralihan harta bersama tersebut menjadi batal demi hukum.As for article 36 paragraph (1) mentions that anything regarded to the shared-property should be with the consent of both parties. It is in line with Article 92 about Compilation of Islamic Law which mentions that either husband or wife without any consent of the other partner is not allowed to sell or transfer the ownerships of the shared-property. Provisionsof the article indicate that if the husband or wife intends to carry out a legal act whose object is related to a common asset (for example selling, granting, etc). whether it is movable or immovable property, the legal action must be based on agreement of both parties (husband and wife). To figure out and explain the legal consequences of share assets transfer throght a grant without permission from one of the parties. Research method used in this is normative juridical legal research. To find out and explain the comparison of provisions on the transfer of property with husband and wife based on Law Number 1 Year 1974 and Compilation of Islamic Law Absence of approval from both husband and wife gives legal consequences that transfer of shared property becomes null and void by law.

scholarly journals Households and families in Estonian population

2020 ◽  
Vol 29 (1) ◽  
pp. 86-104
Author(s):  
Ene-Margit Tiit
Keyword(s):  
Young People ◽  
Married Couple ◽  
Age Groups ◽  
Household Type ◽  
Men And Women ◽  
First Marriage ◽  
Age At First Marriage ◽  
Single Person ◽  
Estonian Population ◽  
Size And Structure

The statistical distribution of households and families by their size and structure can be received from population and household censuses, but it is also important to know this information between the censuses, as changes during the ten-year period can be quite remarkable. It is demonstrated that, since the last census in Estonia in 2011, the share of older age-groups has increased and the rate of children – decreased. The age at first marriage has increased for men and women respectively by 3 and 4 months per year. Consequently, the share of young people living without a partner has increased, but the process is different in men and women. The number of divorces has dropped, but this seems to be caused by the decline of marriages during the last decades. The age of women giving birth has also increased. During the last years, the number of third children has increased, but the number of first children has decreased. The distribution of households by their types was also studied and is presented in Table 1. It is evident that about one-sixth of the population lives alone; single-person households form the most numerous household type in present-day Estonia. From all households containing a couple, somewhat more than two-thirds are households with a married couple, others are households with a cohabiting couple. In average, the first ones are much older than the second ones. The number of households where two or more generations live together is marginal.

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