scholarly journals HAPPY FAMILY ("SAKINAH" ) OF TAHFID PESANTREN ALUMNI: Marriage Counseling Approach

2020 ◽  
Vol 5 (2) ◽  
pp. 207-226
Author(s):  
Machmudz Machmudz
Keyword(s):  
Family Members ◽  
Field Research ◽  
Boarding School ◽  
Marriage Counseling ◽  
The Family ◽  
Happy Family ◽  
Counseling Approach

This article is a result of a qualitative field research. This article discusses efforts to form a sakinah family. The research location is Jombang Regency. The data of this research are alumni of Madrasatul Qur'an Islamic boarding school Tebuireng Jombang who are domiciled in Jombang Regency. This study concludes that marriage counseling to maintain household harmony, one of which can be done independently through istiqamahan interacting with the Qur'an. This argument is based on data from the family of alumni who have memorized the Koran PP. Madrasataul Qur'an Tebuireng in Diwek district, Jombang. The alumni practice the routine of memorizing the Qur'an, always remembering Allah (taqarrub), tadarus Al-Qur`an every day, praying in congregation, being open between family members. The alumni carry out several family functions, namely educational, religious, protective, economic, and recreational functions. Keywords: marriage counseling, happy family, pesantren alumni.   Abstrak Artikel ini adalah hasil penelitian kualitatif lapangan. Artikel ini mendiskusikan upaya membentuk keluarga sakinah. Lokasi penelitian berada Kabupaten Jombang. Data penelitian ini adalah alumni pondok pesantren Madrasatul Qur’an Tebuireng Jombang yang berdomisili di Kabupaten Jombang. Penelitian ini menyimpulkan bahwa konseling pernikahan untuk menjaga keharmonisan rumah tangga salah satunya dapat dilakukan secara mandiri melalui keistiqamahan berinteraksi dengan Al-Qur’an. Argumen ini didasarkan pada data Keluarga alumni penghafal Al-Qur`an PP. Madrasataul Qur`an Tebuireng di kecamatan Diwek Jombang. Para alumni mempraktekkan rutinitas menghafal Al-Qur`an, selalu bedzikir kepada Allah (taqarrub), tadarus Al-Qur`an setiap hari, shalat berjamaah, bersikap terbuka antar anggota keluarga. Para alumni menjalankan beberapa fungsi keluarga, yakni fungsi edukatif, religi, protektif, ekonomis, dan rekreatif. Kata Kunci: konseling perkawinan, keluarga bahagia, alumni pesantren.

scholarly journals Resepsi Al-Quran Di Pondok Pesantren Al-Hidayah Karangsuci Purwokerto

2019 ◽  
Vol 4 (1) ◽  
pp. 15-31
Author(s):  
Akhmad roja Badrus Zaman
Keyword(s):  
Paradigm Shift ◽  
Field Research ◽  
Boarding School ◽  
The Public ◽  
Knowledge And Beliefs ◽  
The Family ◽  
Expressive Meaning ◽  
Objective Meaning ◽  
Depth Interviews ◽  
Holy Book

The Qur'an is truly a holy book containing moral teachings to guide people to the straight path. It's just that, when the Qur'an is consumed by the public, the book experiences a paradigm shift so that it is treated, received, and expressed differently according to their respective knowledge and beliefs. That expression, of course, is a concrete indicator that the Qur'an is a holy book which is always in harmony with all situations and conditions (ṣālih li kulli zamān wa makān). The model and style of the reception even now continue to be expressed and preserved by the family of Ponpes Al-Hidayah Karangsuci, Purwokerto. This study aims to determine the variety of Al-Qur'an receptions in Ponpes and try to understand the meaning inherent in it. This research was designed with qualitative methods and included in field research. In obtaining data, the instruments that researchers use are in-depth interviews, observations, and studies of related documents. The analysis used by researchers is as presented by Mohd. Soehadha, namely by reducing data, displaying data, and drawing conclusions. In clarifying the validity of the data, the researcher extends the participation and triangulation of sources and methods. From the research conducted, the results obtained include: (1) a variety of Al-Qur'an receptions in the Al-Hidayah Islamic Boarding School Karangsuci Purwokerto, (2) The meanings inherent in the reception variety, among others: objective meaning, expressive meaning, and documentary meaning. The objective meaning is to conclude that the variety of reception behavior at the Islamic boarding school is a symbol of compliance and injustice to the regulations of the boarding school. The expressive meaning is a form of self-internalization with positive things through the continuous learning process of the Qur'an, and the meaning of the documentary is a form of local contextualization of the whole cultural system.

scholarly journals Pola Pembinaan Santri dalam Pengendalian Perilaku Menyimpang di Pondok Pesantren ar-Risalah Kota Jember

2019 ◽  
Vol 3 (2) ◽  
pp. 139
Author(s):  
Suryadi Suryadi ◽  
Maslahatun Nikmah
Keyword(s):  
Family Environment ◽  
Deviant Behavior ◽  
Field Research ◽  
Boarding School ◽  
Boarding Schools ◽  
Research Field ◽  
Qualitative Approach ◽  
The Family ◽  
Control Pattern ◽  
The Village

This article discusses the pattern of fostering deviant behavior that occurs among students. This research took place in Islamic boarding school to become one of the institutions of education that is fairly old in the Indonesian nation. In addition, Islamic boarding schools are also known as institutions to deepen knowledge and foster student morals. Therefore, each boarding school has a different pattern of coaching. This study uses field research (field research) with a descriptive qualitative approach. The aim is to be able to describe the results of the analysis in detail. This problem attracts the attention of the writer to examine the pattern of guidance of students in controlling deviant behavior. Based on the results of the study it can be seen that the factors causing deviant behavior of students are influenced by the family environment, boarding schools/schools and peers. As for the pattern of fostering santri in controlling deviant behavior in the boarding school of ar-Risalah, the village uses three coaching patterns, namely a preventive pattern, a repressive pattern and a curative pattern. Patterns of prevention are carried out to keep the delinquency from happening. Repressive patterns when students have deviant behavior so there must be consequences for the students. And curative control pattern is given if the pattern of preventive and repressive can not be a solution in controlling deviant behavior of students.

scholarly journals KONSELING PERNIKAHAN BERBASIS ASMARA ( As-Sakinah, Mawaddah, Wa Rahmah )

2017 ◽  
Vol 7 (2) ◽  
pp. 195
Author(s):  
Nur Ahmad
Keyword(s):  
Key Words ◽  
Family Relationships ◽  
Social System ◽  
Marriage Counseling ◽  
Interaction Patterns ◽  
The Family ◽  
System Functioning ◽  
Happy Family ◽  
Harmonious Family ◽  
Counselling Approach

<p>Keluarga merupakan sistem sosial yang alamiah dan keluarga berfungsi membentuk aturan-aturan, komunikasi serta negosiasi diantara para anggota keluarga. Ketiga fungsi keluarga ini mempunyai sejumlah implikasi terhadap perkembangan dan keberadaan para anggota keluarga. Keluarga melakukan suatu pola interaksi yang diulang-ulang melalui partisipasi seluruh anggota keluarga. Sehingga strategi konseling pernikahan yang dibangun akan membantu terpeliharanya hubungan-hubungan keluarga harmonis <em>As-Sakinah</em><em>, </em><em>Mawaddah, Wa Rahmah</em> juga dituntut untuk memodifikasi pola-pola transaksi dalam memenuhi kebutuhan keluarga yang mengalami perubahan yang didambakan. Membangun Keluarga bahagia melalui pendekatan konseling pernikahan pada dasarnya merupakan upaya untuk memperoleh kebahagiaan dan kesejahteraan hidup baik lahir maupun batin. Keluarga dibentuk untuk memadukan rasa kasih dan sayang diantara dua makhluk berlainan jenis, yang berlanjut untuk menyebarkan rasa kasih dan sayang keibuan dan keayahan terhadap seluruh anggota keluarga. Namun apa yang didambakan, apa yang diidealkan serta apa yang seharusnya dalam kenyataan tidak senantiasa berjalan mulus sebagaimana mestinya. Kebahagiaan yang diharapkan semoga dapat diraih dari bahtera kehidupan berumah tangga dan bukan sebaliknya yang kerapkali dirasakan justru kesedihan.</p><p><strong>Kata kunci : </strong>konseling pernikahan, sakinah mawaddah wa rahmah<strong></strong></p><p><strong> </strong></p><p><em>MARRIAGE COUNSELING BASED ON AS-SAKINAH MAWADDAH WA RAHMAH. The family is the natural and social system functioning family formed the rules, communication and negotiations between members of the family. The three functions of this family has a number of implications for the development and the existence of the family members. Perform a family interaction patterns that are repeated through the participation of all members of the family. So the marriage counselling strategy built will help the nurturing harmonious family relationships, As-Sakinah, Mawaddah Wa Rahmah is also required to modify the patterns of discounted rates in meeting the needs of the family experiencing the changes longed. Build happy family through marriage counselling approach is basically an attempt to gain happiness and prosperity of life in both the physical and the spiritual sense. The family was formed to integrate the feeling of love and affection between two different kinds of creatures that continues to spread compassion and mercy motherhood and fatherhood leads to all members of the family. But what longed, what diidealkan and what should be in reality does not always run smoothly properly. The expected happiness may be achieved from the ark life housekeeping and rather an often felt thus sorrow.</em></p><p><strong><em>Key Words :</em></strong><em> marriage counselling, sakinah mawaddah wa rahmah</em></p>

Sistem Dakwah Pondok Pesantren At-Tawazun dalam Mengatasi Problematika Santri

2017 ◽  
Vol 2 (4) ◽  
pp. 329-346
Author(s):  
Iyam Marhamah ◽  
Yaya Yaya ◽  
Asep Sodiqin
Keyword(s):  
Output Feedback ◽  
Field Research ◽  
Education Institution ◽  
Boarding School ◽  
Qualitative Approach ◽  
Young Generation ◽  
Case Study Method ◽  
The Times ◽  
Considerable Benefit

Tulisan ini bertujuan untuk menggambarkan sistem dakwah Pondok Pesantren At-Tawazun ditinjau melalui sistem terbuka mulai dari tahap input, conversion, output, feedback, hingga environment dalam upaya mengatasi problematika santri yang dipengaruhi oleh perkembangan zaman. Penelitian yang dilakukan ini menggunakan metode studi kasus dengan pendekatan kualitatif dan spesifikasi penelitian field research (penelitian lapangan). Hasil penelitian ini menunjukkan bahwa keberadaan pondok pesantren At-Tawazun dirasakan cukup besar manfaatnya oleh orang tua maupun masyarakat. Lembaga dakwah dan pendidikan ini telah ikut berkontribusi dalam menanggulangi masalah sosial dan kenakalan remaja yang semakin rumit, sehingga mampu memberikan lulusan santri yang brakhlak, berbudi luhur dan mampu mengamalkan ilmunya di masyarakat. Lebih dari itu, kehadiran pondok pesantren At-Tawazun diharapkan dapat mengatasi akulturasi budaya yang menyimpang di era sekarang ini. Sehingga semangat generasi muda kita dapat disalurkan terhadak hal-hal positif, untuk kemajuan Agama dan Negara. This paper aims to describe the da’wah system of At-Tawazun Islamic Boarding School through an open system starting from the input, conversion, output, feedback, and environment stages in an effort to overcome the problems of santri that are influenced by the times. This research uses case study method with qualitative approach and field research specification (field research). The results of this study indicate that the existence of the At-Tawazun Islamic Boarding Scool was felt to be of considerable benefit by parent and community. This da’wah and education institution has contributed to tackling social problems and juvenile delinquency that are increasingly complicated, so as to be able to provide graduates who are morally, virtous and able to practice their knowledge in the community, moreover, the presence of the At-Tawazun Islamic Boarding School is expected to overcome the deviant cultural acculturation in the present era. So that the spirit of our young generation can be channeled suddenly to positive things, for the advancement of Religion and the state.

POLA PENDIDIKAN AGAMA DALAM KELUARGA JAMA’AH TABLIGH DI DESA BOLANG KECAMATAN DAYEUHLUHUR KABUPATEN CILACAP

2019 ◽  
Vol 20 (2) ◽  
pp. 283-298
Author(s):  
Kholid Mawardi ◽  
Cucu Nurzakiyah
Keyword(s):  
Religious Education ◽  
Adult Children ◽  
Daily Activity ◽  
Family Members ◽  
Special Study ◽  
Children's Education ◽  
The Family ◽  
Children’S Education ◽  
The Village

The results of the study found that the responsibility of religious education of children in the family of Tablighi Jama'ah differed in terms of several conditions, namely first, when parents were not going to khuruj where both parents were responsible for children's education; secondly, when the father goes khuruj, then the mother is responsible for everything including children's education; third, when both parents go khuruj, then the responsibility of the child is left to other family members such as grandparents or their first adult children; and fourth, when the child goes to khuruj, where parents are responsible for children's religious education both mother and father. The pattern of the religious education in the Tablighi Jama'ah family in the village of Bolang is formed from several similarities held in the implementation of religious education, one of which is the daily activity that is carried out by the Tablighi Jama'at family. Al-Qur'an becomes one of the material given to children in the ta'lim. Children are taught how to read the Qur'an and memorize short letters such as Surat al-Falaq, al-Ikhlas, and so on. In addition to al-Qur'an, in this ta'lim there is a special study in the Tablighi Jama'ah, which is reading the book of fadhilah ‘amal, and the last is mudzakarah six characteristics.

BIMBINGAN PRAKTIK SALAT UNTUK SISWA BERKEBUTUHAN KHUSUS DI SMP

2018 ◽  
Vol 19 (1) ◽  
pp. 33-59
Author(s):  
Sulfiyah Sulfiyah
Keyword(s):  
Special Needs ◽  
Religious Education ◽  
Junior High ◽  
Field Research ◽  
Boarding School ◽  
Students With Special Needs ◽  
Important Thing ◽  
National Education ◽  
National Education System ◽  
Qualitative Descriptive

Abstract: One of national education aim is to developing student’s potentials in order to become a faithful man. It is based on Republic of Indonesia’s Law Number 20 of 2003 on National Education System, Chapter II Article 3. Islamic Religious Education is one of education that done to create a faithful man. Prayer is one of Islamic Religious Education’s matter should be learned by all Moslem’s students, include students with special needs. Research of prayer practice guidance is an important thing to be done. The important thing should be researched is about prayer practice that taught in the inclusion school. Inclusion school have regular (common) students and special needs students. How the teacher can teach prayer practice for students with special needs in the inclusion school. Once of inclusion school is Junior High Boarding School Putra Harapan. The goal of this research is to explore and to describe about how teacher guides prayer practice for students with special needs in Junior High Boarding School Putra Harapan Purwokerto Banyumas. This research belongs to field research on qualitative descriptive form. The methods of collecting data used by the author are interview, observation and documentation. Meanwhile to analyze of data, it’s done by collecting data, reducing, presenting and verifying data to be valid and reliable report. The findings of this research show that guidance of prayer practice for students with special needs in Junior High Boarding School Putra Harapan done through some ways namely dividing students into two class that regular and inclusion class, establishing guidance of prayer practice program, using musyafahah and demonstration methods. Key words: guidance, prayer practice, students with special needs.

Information Practices of Baby Boomers as Caregivers

2013 ◽  
Author(s):  
Khuan Seow ◽  
Nadia Caidi
Keyword(s):  
Social Policy ◽  
Baby Boomers ◽  
Information Needs ◽  
Family Members ◽  
Age Groups ◽  
Maladie D’Alzheimer ◽  
Policy Makers ◽  
Age Related ◽  
The Family ◽  
Growing Age

Canada has an aging population with the fastest growing age groups (80 and 45-64 years old) vulnerable to age-related diseases such as Alzheimer’s disease. Caregiving responsibilities often fall to the family members of the afflicted without much attention and consideration being placed on the information needs of these caregivers. We call for a better understanding of these caregivers' information needs and uses by social policy makers as well as information providers.La population du Canada a tendance à vieillir considérablement, avec la hausse la plus rapide dans les groupes d’âge (80 et 45 à 64 ans). Les personnes âges sont très vulnérables à toute sorte de maladies, telles que la maladie d’Alzheimer. La responsabilité revient souvent aux membres de la famille qui doivent prendre soin des personnes atteintes de cette maladie. Or, nous ne connaissons que peu de chose sur les besoins en information des personnes qui prennent soin de ces malades de l’Alzheimer : qui sont-ils ? Quelles sont leurs sources... 

Pengaruh Penyuluhan Terhadap Respon Psikososial Keluarga Pasien Yang Dirawat Di Ruang Icu Rsud Dr.Sosodoro Djatikoesumo Bojonegoro

2016 ◽  
Vol 2 (1) ◽  
Author(s):  
Maslichah Maslichah ◽  
Bayu Akbar Khayudin ◽  
Ikha Ardianti
Keyword(s):  
Health Workers ◽  
Family Members ◽  
T Test ◽  
Family Counseling ◽  
Test Design ◽  
Significance Level ◽  
Paired Sample ◽  
The Family ◽  
Post Test ◽  
Psychosocial Responses

ABSTRAK Pasien yang dirawat di ICU pada umumnya mengalami sakit kritis biasanya hal ini akan menimbulkan bebagai  respons psikososial  dari anggota keluarganya. Respons ini dapat berupa respons positif maupun respons negatif. Salah satu cara agar respons psikososial menjadi positif yaitu memberikan penyuluhan kepada keluarga pasien agar ada peningkatan kognisi dan emosi. Desain penelitian ini menggunakan metode “Pre-Experiment”, dengan rancangan “One group pra-post test design”. Dengan populasi semua keluarga yang anggota keluarganya dirawat di Ruang ICU RSUD.dr.Sosodoro Djatikoesumo. Sampel diambil dengan proses Total Sampling. Variabel independen  yaitupenyuluhan keluarga pasien ICU, dan variabel dependen adalah respon psikososial keluarga pasien. Pengumpulan data menggunakan kuesioner. hasil penelitian yang dilakukan dengan uji statistik paired sample t-test, pada tingkat signifikansi diperoleh nilai 0,027 0,05 maka Ho ditolak dan H1 diterimaPerawat sebagai tenaga kesehatan yang harus selalu mengembangkan profesionalisme, perlu mengupayakan agar respons psikososial keluarga yang negatif dapat ditekan. Salah satu upayanya yaitu adalah memberikan penyuluhan kepada keluarga. Dalam penyuluhan akan diberikan: komunikasi, informasi, edukasi dan support. Kata Kunci : Penyuluhan, Respon Psikososial Keluarga  ABSTRACT Patients admitted to the ICU in general suffer from a critical illness usually this will lead to the kinds of psychosocial responses of family members. This response can be either a positive response or a negative response. One way to be positive psychosocial responses that provide counseling to the patient's family that there was an increase in cognition and emotion.This study design using the "Pre-Experiment", the draft "One group pre-post test design". With a population of all the families who have family members admitted to the ICU RSUD.dr.Sosodoro Djatikoesumo. Samples were taken with total sampling process. Independent variables, family counseling ICU patients, and the dependent variable is the family of the patient's psychosocial response. Collecting data using questionnaires. results of research conducted by the statistical test paired sample t-test, at a significance level obtained value 0,027 0,05 hence Ho refused and H1 accepted.Nurses as health workers must always develop professionalism, needs to strive for psychosocial response can be suppressed negative family. One of the efforts that are giving counseling to the family. In the extension will be granted: communication, information, education and support. Keywords: Counseling, Family Psychosocial Response

Betwixt and Between

2018 ◽  
Author(s):  
Shenique S. Thomas ◽  
Johnna Christian
Keyword(s):  
Sense Of Belonging ◽  
Minority Groups ◽  
Family Members ◽  
Social Processes ◽  
Ethnic Minority Groups ◽  
The Social ◽  
The Family ◽  
Incarcerated Men ◽  
Challenges And Opportunities ◽  
Racial And Ethnic Minority

This chapter draws from a qualitative study of incarcerated men to investigate the social processes and interactions between both correctional authorities and family members that inform their sense of belonging and legitimacy. It reveals that prison visitation rooms present a complex environment in which incarcerated men have access to discreet periods of visibility and relevance to their family members and the broader community. There are, however, several precarious aspects to these processes. The family members who are central to enhancing men’s visibility and legitimacy are primarily women from economically disadvantaged, racial, and ethnic minority groups, resulting in their own marginalization, which is compounded within prison spaces. By illuminating both the challenges and opportunities of familial connections, this chapter informs a social justice framework for understanding the experiences of both incarcerated men and their family members.

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