Desain Bahan Pembinaan Suami-Istri Kristen untuk Ketahanan Keluarga Warga Gereja

2020 ◽  
Vol 1 (2) ◽  
pp. 110-131
Author(s):  
Herdiana Sihombing ◽  
Elisamark Sitopu ◽  
Herowati Sitorus ◽  
Roy Charly HP Sipahutar ◽  
Bintahan M. Harianja
Keyword(s):  
Divorce Rate ◽  
Family Resilience ◽  
Development Research ◽  
Church Members ◽  
Is Research ◽  
High Divorce Rate ◽  
The Family ◽  
Christian Families ◽  
The Church ◽  
Husband And Wife

The high divorce rate in Indonesia, including among Christian families, has in recent years been a struggle together. Divorce itself is the mouth of a variety of pressures faced by Christian families that are not properly resolved. Not a few Christian families have a vulnerable resilience due to their inability to manage conflicts that occur. On the other hand, the Church must recognize that it has an ethical and theological responsibility to maintain the resilience of the family members of its congregation. However, the fact is that most churches do not have a programmed mission to nurture husband and wife members of their congregations in order to maintain family resilience. In fact, many churches do not have documented teaching material for cultivating Christian families. This article is a summary of development research that seeks to create a design for Christian husband and wife formation materials that can later be used by church leaders for the survival of the family of church members. The research method used is Research and Development (R & D), which is used to produce certain products, and test their effectiveness. In this research, the design of Christian husband and wife guidance materials for the family resilience of church members is produced.

scholarly journals INTERVENSI ANAK DALAM PERCERAIAN

2017 ◽  
Vol 15 (2) ◽  
pp. 185
Author(s):  
Firman Wahyudi
Keyword(s):  
Child Protection ◽  
Psychological Impact ◽  
Divorce Rate ◽  
Positive Trend ◽  
Rights Of The Child ◽  
High Divorce Rate ◽  
The Family ◽  
The Right ◽  
Protection Commission ◽  
Husband And Wife

The high divorce rate in Indonesia sometimes result with positive and negative trends. Positive trend meant the rise of women to defend their rights as a wife that is often abused by her husband so divorce is the best solutions and alternatives. Trend downside besides destroying a family structure also carries a psychological impact, especially children in addition to great effect in socio-civic life. Legal divorce just look at issues from both parties (husband and wife) only, while the other family members in this case the child is not involved. Though the realm of the family consisting of a husband and wife and children. Child has a fundamental right within the family and also have the right to intervene to prevent his parents' divorce because he was the main victim of the divorce itself. Required a special advocate to defend the interests and rights of the child in his parents' divorce given the level of skill in the legal act has not been adequate. In this case the role and functions of the Indonesian Child Protection Commission (KPAI) is necessary in order to fulfill these rights.

Death in the Family

1982 ◽  
Vol 36 (1) ◽  
pp. 56-65
Author(s):  
Helen G. Macrobert-Galazka
Keyword(s):  
Emotional Reaction ◽  
Church Members ◽  
The Family ◽  
Church Building ◽  
The Church

Chronicles the burning down of the author's church and the emotional reaction of the church members to the “death” of the church building.

scholarly journals Upaya Pencegahan Perceraian Akibat Media Sosial dalam Perspektif Sosiologis

2020 ◽  
Vol 5 (2) ◽  
pp. 144
Author(s):  
Aulia Nursyifa ◽  
Eti Hayati
Keyword(s):  
Social Media ◽  
Positive Impact ◽  
Phenomenological Approach ◽  
Family Resilience ◽  
City Government ◽  
Premarital Education ◽  
Technological Advances ◽  
The Family ◽  
The City ◽  
Husband And Wife

Technological advances not only have a positive impact on people's lives, but misuse of technology can cause social problems. One of the consequences of technology misuse is the phenomenon of divorce due to an affair between husband and wife that can be recorded through social media. The purpose of this study seeks to know the efforts made in preventing divorce due to social media abuse in a Sociological perspective. This research uses qualitative research methods with phenomenological approach, data processing using Nvivo 12. The results showed that divorce due to social media abuse was triggered by an affair between the husband and wife through social media resulting in an ongoing altercation. Efforts to prevent divorce due to social media abuse are carried out by various parties such as efforts from couples not to divorce, families who seek to reconcile, courts that seek mediation, even the city government that actively provides socialization about family resilience rules, premarital education programs, mother's father's school program, and efforts to strengthen the functioning of the family. Efforts to prevent divorce due to social media abuse can be effectively supported by cooperation between institutions and all elements of society to strengthen family resilience Kemajuan teknologi bukan hanya berdampak positif bagi kehidupan manusia, tetapi penyalahgunaan teknologi dapat menimbulkan masalah sosial. Salah satu akibat penyalahgunaan teknologi menimbulkan fenomena maraknya perceraian akibat adanya perselingkuhan antara suami dan isteri yang dapat terekam lewat media sosial. Tujuan dari penelitian ini berupaya untuk mengetahui upaya yang dilakukan dalam mencegah perceraian akibat penyalahgunaan media sosial dalam perspektif Sosiologis. Penelitian ini menggunakan metode penelitian kualitatif dengan pendekatan fenomenologi, pengolahan data menggunakan Nvivo 12. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan bahwa perceraian akibat penyalahgunaan media sosial dipicu karena adanya perselingkuhan antara suami isteri lewat media sosial sehingga membuat pertengkaran yang terjadi terus menerus. Upaya pencegahan perceraian akibat penyalahgunaan media sosial dilakukan oleh berbagai pihak diantaranya upaya dari pasangan agar tidak bercerai, pihak keluarga yang berupaya mendamaikan, pihak pengadilan yang berupaya melakukan mediasi, bahkan pemerintah kota yang giat memberikan sosialisasi tentang aturan ketahanan keluarga, program pendidikan pra nikah, program sekolah ayah bunda, dan berupaya memperkuat fungsi keluarga. Upaya pencegahan perceraian akibat penyalahgunaan media sosial dapat berjalan efektif didukung dengan adanya kerjasama antar institusi beserta semua elemen masyarakat untuk memperkuat ketahanan keluarga. 

scholarly journals Fungsi Keluarga dalam Persepektif Alkitab sebagai Basis Pendidikan Agama Kristen

2021 ◽  
Vol 2 (1) ◽  
pp. 79-93
Author(s):  
Andreas Sese Sunarko
Keyword(s):  
Religious Education ◽  
Sunday School ◽  
The Other ◽  
School Teachers ◽  
The Third ◽  
The Bible ◽  
The Family ◽  
Christian Families ◽  
The One ◽  
The Church

The family is an institution of God Himself (Genesis 2:18-25) aside from the church (Matthew 16:18) obtaining a glorious mandate through God's family to want the birth of Divine offspring (Malachi 2:15), which is a God-fearing and living in its prescribed streets. To achieve the above goal, a Christian Religious  Education of faith became something very important. But unfortunately there are Christian families who are unaware of this and are shifting this glorious mandate to the church through sunday school teachers or transferring it to school (through Christian religious teachers). The writer assesses this distraction on the one hand as a parent's misunderstanding of the mandate or on the other hand because of the parents' inability to handle it. The method the writer uses is a descriptive qualitative with a library approach. The writer tapped relevant resources from the bible, books and journals. Starting with a general understanding and juridis about the family, the Biblical basis of the family and its calling, the family's responsibility for Christian Religious Education and the danger of displacing the function of Christisn Religious Education on the third hand and the writer will eventually conclude that it is important to restore the family's function as a base of Christian Religious Education as well as to accord with scriptural values to be so effective in reaching the goal of bearing Divine offspring.

scholarly journals Tanggapan Alkitab dan Gereja Terhadap Faktor Pemicu Terjadinya Perceraian

2021 ◽  
Vol 3 (1) ◽  
pp. 1-17
Author(s):  
Ricu Sele ◽  
Soelistiyo Daniel Zacheus
Keyword(s):  
Divorce Rate ◽  
Word Of God ◽  
Upward Trend ◽  
Significant Upward Trend ◽  
The Bible ◽  
In Christ ◽  
The Church ◽  
Husband And Wife ◽  
Descriptive Qualitative

The divorce rate in Indonesia is increasingly showing a significant upward trend. Therefore, this study aims to describe the factors of divorce, the response of Lakit and the church to the divorce. Divorce doesn't just happen. Divorce is triggered by various factors. These factors are used as justification for conducting a divorce. Those reasons are used as the basis for suing and carrying out a divorce. The Bible is against divorce. God hates divorce. God never designed a marriage for divorce. Biblical marriage is marriage for life. Marriage must be built on a strong foundation, namely love. Like the bond of love between Christ and His church, so is the bond of husband and wife in a marriage. The church is in line with the Bible / Word of God, does not tolerate divorce. The church must strive to prevent its people from divorcing. Because divorce does not solve problems, but in Christ and His love all problems that arise in marriage can be resolved. He is in Christ and in His love there must be a way out. The method used by researchers in this writing is descriptive qualitative by using literature sources that support the writing of this article. Hopefully the results of this research can be a reference for pastors and churches and people to solve every problem in marriage wisely so that it doesn't end in divorce. Angka perceraian di Indonesia semakin menunjuk tren peningkatan yang signifikan. Karena itu penelitian ini bertujuan untuk memaparkan faktor-faktor perceraian, tanggapan Alkitab dan gereja terhadap perceraian tersebut. Perceraian dipicu oleh berbagai faktor. Alasan-alasan itulah yang dijadikan sebagai dasar untuk menuntut dan melakukan perceraian. Alkitab menentang perceraian. Tuhan tidak pernah merancang sebuah pernikahan untuk perceraian. Pernikahan Alkitabiah adalah pernikahan seumur hidup. Pernikahan harus dibangun dasar yang kuat yaitu kasih. Seperti ikatan kasih antara Kristus dan jemaatNya. Gerejapun sejalan dengan Alkitab/Firman Allah, tidak mentolerir adanya perceraian. Gereja harus berjuang untuk menghindarkan umatnya dari perceraian. Sebab perceraian tidak menyelesaikan masalah, tetapi di dalam Kristus dan kasihNya semua persoalan yang muncul dalam pernikahan bisa diselesaikan. Adapun metode yang dipergunakan peneliti dalam penulisan ini adalah deskriptif kualitatif dengan menggunakan sumber-sumber literatur yang mendukung penulisan artikel ini. Kiranya hasil penelitian ini, dapat menjadi acuan bagi Pendeta dan gereja serta umat untuk menyelesaikan setiap masalah dalam pernikahan secara bijak sehingga tidak berakhir dengan perceraian.

scholarly journals KELUARGA KRISTIANI DAN PENDIDIKAN ANAK DALAM TERANG GRAVISSIMUM EDUCATIONIS ARTIKEL 3

2018 ◽  
Vol 16 (8) ◽  
pp. 32-43
Author(s):  
Agustinus Supriyadi
Keyword(s):  
Personal Development ◽  
Life Goals ◽  
Main Task ◽  
Children And Parents ◽  
Church And Society ◽  
Christian Families ◽  
Children Education ◽  
The Church ◽  
Husband And Wife ◽  
Primary Educators

Family is a community first formed by husband and wife, then evolved towards communion parents with children. Christian families are called to take part actively and responsibly in the Church’s mission in a way that is original and distinctive through his presence and, as a community of life and affection to serve the Church and society. Children’s education is born from the goal of a marriage which is happiness conjugal and family in all aspects of life as well as the birth of a child and the child's faith education. The main task of parents as educator lies in the love between children and parents themselves. Parents are  the first and primary educators. As the first and primary educators, parents reveal a fundamental authority to educate their children. Education is basically focused on personal development as complete physical-spiritual man, both as personal and social beings, within the framework of his last life goals. Community and Church help parents to remain in their position and role as the primary educator and the first for their children.

scholarly journals PENDIDIKAN PRA NIKAH; IKHTIAR MEMBENTUK KELUARGA SAKINAH

2017 ◽  
Vol 2 (02) ◽  
pp. 158-168
Author(s):  
Amirah Mawardi
Keyword(s):  
Divorce Rate ◽  
Family Characteristics ◽  
Early Marriage ◽  
Reference Source ◽  
Marriage Education ◽  
Related Literature ◽  
High Divorce Rate ◽  
The Family ◽  
And Function ◽  
Very High

ABSTRAK Tulisan Pendidikan Pra Nikah; Ikhtiar Membentuk Keluarga Sakinah ini disebabkan oleh adanya angka perceraian yang sangat tinggi akibat dari pernikahan usia dini yang belum memahami urgensi dan fungsi keluarga. Tujuan dari penulisan ini adalah untuk mengedekuasi anak usia pra nikah agar lebih siap baik secara mental maupun pengetahuan. Jenis  penelitian ini adalah kepustakaan, di mana penulis malakukan penelusuran terhadap  beberapa literatur yang terkait. Dengan demikian, maka sumber data dari tulisan ini adalah buku-buku ilmiah yang diterbitkan dengan maksud dijadikan sumber referensi. Hasil penelitian ini menunjukkan bahwa urgensi keluarga, fungsi dan peran keluarga, tugas dan tanggungjawab keluarga, ciri-ciri keluarga, serta faktor dan prinsip keluarga sakinah perlu diberikan kepada anak usia pra nikah agar kelak menjadi keluarga yang sakinah mawaddah wa rahmah.  Kata Kunci: Pendidikan Pra Nikah dan Keluarga Sakinah  ABSTRACTPre-Marriage Writing Paper; Ikhtiar Forming a Sakinah Family was caused by the very high divorce rate resulting from an early marriage that has not understood the urgency and function of the family. The purpose of this paper was to educated pre-married age children to be better prepared both mentally and knowledge. This type of research was a literature, in which the authors trace a number of related literature. Thus, the data sources of this paper are scientific books published with the intention of being a reference source. The results of this study indicated that family urgency, family functions and roles, family duties and responsibilities, family characteristics, and sakinah family principles and factors need to be given to pre married children in order to become a sakinah mawaddah wa rahmah family.Keywords: Pre-marriage Education and Sakinah Family

scholarly journals PEMENUHAN KEBUTUHAN DASAR ANAK OLEH ORANG TUA PASCA PERCERAIAN

2019 ◽  
Vol 12 (1) ◽  
pp. 79-99
Author(s):  
Isa Vila Rizki Ullabanati ◽  
Mahfudz Sidiq
Keyword(s):  
Deviant Behavior ◽  
Divorce Rate ◽  
Health Needs ◽  
Surrounding Environment ◽  
High Divorce Rate ◽  
The Family ◽  
Data Validity ◽  
Broken Home ◽  
Seriously Ill

Jember is a district with a high divorce rate in the East Java province. Divorcing leaves behind a victim which is the child of a divorced couple. Children who are victims of broken home usually have negative behavior both for themselves and the surrounding environment due to family conditions that are broke apart. In addition, the needs of broken home child unlike when the family is still intact. But the children's victim of the divorced parents in Tegalsari Village did not show deviant behavior like most children who were victims of broken home. The purpose of this study is to describe how to fulfill the basic needs of children by parents after divorce. The approach of this research is qualitative and uses descriptive type of research. Determination of informants in this study using a purposive technique. The technique of collecting data uses observation, interviews, and documentation. Data analysis used data reduction, data presentation, and conclusion or verification. The data validity technique used is in the form of source triangulation. The results showed that both divorced parents still met their children's needs even though they were not in one house. Needs fulfilled by parents are educational needs, health needs and needs of achievement. The way fathers and mothers fulfill their children's needs is somewhat different. Mothers in meeting their children's needs are more responsive, organized and resilient starting from simple things to serious problems. While the father in fulfilling his children's needs is less sensitive to the needs of his child. It means that the father in meeting the needs of his children seems serious when the problem is considered very important, for example a child who is seriously ill must be taken to the hospital and others. Jember merupakan salah satu kabupaten dengan tingkat perceraian yang tinggi di Provinsi Jawa Timur. Perceraian meninggalkan korban yang merupakan anak dari pasangan yang bercerai. Anak-anak yang menjadi korban broken home biasanya memiliki perilaku negatif baik terhadap diri sendiri maupun lingkungan sekitarnya akibat kondisi keluarga yang berantakan. Selain itu, kebutuhan anak broken home tidak seperti saat keluarga masih utuh. Namun anak-anak korban dari orang tua yang bercerai di Desa Tegalsari tidak menunjukkan perilaku menyimpang seperti kebanyakan anak yang menjadi korban broken home. Tujuan penelitian ini adalah untuk mendeskripsikan bagaimana pemenuhan kebutuhan dasar anak oleh orang tua pasca perceraian. Pendekatan penelitian ini adalah kualitatif dan menggunakan jenis penelitian deskriptif. Penentuan informan dalam penelitian ini menggunakan teknik purposive. Teknik pengumpulan data menggunakan observasi, wawancara, dan dokumentasi. Analisis data menggunakan reduksi data, penyajian data, dan penarikan kesimpulan atau verifikasi. Teknik keabsahan data yang digunakan berupa triangulasi sumber. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan bahwa kedua orang tua yang bercerai tetap dapat memenuhi kebutuhan anaknya meskipun tidak berada dalam satu rumah. Kebutuhan yang dipenuhi oleh orang tua adalah kebutuhan pendidikan, kebutuhan kesehatan dan kebutuhan berprestasi. Cara ayah dan ibu memenuhi kebutuhan anak mereka agak berbeda. Ibu dalam memenuhi kebutuhan anaknya lebih tanggap, teratur dan ulet mulai dari hal yang sederhana hingga masalah yang serius. Sedangkan ayah dalam memenuhi kebutuhan anaknya kurang peka terhadap kebutuhan anaknya. Artinya bapak dalam memenuhi kebutuhan anaknya nampak serius padahal masalah dianggap sangat penting, misalnya anak yang sakit parah harus dibawa ke rumah sakit dan lain-lain.

scholarly journals PERAN GEREJA DALAM PELAYANAN PASTORAL TERHADAP PASANGAN HAMIL SEBELUM MENIKAH

2020 ◽  
Vol 3 (1) ◽  
pp. 23-33
Author(s):  
Jonidius Illu
Keyword(s):  
Pastoral Care ◽  
Sexual Relation ◽  
Church Members ◽  
Men And Women ◽  
The Bible ◽  
Christian Family ◽  
Christian Families ◽  
Church Service ◽  
The Church ◽  
In Pregnancy

One focus of church service is to prepare Christian families who live righteously through premarital counseling.Marriage is prepared for a lifetime.One of the efforts of the church in realizing church members who live holy lives is by giving teachings about love and choosing a partner according to the Bible so that church members do not commit adultery and sexual intercours outside of marriage which results in pregnancy outside of marriage.  This study aims to understand marriage and build a Christian family that is in accordance with the Bible and provide understanding that having sexual relation not within the container of Christian marriage is adultery so that both men and women need to confess their sins before God.  It was concluded that the Church is responsible for providing pastoral care to couples who become pregnant out of wedlock.The church in carrying out the principle of love still observes the rules so that the maturity of the church members become realized.

scholarly journals Dampak Pemutusan Hubungan Kerja di Masa Pandemi Covid-19 Terhadap Ketahanan Keluarga

2021 ◽  
Vol 4 (1) ◽  
pp. 61
Author(s):  
Nabila Luthvita Rahma ◽  
Anisa Yuniar ◽  
Fatimah Qurrotu A'yun ◽  
Indri Kurniati ◽  
Dania Saferina Ifada
Keyword(s):  
Family Member ◽  
Interpersonal Communication ◽  
Family Law ◽  
Family Members ◽  
Divorce Rate ◽  
Family Resilience ◽  
The Family ◽  
Islamic Family Law ◽  
The Impact

<p><em>The purpose of this study was to determine the impact of termination of employment during the Covid-19 pandemic on family resilience. This study uses a case approach and a law approach with primary legal sources and secondary legal sources in the form of books or legal journals related to the research title. The results of this study indicate that the termination of employment experienced by the head of the family or family member during the Covid-19 pandemic did not significantly affect family resilience, as evidenced by the divorce rate which did not increase significantly and was not caused by termination of employment. As for maintaining family resilience during the Covid-19 pandemic can be done by carrying out the rights and obligations of each family member in accordance with the study of Islamic family law, in addition to maintaining interpersonal communication between family members. </em></p>

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