scholarly journals Parenting Of Parents Work In Instilling Religious Attitudes And Respectful Attitudes In Adolescents

2021 ◽  
Vol 1 (2) ◽  
pp. 92-104
Author(s):  
Fauziyah Fatmawati ◽  
Rifqi Aulia Erlangga
Keyword(s):  
Social Life ◽  
Role Model ◽  
Parental Behavior ◽  
Good Friend ◽  
Child Gender ◽  
Working Parents ◽  
Religious Attitudes ◽  
Child Characters ◽  
Use Of Time ◽  
Parents And Children

Parents, especially mothers are responsible for instilling the value of religious and social life in children, including adolescents through proper parenting. However, many parents choose to entrust the child completely to the school because it is busy with their work. This study aims to explain the parenting of working parents in instilling religious attitudes and respectful attitudes in adolescents, explain the factors that influence parenting, and explain the obstacles and solutions parents work in foster care. This study is a qualitative descriptive field study involving ten working parents. This research data is obtained through observation, interviews, and documentation. The results of this study found that the parenting used by sources is democratic parenting. Trust factors, comparison of parenting models, child gender, parental behavior, and character of children are factors that influence parenting in instilling religious attitudes and respectful attitudes in adolescents. In addition, there are obstacles in applying parenting, such as limited time together between parents and children because parents are busy working, child characters, mobile phones, child association, and social media. The solution in overcoming these obstacles is to be a good role model, make the best use of time to get to know the child's friendship environment, not only be a parent but can be a good friend and listener, and have to check the child’s phone.

Wakaf Produktif dalam Perspektif Maqasid Shari’ah (Studi tentang Wakaf Produktif di PMDG- Ponorogo)

2021 ◽  
Vol 5 (2) ◽  
Author(s):  
Masruchin Masruchin ◽  
A’yunina Mahanani ◽  
Diyah Ekowati
Keyword(s):  
Law Enforcement ◽  
Social Life ◽  
Role Model ◽  
Educational Institution ◽  
Social Economy ◽  
Boarding School ◽  
Intelligence Development

Wakaf is a Maliyah worship that have tight relation with development of umat welfare. It is a worship in the form of social economy. The potential of wakaf is huge nowadays however it does not use optimally yet because of some factors so that it cannot give maximum role in bringing welfare for society and empowering society’s economy. Wakaf does not only support the development of science but also prepare all facilities needed by students of university or society.Modern Boarding School Darussalam Gontor, Islamic boarding school that considered has been successful in organizing productive wakaf to finance itself and because of that, it can be the role model for developing educational institution base wakaf. Most of the result of wakaf used to develop the business and another used for teachers’ welfare and funding institutions of boarding school in shelter of PMDG. Some of the fund also donated to assistance founding of religious social life of society around.As for the concept of wakaf PMDG refers to maqashid – al shari’ah that is in level of law enforcement (tatbiq al hukmi) that is create welfare and avoid mercilessness. Trimutri in his wakaf concept more emphasizes on the welfare aspect aimed to that wakaf is a media to get closer with Allah SWT. It is form of Hajiyyat needs to possess the nature of religion, and give humanity assistance institutionally (at – tahbis), and for education of Islamic boarding school related to the intelligence development, so that it can give advantage optimally for Muslim’s life later.Key words: productive wakaf, Wakaf Gontor, Maqashid al – shari’ah.

scholarly journals SPIRITUAL CIRCLE IN MURSHID AND PURE RELATION SURGERY

2018 ◽  
Vol 3 (1) ◽  
pp. 59-97
Author(s):  
Ahmad Syatori
Keyword(s):  
Social Life ◽  
Role Models ◽  
Role Model ◽  
Human Life ◽  
Strong Relationship ◽  
Soap Opera ◽  
Spiritual Life ◽  
Social Attraction ◽  
Past Life ◽  
The Relationship

In this journal contains a description of the explanation of the relationship (relationship) between someone who plays himself as a teacher spiritual guide (Murshid) with other people who act as followers (Disciples). The second role is certainly not a role in the theater or soap opera shows that we watch on television, but it is a concrete manifestation on the real stage of life. In the tradition sosial urf social-attraction there are life phenomena that are very unique and interesting to study and examine in depth. Because in this phenomenon there is a mirror of human life, which between one another has a very strong relationship and attachment between them. This relationship can be intensively interwoven both physically and mentally which is implemented directly in religious spiritual life and social life. From each of them there were those who became role models who were very adhered to and respected, namely a murshid teacher. While others become followers who are very obedient and loyal, namely a student. The closeness of the relationship between murshid and students is part of an inseparable relationship. Both are bound and related to each other. Each of them takes care and maintains each other. This kind of life portrait is a picture of past life in the time of the Prophet and his companions. Where the Prophet's figure was his capacity as a figure who became uswah (role model) for his companions whose capacity was a loyal follower of the Prophet. This paper aims to reveal the pact around the scope of life in the circle of social-spiritual life played by God's chosen servants.

Working Parents

2019 ◽  
pp. 161-168
Author(s):  
Andrew E. Clark ◽  
Sarah Flèche ◽  
Richard Layard ◽  
Nattavudh Powdthavee ◽  
George Ward
Keyword(s):  
Longitudinal Study ◽  
Family Conflict ◽  
Intellectual Development ◽  
Emotional Health ◽  
Behavioral Effects ◽  
Working Parents ◽  
Critical Effect ◽  
Parents And Children ◽  
Unemployment Data ◽  
Avon Longitudinal Study

This chapter takes a look at how working parents can affect their children, and how. Evidence from the Avon Longitudinal Study of Parents and Children (ALSPAC) shows that, other things held constant (including income), mother's work has no marked effect, good or bad, on the emotional health of her children. However, the chapter goes further by exploring the behavioral effects on the child if they have a minder or some form of nursery care. The child's intellectual development is also explored. In addition to these, the chapter takes a look at the effects of unemployed parents on their children. ALSPAC provides clear unemployment data only on the fathers of the children and shows that this can have a critical effect on children's development. There are many channels through which this can work—via the parents' mood, family conflict, reduced aspirations, taunting at school, and simple loss of income.

Role of the Pediatrician in Patient Education

PEDIATRICS ◽  
1984 ◽  
Vol 74 (5) ◽  
pp. 914-916
Author(s):  
Vincent A. Fulginiti
Keyword(s):  
Patient Education ◽  
Cost Effective ◽  
Educational Materials ◽  
Residency Programs ◽  
Personal Involvement ◽  
Use Of Time ◽  
Parents And Children ◽  
Printed Materials ◽  
Effective Use

Although most pediatricians agree on the importance of teaching parents and children about health care, they may not succeed in patient education because of a lack of the requisite communication skills, inadequate printed materials to augment personal involvement, a tendency to substitute such materials for personal involvement, and inadequate compensation. Physician recognition of an obligation to teach is a requisite for effective education. Adjustment of current practices is essential: use of educational materials must be systematically incorporated, educational efforts must make effective use of time and be cost-effective. Information should be readily understood, parents given an opportunity to ask questions, and effectiveness of the education evaluated. Pediatricians must have a constant source of supplementary material to use in patient education. Videotapes and interactive computer programs should be considered for more effective communication. Residency programs must teach future pediatricians how to educate parents and children.

Work Life Balance of Working Parents: A study of IT Industry

2015 ◽  
Vol 10 (1) ◽  
Author(s):  
Saloni Pahuja
Keyword(s):  
Social Life ◽  
Sampling Technique ◽  
Working Hours ◽  
Work Life ◽  
Professional Life ◽  
Work Life Balance ◽  
It Industry ◽  
Working Parents ◽  
Life Balance ◽  
The Impact

Managing the competing demands of work, family and social life is an issue that affects almost every organization. Work life balance is a challenging issue for IT professionals whether male or female as increasing working hours and monitoring the hours worked are far more rigorous than ever before. This paper explores the gender wise perception of work life balance among working parents of I.T. Industry and also examines the impact of work life balance on working parents’ personal and professional life. The Data was thus collected from 200 working parents of IT industry through questionnaire by adopting random sampling technique. The statistical techniques used were ttest, Correlation and Regression Analysis. Findings depicted no significance differences in the perception of male and female towards work life balance. It also revealed high degree of positive correlation of 0.909 and 0.742 between work life balance and working parent’s personal and professional life respectively. And high impact of work life balance on working parent’s personal and professional life.

scholarly journals Er mere tid med familien løsningen? Hvad siger børn?

2006 ◽  
Vol 14 (2) ◽  
pp. 59-74
Author(s):  
Pia H. Christensen
Keyword(s):  
Point Of View ◽  
Family Routines ◽  
Use Of Time ◽  
The North ◽  
Parents And Children ◽  
The Family ◽  
The Everyday ◽  
Being There ◽  
Perception Of Time ◽  
The 1960S

Pia Haudrup Christensen: Children’s perception of time spent with the family This paper examines time spent with the family from children’s point of view. Since the 1960s notions of “quality time“ versus “quantity time“ have been employed to capture the everyday reality of working parents and their children. Some researchers have argued that parents should spend “more time“ together with their children and less time working, while others have suggested that it is important to examine how parents and children spend their time together. These discussions of what is “good“ for today’s children tend to neglect children’s perspectives. This paper draws on extensive ethnographic studies among 10-11 year old children about their understandings and use of time in an urban and a rural area of the North of England and in a district of Copenhagen, Denmark. The paper argues that the quality/quantity conundrum needs to be replaced by fuller and more representative accounts that include dimensions of family time that matter for children. The paper examines the six qualities of time that children value: “ordinary everyday family routines“, the notion of “hygge“ or coziness in Danish, “someone being there for you“, to “have one’s own time“, time for “peace and quiet“, and to be able “to plan own time“. It argues that children’s view of time spent with their families cannot be seen in isolation from the time they spend with friends, time at school and on their own. It concludes that children’s time needs to be situated in the everyday processes of balancing family, school and work life which both children and parents engage in.

scholarly journals Prevention of Violence and Sexual Abuse in Early Childhood Through Implementation of Sex Education in the Perspective of the Sunnah

2016 ◽  
Vol 1 (1) ◽  
pp. 27-34
Author(s):  
Lely Camelia ◽  
Ine Nirmala
Keyword(s):  
Sexual Abuse ◽  
Early Childhood ◽  
Sex Education ◽  
Child Protection ◽  
Role Model ◽  
Positive Impact ◽  
Islamic Perspective ◽  
Prevention Of Violence ◽  
Parents And Children ◽  
Teachers And Parents

This article discusses the conceptual studies on the implementation of early childhood sex education according to Islamic perspective. The number of cases of violence and sexual abuse against children has recently made various parties, no exception for parents, that must be alert to the threat. The big point of that is in 2015 when Indonesian Child Protection Commission said that cases of violence and abuse against children is a latent danger for the children of Indonesia. Several attempts have been made, some like starting to give a sex education early for parents and children, limiting the viewing access to pornography, limiting the contents of pornography on the internet and games, and stopping the attempts of the perpetrators in violence and sexual abuse against children by give them the weightest punishments. Rasullullah SAW as good role model has provided some guidance for us on how to educate children in detail, not only about early sex education, but also how to educate them since they are in the loins of their father. With reference to the sunnah that has showed by our Prophet to us, we as teachers and parents can apply it in everyday life, that will have a positive impact on children and the environment in the prevention of violence and sexual abuse against children.  Keywords: sex education, children, islamic perspective, Prophet’s sunnah perspective

scholarly journals FAMILY LIFE IN CENTRAL ASIA: PROBLEMS OF FATHERS AND CHILDREN

2021 ◽  
Vol 6 (2(22)) ◽  
pp. 20-29
Author(s):  
Abdirashid Mamasidikovich Mirzakhmedov ◽  
Khurshid Abdirashidovich Mirzakhmedov ◽  
Nasiba Alizhanovna Abdukholikova
Keyword(s):  
Information Technology ◽  
Family Life ◽  
Social Life ◽  
Family Relations ◽  
Intergenerational Relationships ◽  
Parents And Children ◽  
The Social ◽  
The Family ◽  
Modern Family ◽  
The Impact

The article presents the results of an anthropological analysis of the social life of a modern family. It is immersed in deep socio-economic and demographic problems, which are complicated by the impact of globalization and information technology. Analyzing the transformational processes of family relations, the author comes to the conclusion that in the modern family there is “alienation” of generations, the gap between parents and children, which affects the traditional ethno-confessional foundations of the family. We are talking about the foundations of the national mentality of the peoples of the region about intergenerational relationships between children and their parents, the transformation from a macro-family to a nuclear one.

scholarly journals PARENTAL PERCEPTION ABOUT WESTERN CARTOON ON CHILD’S MENTAL HEALTH IN PAKISTAN

2020 ◽  
Vol 9 (2) ◽  
pp. 48-53
Author(s):  
Farah Sultan ◽  
Zaki Hasan
Keyword(s):  
Mental Health ◽  
Social Life ◽  
Role Models ◽  
Role Model ◽  
Societal Norms ◽  
The Social ◽  
Parametric Statistics ◽  
Tv Shows ◽  
Cartoon Characters ◽  
Pediatric Mental Health

The purpose of this study is to explore the impacts of foreign cartoons programs on the social behavior and attitude of Pakistani Children. It is forecasting different cartoon programs 24/7; hence, children spend most of their leisure in front of the television. All these cartoon characters affect the social life and psyche of the children and induce positive and negative mannerism in their daily lifestyles. It has found that one of the most disturbing factor is that the ferocity in children today is increasing rapidly due to following their favorite violent cartoon characters which are even different from their culture and societal norms. The issue is violence is what they see in every cartoon program in one or the other way. Their Guardians are unaware that these cartoons they let their children watch are destroying their parenting as negative forces are attacking the innocent minds of this generation. The study gives the insight of why and what is happening with non-parametric statistics studied and used for thorough analysis. The behavioral outcome of the kids like, imitating their preferred animation character, utilizing various dialects, watching the TV as opposed to deciding on outdoor games and being difficult about getting precisely the same outfits and embellishments as their adored character. This contextual analysis features the disturbing circumstance that guardians are uninformed of. There is something other than mimicking the particular character. The only traits of watching these foreign cartoon characters is that it might damage their own customs and they wildly become to believe these characters as their role models. KEY WORDS: Animated TV Shows, Children, Attitude, Behavior, Cartoons, Violence, Role Model, Pediatric Mental Health

scholarly journals Hubungan Pola Asuh Orang Tua Bekerja terhadap Perkembangan Kepribadian Anak Usia PRA Sekolah

2019 ◽  
Vol 6 (1) ◽  
pp. 035-043
Author(s):  
Suryanda Suryanda
Keyword(s):  
Statistical Tests ◽  
Personality Development ◽  
Descriptive Study ◽  
School Age Children ◽  
P Value ◽  
School Age ◽  
Working Parents ◽  
Parents And Children ◽  
Relationship Of ◽  
The Relationship

Abstract Increasing parental attention to their children because they both work, resulting in limited interaction between parents and children. The development of personality become disturbed, personal not independent and asocial. The study aimed to determine the relationship of parenting parents to work on personality development in pre-school age children (aged 3-5 years) in Prabumulih. An analytical descriptive study involving 60 respondents of mothers who have pre-school children (aged 3-5 years). Research instruments are questionnaires, check list and approval sheet of willingness to be the respondent of the research. Based on the results of statistical tests with fisher exact obtained p value of 0.00 (<0.05), so it was concluded there was a significant relationship between parenting parents with the development of pre-school child behavior. In Pre-School Age Children should begin to instill the attitudes and norms of life that support the formation of his personality in the future. The condition of both parents who work outside the home cause the parenting pattern is also limited and even disconnected, for that busy parents working must provide time chatting to stimulate children develop optimally. Parents should seek to establish democratic parenting and do not give excessive love so that children are not spoiled and socially inadequateKeywords : Parenting Patterns, Working Parents, Child Personality Abstrak Semakin  berkurangnya perhatian orang tua terhadap anaknya karena keduanya sama-sama bekerja, mengakibatkan terbatasnya interaksi orang tua dengan anak. Perkembangan keperibadian anak menjadi menjadi terganggu, menjadi pribadi tidak mandiri dan asosial. Penelitian bertujuan mengetahui hubungan pola asuh orang tua bekerja terhadap perkembangan kepribadian pada Anak Usia Pra sekolah (umur 3 – 5 tahun). Merupakan penelitian deskriptif analitik melibatkan 60 responden ibu yang mempunyai anak pra sekolah (umur 3-5 tahun) di Kota Prabumulih. Instrumen penelitian berupa kuesioner, cek list dan lembar persetujuan kesediaan menjadi responden penelitian. Berdasarkan hasil uji statistik dengan fisher exact diperoleh nilai p sebesar 0.00 (< 0.05), sehingga disimpulkan ada hubungan yang signifikan antara pola asuh orang tua dengan perkembangan perilaku anak pra sekolah. Pada Anak Usia Pra sekolah harus mulai ditanamkan sikap dan norma kehidupan yang menunjang pembentukan kepribadiannya pada masa mendatang. Kedua orang tua yang bekerja diluar rumah menyebabkan pola pengasuhan juga terbatas bahkan terputus,  untuk itu orang tua yang sibuk bekerja harus menyediakan waktu bercengkrama untuk menstimulasi anak berkembang secara optimal. Orang tua harus berupaya  membentuk pola asuh demokratif dan tidak memberikan kasih sayang berlebihan sehingga anak tidak manja dan kurang matang secara sosial.Kata Kunci : Pola Asuh, Orang Tua Bekerja, Kepribadian Anak

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